Femdom Examples

WHY IS YOUR HUSBAND OR BOYFRIEND INTERESTED IN CHASTITY?

The concept of being denied sexual pleasure for the privilege of pleasing you is highly arousing for your lover. We all have secret fetish dreams, fantasies and hopes and male chastity is just one of those.

It’s a secret fetish that your man finds highly provocative, arousing and very sexy, to the point that even just an image of a chastity device could cause the beginnings of an erection.

It links in with the sexual fantasy of surrendering himself to you in erotic submission.

It’s not just concerned with physical sensations, but the mind, body, emotional and inner most self. He will understand chastity as all encompassing desire, fetish or kink, that’s an intellectual, physical, emotional, sexual and spiritual experience.

From his sexual fantasy perspective the allure is that his loving wife or girlfriend holds the key to his penis. His cock becomes yours, it’s freedom is dependent upon you releasing him. You hold the key to this release. You become his Keyholder.

Your lover believes that he’s masturbating far too much and would like your help to control this by making him wear a chastity device to prevent him touching himself.

He longs to be “Loved, Locked and Owned” by you, and he believes that wearing a chastity device will demonstrate his commitment and faithfulness to you.

He longs to escape from every day realities and to allow his submissive desires freedom. This is a “need” for many men who long to set free their sexual submissiveness in the safety and security of their own homes and with their loving wife or girlfriend.

Orgasm denial is highly arousing to him.

He believes that you are superior to him and needs to demonstrate his acknowledgement of this by wearing a chastity belt or device.

A highly sexy aspect is that your husband will aim to seek his pleasure in pleasing and pleasuring you, thinking of his keyholder’s needs above his own. Wearing a chastity device help him to sexually achieve this.

If he’s found the courage to tell you about his desires and sexual fantasies he’s probably done so because he believes it’s something very special he can share with you, and feels that, in being his keyholder, you may really enjoy and relish it just as much as he.

Chronically? 😅

We both admit that what we do may sound a little extreme, but then there appear to be quite a few couples who simply aren't having sex at all, while we have been enjoying each other more than we have in years.😏

I'll let my husband answer the technical details.

Hey, Tom here.

First, thank you for your concern. For the past 20 odd years that we have dabbled in chastity and denial, I've been aware of the convey tional wisdom that "a man needs to come at least once every {time period} to avoid prostate problems."

The problem is that the {time period} is never really defined by any study; rather it is a guess based on very incomplete data. I've seen once a week once a month, and even once a quarter in various publications. But the true answer is probably that there are a lot of other factors that will have even more of an impact than the frequency of ejaculations.

Probably one's overall health and attention to their body has a bigger influence on prostate issues than anything else. But it does seem to be true that a man's plumbing can get backed up and in some instances cause irritation.

That said, it's pretty easy for men to clean out the plumbing. It doesn't need to be irregular ejaculations (ie, orgasms), so much as the body needs to expel semen. The chastity community talks about milking, but this could just as easily happen with ruined orgasms, as long as one makes the semen flow periodically... for some value of periodic.

In my own case, I have developed the ability to orgasm in my cage while making love. I've mentioned that I wear a strapon harness with a Vixskin for the pleasure of Mrs Edge. I suspect that the rhythm and pressure of my cage bumping into her will, if I'm horny enough, trigger an orgasm. They used to feel ruined, but in the past year they have become especially intense and pleasurable; I wonder if my brain has somehow been rewired to enjoy them because there's no other stimulation. Anyhow, while I do need to ask permission, Mrs Edge enjoys seeing this happen, so she grants me the favor fairly often.

We have been practicing long term lockups for 20 years. I've never had any prostate issues.

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