step off the edge with me

”which could mean nothing” is maybe my favorite phrase of all time. where would we be without it

being a people pleaser your whole life is the equivalent of fighting the voice in your head that's always going "maybe i SHOULD dim myself so other people are more comfortable" "maybe i SHOULD overcompensate for other people's insecurities" "maybe i DO deserve being treated like this" "i know they treated me like shit..... but what if they were going through something (repeat for 80 more times until a harsh lesson is learned)" "maybe i DON'T have a right to be annoyed by this thing that any reasonable person would be annoyed by" "maybe i SHOULD stretch myself thin" and it keeps going and there's no tangible end in sight

learning lately that a lot of confidence is about owning up. like "yeah i'm a little addicted to my phone right now" or "yeah i'm not really over this person yet" or "yeah i still get pretty anxious in crowds" just saying anything at all but then following it up w "but i'm trying to get better" and being super nonchalant and unaffected. so powerful. you would literally be undefeatable in the face of even the most judgmental person. no one can judge you for things you already know about yourself and are trying to improve on. the trick is to know yourself from the inside out, to hold yourself accountable, and to actively improve every day. like that is literally the secret to never feeling like you're at the mercy of somebody else's judgment

it's like if you were talking to a friend and they went "you're too sensitive" and then your whole day is ruined because you're like?? no i'm not??? and then you get defensive and start questioning something you never knew about yourself, bc you never dug that deep into your identity. i've been there. but now i'm trying to not only confront the ugliest parts of me, but also own up to them instead of concealing myself and trying to be something i'm not. it's completely fine to not be perfect but to try to be the best you could possibly be. anyone who claims perfection is lying. just own up to ur shit

Percy heard the Oracle say that he's going to be betrayed by a friend, and he goes "Fuck you, my best friend Grover would NEVER do that he's my OG."

well my goal for 2024 is just to have a good day 👍

Girls will be like Idk why im so unproductive recently and then you ask whats going on in their life and they list eight lifestopping crisies and then say 'yeah but i should be fine :/ '

Casting a spell on you that makes you happy, by the way. Your day tomorrow will be pretty good. Something nice will happen, maybe.

Shakespeare could only aspire to this level of dramatic irony.

this is funnier the earlier in march you reblog it it

✨ it’s march ✨

😔 it’s march 😔

the funniest part of much ado is after claudio and hero get engaged and beatrice is like “meanwhile I’m over here!!! forever alone!!! I wish someone like don pedro would ask me to marry him haha!!” and don pedro is like “would you like me to marry you?” and beatrice says no.

Love you guys it's ok to be lonely and sort of feel like you're in your loser era lol the ups and downs are proof we are alive and not just coasting