don't psychoanalize me

DO YOU REALLY FUCKING THINK THAT A RAPE IS A FUN NEW ANGLE FOR A ROMANCE IN YOUR TV SHOW?

DID YOU EVEN READ ANYTHING ON THIS? ON THE CYCLE OF ABUSE? NO. YOU JUST WROTE A SAPPY APOLOGY AND PUT YOUR AMBIANCE MUSIC OVER IT AND PUT IT OUT THERE FOR IMPRESSIONABLE, YOUNG, UNEDUCATED MINDS TO SEE. You have the nerve to show people that it is right and okay to rape some one because it’ll all be okay if you say sorry. This will no doubt influence someone and create a plethora of new victims.

You know what fucking disgusts me, is that his apology is EXACTLY what my abuser, my rapist would say, if I had gotten an apology. Right down to ‘wishing he could have seen my eyes,’ or whatever the fuck he said. I cannot express the feeling of my stomach churning as I watched that and I watched every scene of them together because of that.

I was behind it, I was totally behind it. The forgiving him and everything? Because you do need to do that for yourself. Harboring anger doesn’t do much. I related to Pennsatucky, I felt for her. But now? They’re back together, kissing? The rapist has no consequence to his action?

And of course he won’t rape her again, because this is a tv show. They’ll get married, have the 2.5 kids and a golden retriever and everything will be perfect. That’s not how it works in the real world. Rape is a real life situation. Seeing this on tv will show people that is how you should respond to someone who has violated you like that. That they are sorry, and it will never happen again, and that it is healthy and safe to go back to them. You know what that is called in real life? Not the dog and the kids and the happily ever after, it’s called the cycle of abuse. And it doesn’t end pretty. This dark, edgy writing with the rape, the torture, and everything else fucked up with this show is uncalled for a disgusting.

me: then break up with him

girl: but-

Equestrians are not the only ones chasing “colored ribbons”. Was it really necessary to put this dog through such stress? At one point he could hardly move. There is also a question of conformation here, back and croup are too low.

I do get a lot of messages on here telling me to stick to “real” abuse, however this is supposed to be the 21st century and is not money and human greed enough to qualify for abuse?.

Crufts is coming under a lot of questioning in recent years, a BBC documentary showed how some of Britain’s most popular dogs are plagued by problems of inbreeding. Also dogs have been poisoned (by other competitors) and mishandled.

British animal charity the RSPCA has been a vocal opponent of Crufts in recent years.

“It believes judging dogs on their looks can cause suffering and not in their “best interests”. And it believes the recent controversies back up its position.

“This is an opportunity to highlight to the public that it’s not [just] these little incidents,” campaign manager Violet Owens told the BBC.

“It [values] looks over the welfare and health of dogs which can lead to their early death, and that’s not acceptable if we’re really a nation of dog lovers.”

Over breeding has tragic consequences for the health and well being of dogs, below is the list of consequences for the breed of dog shown in the video.

 German Shepherd

Hip dysplasia

Elbow dysplasia

Blood disorders

Digestive problems

Epilepsy

Chronic eczema

Keratitis—an inflammation of the cornea

Dwarfism

Flea allergies

Bloat

Gastric disorders

Panosteitis—a painful bone disease that causes periods of sudden pain and lameness

Spinal paralysis

Eye disease