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going for long walks alone is probably the closest thing we have to a cure for the human condition

now realize that this is what bees have done to us

“everyone is mad at me and they just won’t tell me” —> “no one has said anything about being mad at me and i haven’t done anything to warrant being mad at so if someone is silently fuming about me and not saying anything that’s their problem and actually quite weird of them and i can effortlessly move on with my life”

this took SUCH a huge deal of unlearning because, like so many of you, i came out of a home where being quietly in trouble WAS the default state, and i DID grow up not just with the assumption but borderline religious conviction that Everyone Is Mad At Me, I Am Bad, I Must Exist In A Constant State of Attempting to Pacify The Natural Rage I Inspire In Everyone. and no it actually turns out that my family are the freaks . and yours are too

your udon is writhing

i bet belle and hua mulan would love each other. the filial piety brothers 💪

tomorrow i have to give my daughter’s pikachu plushie gender-affirming surgery

to have a parent like this

saw a post about this earlier but it made me think: tumblr really is the only social media site where I go on and have a good time and then carry on with my day. I know it's completely curated because there are some awful people here but that (the curation) in itself is a privilege of the site. Every other social media site is designed to make you angry for more engagement

wik mayka chaku kʰapa haws kʰapa mama

oh. uh. ma munk-ɬax̣ayam nayka. kʰəltəs tənəs ɬiqaya na ɬatwa inatay mayka laplash