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So accurate and it hurts to understand
damn i knew i forgot something today
Oh right *floats back to body*
anyone ever get that moment where you could be having a great fine time and then suddenly everything, the world, just goes completely silent and lonely for no reason and literally everything feels so empty and you feel so hollow
Yes and sometimes it doesn't go away for ages. Until I find something to distract myself for another short time...
True storyšš¤«šš¤£

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All DID systems are valid.
If you only have one alter, you are valid.
If you have over a hundred alters, you are valid.
If your alters have alters, you are valid.
If your alters are all dynamically different, you are valid.
If your alters are all subtly different, you are valid.
If you are actively aware of all your alters, you are valid.
If you are not actively aware of any or all of your alters, you are valid.
If you quickly established communication with your system, you are valid.
If you are still struggling with system communication, you are valid.
If you knew about your DID your whole life, you are valid.
If you only came to learn about your DID as an adult, you are valid.
If you donāt remember your trauma yet, you are valid.
If you have frequent bursts of resurfacing memories, you are valid.
If you have fictives or factives in your system, you are valid.
If you have no introjects in your system, you are valid.
If you have primarily Littles in your system, you are valid.
If you have no Littles in your system, you are valid.
All DID systems are valid. We are varied and that is a beautiful thing. Let us celebrate and support one another.
Reblog this if you are a system
With recent stigmatization of Dissociative Identity Disorder in the media, I want to prove a point that systems exist, that Dissociative Identity Disorder exists, and that we are more common than the world thinks.
People think DID is an oddity, that every person Diagnosed with it has violent tendencies and thus that we as a community are scary.
I want the world to know we are your friends, neighbors, coworkers, managers, supervisors, boyfriends, girlfriends, spouses; and we are NOT the stigma. So if you reblog to show youāre a system, put in the tag the number of people in your system.
LETāS SHOW THE WORLD WE EXIST
āIf people could see me the way I see myself - if they could live in my memories - would anyone, anyone, love me?ā
ā John Green
Reblog this if you are a system
With recent stigmatization of Dissociative Identity Disorder in the media, I want to prove a point that systems exist, that Dissociative Identity Disorder exists, and that we are more common than the world thinks.
People think DID is an oddity, that every person Diagnosed with it has violent tendencies and thus that we as a community are scary.
I want the world to know we are your friends, neighbors, coworkers, managers, supervisors, boyfriends, girlfriends, spouses; and we are NOT the stigma. So if you reblog to show youāre a system, put in the tag the number of people in your system.
LETāS SHOW THE WORLD WE EXIST
All DID systems are valid.
If you only have one alter, you are valid.
If you have over a hundred alters, you are valid.
If your alters have alters, you are valid.
If your alters are all dynamically different, you are valid.
If your alters are all subtly different, you are valid.
If you are actively aware of all your alters, you are valid.
If you are not actively aware of any or all of your alters, you are valid.
If you quickly established communication with your system, you are valid.
If you are still struggling with system communication, you are valid.
If you knew about your DID your whole life, you are valid.
If you only came to learn about your DID as an adult, you are valid.
If you donāt remember your trauma yet, you are valid.
If you have frequent bursts of resurfacing memories, you are valid.
If you have fictives or factives in your system, you are valid.
If you have no introjects in your system, you are valid.
If you have primarily Littles in your system, you are valid.
If you have no Littles in your system, you are valid.
All DID systems are valid. We are varied and that is a beautiful thing. Let us celebrate and support one another.

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anyone ever get that moment where you could be having a great fine time and then suddenly everything, the world, just goes completely silent and lonely for no reason and literally everything feels so empty and you feel so hollow
omen-system replied to your post āI keep wanting to make a discord for systems. I know, and only talkā¦ā
Hey if nothing else you can always chat with us! We donāt understand the aggressively anti-endo bullshit either to be quite frank
If you looked back aboutā¦two, three months on this blog?
You would find the same behavior from me.
Would it also surprise you I was Mod Smeargle, on altercourse?
The treatment I gave to first order system is nothing short of uncalled for and wrong. I recognize my mistakes. I wonāt pretend to be a hypocrite, either, and sayĀ āI donāt get it.ā
I do get it.
It starts with ignorance and ends with fear. Fear, and blame, and anger.Ā
Nobody wants to be a system. But having someone to blame for our suffering makes everything easier.Ā
The jump fromĀ āI donāt understand your experience, because the book says this, and I experience this, which is nothing like thatā toĀ āyouāre obviously a fake, the book says so, and I say soā is very, very short. More like just a few steps apart.
When the truth is? The only reason the book says those things, is because that the (VERY) small number of researchers and psychologists who have studied DID, have only known of it for the thirty or so years itās been prominent. Hell, before Sybil, we were not known except to each other as plural entities. Did we know what the hell we were doing in those days? No. We werenāt the professionals.
And as much as I preach on the DSM V, it does have its problems, and its addendums. Edits and omissions to the book are viewable on their website, but there has been no changes to the Dissociative Disorders entries since its print. Before the DSM-V, there was no requirement for trauma. But a recurrent trend has been that most case studies of those with diagnosed DID/OSDD has been those who did have some traumatic, or highly stressful, experience in their early youth.
But that is not always the case.
And honestly, our best resources? Come from some of the most heinous doctors. Ross is not the lone perpetrator in forcing people to believe they went through trauma.
Though you wonāt see any anti-endogenic blog acknowledging that.Ā
Ross has a special facility and method of recovery stationed here in Dallas. But Iād rather be dead than ever go there. Iāve heard enough horror stories from those whoāve gone, or who have been under Rossās recovery structure with other therapists.
With that in mind, think of this: Of the small amount of doctors, do you think any of THEM have any idea what an endogenic system is?
If you try to Google research on endogenic systems, youāll find none. A few endogenic system blogs on here have a source to one, but I donāt keep that at my side. Iāll believe it when the results come out. Iām sure the tumblr community wonāt be quiet about them.Ā
And the idea that the plural community existed before DID came along? No. DID was always there, it just wasnāt a disorder. It was a community. It was a group of individuals who share a common experience. There was noĀ ātraumagenic vs. endogenicā back then because that wasnāt the point. The point was alters. And systems. Thatās it. It wasnāt about where you come from, it was about what you are now.Ā
Which I find that such verbally abusive endo-criticals tend to ignore the fact that, in most cases? Endogenic systems simply identify as such, because the DID description doesnāt fit them. Thatās it. The only thing they are missing, is a trauma source. Dissociation? They have it. Switch headaches? They have them. Introjects? They have them. PTSD? A lot of them have it. Amnesia? Most have some level of amnesia.Ā
Literally the one difference, is that they do not have a recollection of early trauma.
Yet, much like those who enforce the belief that they MUST have been abused or traumatized onto their patients, these people insist there is no other way to be, than to have trauma.Ā
That, in and of itself, can cause great distress. Enough to split. Let alone, the formation of false memories of abuse. Have they considered such? No. Not in the chats I was involved in.
Am I saying these endo-critical people are as bad as Ross? God, no. Heavens, no. Please, donāt ever think theyāre remotely close to such a monster. They may be verbally abusive, threading the line between cyberbullying and outright hate speech, but my god Iād never think of that and I implore no one else think so either. But I can see how the impressions of RossāsĀ āyou can only come from this, you just donāt rememberā ideology came from the DSM-Vās rather flawed entry.Ā
The other thing I know they have most anger about, is the spiritual persons within peopleās systems.
I still do not feel comfortable with tulpas, or alters that did not split from trauma. I am especially terrified of soulbonds. Before, when I was still strongly endo-critical, I believed these things had to be delusions, or the altersā false belief that they came from beyond, when in reality, those were pseudomemories. I still hold onto that, but much more leniently. Iāve now learned, rather frightfully and painfully, that this belief came from a cult that used these very same concepts, but twisting them, to affect and even control its victims. Me being one of them. And because of that, I can never trust the honesty of not coming from splitting through stress.Ā
Iāve lost the plot here so let me go back.
Endo-critical individuals make up their own reasons for things endogenics do/are, because hearing their side takes more critical thinking than they might have been taught how to do. They try to make a simple explanation for the way non-trauma systems are, but thatās the thing: There is no simple explanation. This diagnosis, this disorder, is still in its infancy. So little is known, and the facts we do know, come from rather questionable sources, but those sources are all we have right now. To use them as gospel, is dangerous. The truth is, there is no truth. There is noĀ āthis is how it is,ā because we still donāt know. We donāt know. We are only just now looking at the broader picture. We are only just now beginning to ask,Ā āwhat about systems without trauma?ā When not long ago, that was never a question anyone would have posed, and didnāt, until the requirement was added to the DSM.
I canāt say there is a universal, concrete truth that fits every single scenario poised at it. Iām saying weāre too early in the game to talk like we have one yet. And trying to sayĀ āthis is the only way, we know everything now, we donāt need anything elseā is absolutely useless, and completely giving into beginnerās bias ā thinking that, because we only know what we think we need to know, or what we think is enough, that we must be able to know everything else. When, in reality, weāre only just stepping into the water. We donāt have a single clue whatās in the ocean of answers as to how multiplicity comes to be. We can pretend we do, we can cuddle up with our books and our research and say we have definitive proof ā but those samples are so small. And the research is so new. And the psychological community still sees us as controversial in the kindest word.Ā
We are far, far too early in the learning process to declare we know everything there is to know.
It took twenty years before Generalized Anxiety Disorder was recognized enough by the psychology community to be given as a diagnosis to my father, in his 20s. That was in the 1980s. They didnāt have a pill to offer him until the late 1990s. Itās now the lateĀ ā10s, and we still donāt have all the answers. We still donāt have the cure-all medication ā just a growing study of which work best for each individual. We still donāt know what causes it. But itās been sixty years and counting.Ā
Itās irresponsible, and shortsighted, to goĀ āthe book is perfected! The answers are here!āĀ
Multiplicity is not something that can be measured, or fit into boxes. One size does not fit all. It wasnāt long ago that trauma was not required for a diagnosis.Ā
Back to these endo-critical people and the folly in their thinking, besides it coming from outrage, PTSD (anger and outward-directed hostility is a symptom of unprocessed or badly processed trauma), the Dunnung-Krueger Effect they suffer from, and the intentional misunderstanding of endogenic systems, making up their own narratives and generalizations for a group that is far more diverse than they might feel comfortable wrapping their mind around ā besides all that, I think itās the sense of community. This website, and if you have observed the outside world enough, survives on us vs. them idealism as means of survival and clan belonging-ship. Taking a neutral, or swaying seat, is uncommon and in some areas, unheard of. Exclusivity, and echo chambers, coupled with confirmation bias and some traces of cognitive dissonance, group superiority, and intentionally (or unconsciously) spinning the other sideās words and even disagreeing facts to further oneās predefined beliefs, is a pandemic in society, and these individuals are a great example of this.Ā
And Iām sad to say, not all of them will come to this conclusion, that what they are doing is serving no one. Itās harming, and is self-serving, and is correcting nothing.Ā
I used to be intensely and vocally anti-endogenic, because my traumatizer was an endogenic system that made me deeply question my own authenticity as a system, but also because in the past, I and my multiplicity was made to be a spiritualĀ āgift,ā and exploited. You can see my cognitive dissonance and back-and-forth arguing in my older posts. It wasnāt until I was isolated from these echo chambers, and given a chance to really reflect on who I am, and whatās made me who I am today, that I could really come to realize that what I was doing was the result of my own pain, and my frustration that nothing could be done about it. I didnāt hate endogenics ā I hated the belief that they could be this way without the trauma I suffered from. I was envious of that. I thought them being multiple, without trauma, was a mockery of mine ā but in truth, I just wanted to be able to sayĀ āI wasnāt hurt, or used, or abused,ā and have it be true. I didnāt want to be a victim. And I didnāt want to acknowledge that there are endogenic systems who DO have trauma.Ā
I wouldnāt be surprised if this is the case for a lot of them, as well.
All this said, what Iāve done is done. Iāve left those hateful posts up, because while I am ashamed, I shouldnāt hide them. I refuse to give people the false idea that I was always this moderate. People whoāve known me, know the truth of that lie. And people who donāt know me, deserve to know where I came from. Whether or not my past actions affects their perception of my character is up to them. But Iām always earnest to encourage others to give me a second chance.Ā
But I refuse to be a hypocrite. I will not denounce the verbally violent actions of others, if I myself claim that I have never done so. Because I have. I definitely have. And you, and others, deserve to know I used to be like that. But people can change. And Iām hoping Iāve distanced myself, and grown, enough to make it known I no longer wish to behave in such a manner, and do not approve of it. (But Iām definitely not proud of myself for it. Changing yourself is nothing to boast about. Growth involves integrity and humility, not to be used as self-promotion.)
Edit: The Dunnung-Krueger Effect is explained here. And I invite everyone to learn about it. The more who know of it, maybe the less weāll be culprits of it.
Having a disability or a chronic illness, whether itās physical or mental, sucks rocks sometimes. And thatās okay.
Itās okay to say āthis fucking sucksā
Itās okay to say āI hate thisā
Itās okay to think negatively, to have a bad day. Nobody can be positive 24/7
You have the right to be angry, or frustrated, or sad. That doesnāt mean you are dealing with things badly, that doesnāt mean you have been set back, that doesnāt make you a bad person.
You are allowed to complain about things that make your life difficult.

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a day in the life when iām depressed
Purpose: To outline what to do during the week in the simplest terms.
morning
play your favorite music upon waking up, maybe make a morning playlist
step outside, even for 5 minutes, to get fresh air and look at the sky
write about the dream you had if you had one
message someone āgood morningā, start a conversation
take deep breaths, set intentions for the day
read a few pages from a book
have some coffee or tea, make your favorite breakfast
take a short walk
set a small goal for the day
clean up any clutter you might have
afternoon
study something, learn at least (1) thing
eat a proper lunch
talk to someone if youāre lonely
move your body through exercise or yoga
write in my journal
watch a movie or a favorite show
take another walk
wash dishes, do any chores
evening
have dinner
shower again
continue reading
write in my journal about how my day went
listen to music
prepare for bed
night
turn everything off
wash my face
brush my teeth
meditate
read a few pages from a book
sleep