I got locked out of my actual blog and don't know when I'll get it back, so this is going to be either my new temporary or permanent blog. I'm using the opportunity to start over on a blank slate, but if you were a mutual of mine I'm probably going to tell you my old URL.
Pronouns: he/him, masculine or neutral terms only
Feel free to send me asks or DMs, I see them although I may not always respond. All likes, reblogs, tags and comments are always welcome unless explicitly stated otherwise.
Minors can interact, but I am an adult and have a tag for 18+ posts. If you're not an adult, please stay away from those posts and block the tag if you don't want to see that stuff. You can find it at the bottom under the cut. Also I'd prefer if you don't follow me if you're younger than 18, if you're under 15 I'm going to actively soft block you.
About me:
I'm in my 20s, living with a little purring furball. I'm interested in creating stuff (whether that is drawing, painting, playing guitar, crocheting, 3D printing, soldering, baking or cooking) and taking things apart to fix them, reuse them, figure them out or modify them. I've taken apart most of the electric devices I own at least once.*
I am neurodivergent (autism, CPTSD and chronic depression, maybe ADHD) and queer. I try not to, but I might sound very bored/dismissive/rude/unexcited even when that is not the case. I try to use tone tags to circumnavigate that issue, but if I don't, please don't assume the worst. Criticism is always welcome, as long as it's in good faith and constructive.
(*I work in IT and am qualified as an electrician, so don't do that if you don't know what you're doing.)
About this blog:
I try to tag common triggers, but I might miss something occasionally. Please tell me if I do, as well as when there is a thing I am not tagging you'd like me to tag in the future.
This blog has a 0 tolerance policy for any kind of radfeminism, if you are any flavor of radfem, you're not welcome here (TERF, TIRF, SWERF, TRF, whatever). Nor do I tolerate any other kind of bigotry (racism, ableism, queerphobic, classism, saneism, etc.) or exclusionary behaviour (e.g. biphobia, aphobia, intersexism, transmisia, exorsexism, etc.).
Additionally, I am anti censorship, death penalty, moralising kink and bio-/gender essentialism, and I am pro bodily autonomy, body neutrality, sex neutrality, human rights for all and using conflicting labels. If you take issue with any of that, I suggest you save your time and go somewhere else.
NSFW asks and DMs are also fine, but the same rules as for normal ones still count, on top of no messages from minors. Also no forcefem, detrans, dd/lg or anything involving piss/shit/vomit. I'll probably expand this section in the future.
I might edit this post in the future with new tags/fandoms/rules/etc. I'll tag when it's been the last time I've done so.
Fandoms/Interests:
I'm not always active in all of the fandoms, but I am open for talking about all of them as well as my interests.
✧ Disco Elysium
✧ Pathologic
✧ Marble Hornets
✧ OFF
✧ ƎNA
✧ Undertale/Deltarune
✧ DHMIS
Tags:
#✧ old man yells at cloud <- personal/original posts
#✧ yapping <- reblogs with commentary
#✧ putting them in the plinko <- blorbo/fandomposting
#✧ mdni <- 18+ posts
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Wowsers, you actually read the whole thing? If you actually read all that, then you get a cookie for your attention -> 🍪
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I think one of the funniest abortion stances I've heard was from my parents neighbor. He's a like, hard-core libertarian viking larper guy who is very tall and very fat and very bald.
He believes a fetus is human with a soul, but also its "basically attacking the woman's body" so if she wants to get rid of it, that's "basically self-defense". He compared it to shooting a home invader. So he supports abortion not as healthcare, but as killing a baby in self-defense
that's my stance except babies don't become ensouled until their first breath so it's self defense but without killing, it's like taking dewormer or getting heimliched while choking on a chicken bone
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we have to start running a massive PSA campaign to young gay people so everyone understands there is a difference between being a dom and being a top and between being a sub and being a bottom. and also that sometimes you are neither a sub nor a bottom and you're just like shy. we need to be handing out flyers we need ads at every train station spreading the word
i was not expecting this to get notes. i appreciate the thank yous and acknowledgments in the tags from fellow shys who top or dom and are tired of assumptions
5. It’s hard to be offended when white people jokes involve bland food/tourist dads in socks and sandals/white girls in yoga pants obsessed with pumpkin spice/suburban PTA moms and other harmless and mostly true stereotypes while jokes about POC involve them being called thugs/criminals/slurs/uneducated/illegal immigrants.
6. They’re usually really fucking funny and don’t perpetuate stereotypes that will ever affect me economically, politically, or cause me any true harm, let alone create risks that “justify” my murder and/or death
I don't know if anyone has heard of the Trans Period Pride situation that happened a short while ago, but it has shown me why advocacy is important for all of us and how we are affected in different ways within the community.
Fo those who do not know, there was an event organizaed in Boston called Trans Period Pride which was made to give resources and information to those within the community who bleed. It was supposed to help give advice and care to transmasc folks, nonbinary folks and trans men while being inclusive and supportive of trans folks.
But Fox news and other conservatives caught wind of it and got extremely upset to the point the organizers having to cancel the initial event (they ended up rescheduling it). Why? Because they assumed it was for trans women, and got upset about trans women "claiming to bleed and have periods". Mind you, in no way did the organizers hint that this event was catered towards trans women, but because conservatives can't use their brains and their phones to function properly, they assumed it was an event for trans women.
On one hand, there's clear blatant transmisogyny and transphobia directed at trans women. When ever people see trans, the only thing they know or care much for are trans women and transfems, they direct all their hate at them which is the horrible impact of hypervisibility. People choose not to care for or understand trans folks, and only latch on to what they don't like.
On the other hand, there's anti-transmasculinity, transphobia and erasure directed at nonbinary folks and trans men. Because many of these people didn't even realize trans men existed in the first place, didn't care to know and went ahead and nearly caused the removal of an event that could benefit the lives of transmasculine people and trans men. Some of these people DID know we existed and still hated the fact that we "co-opted" their experience as cis women. Some mentioned us only as a tool to further attack trans women. And all this behaviour ended in them harassing the organizers. I'm glad they still decided to schedule the event, but there are instances like this where they don't put it back up. And tras men/transmascs/nonbinary folks who have limited support or information on things like this have little to nowhere to go that would accept them.
This is an example of what discrimination can look like for the trans folks within the community; trans women and transfems get attacked at the forefront which leads to harm, harassment public surveillance, and even death. Anyone else gets treated the same while being stripped from access to support and care, and ignored when struggling as a result by folks both in and out of the community. And at times we even have overlapping experiences, but erasure and dismissal is far too prevalent in transmasc's/ trans men's spaces and nonbinary ones too.
And I'm glad that there's been a growing conversation on the erasure of transmascs and trans men in advocacy, in the community, and in media. We need to center trans women in the advocacy of trans rights, we also need to center trans men and nonbinary folks as well because we are all being horribly impacted by this in different ways, under different stats.
This really is a time to come together and fight, and to remember each and everyone of us are important in this conversation.
my biology professor has such a chaotic energy about him, last week i went to his office hours and somehow we ended up on the topic of gay marriage:
he said that when he lived in texas they changed the law to define marriage as “between a man and a woman in a house of religious worship with the intention to have children” so he filed his taxes as single and when they called him up like “you filed married last year” he was like “you changed the law, i was married by a judge in a courthouse and i have no intention of having kids” and they told him “you know who that law was for” and i guess he hung up on them and did not, in fact, pay taxes as a married man that year
Update: The Utah book ban has, in fact, resulted in the Bible being banned in elementary and middle schools in Davis County, and high schoolers now only have limited access to the King James Version, due to “vulgarity and violence.”
Now the Book of Mormon is under consideration for a ban as well. The parent who complained said that it was very violent.
I think a lot of people would benefit from unlearning the idea that casual sex is inherently disgusting, harmful, or immoral just because they personally don’t want to partake in it. You can stand up for sexual safety and consent without acting like people who enjoy fucking strangers are degenerates. I take no issue with anyone asserting boundaries or stating that they’re not interested in certain kinds of sex or even sex as a whole. But when you condemn or express disgust at others for engaging in consensual sex, that’s when you start to sound like a puritan.
Btw, this includes self-proclaimed “feminists” who shame and lecture women for giving men “access” to their bodies. Bodies are not commodities and sex is not inherently transactional. You don’t lose anything by having sex on purpose with a person you find attractive. Sex is not some metaphysically transformative thing that bonds you to the other person forever. It is literally not that deep.
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dick makes people mentally ill. dick havers, dick wannabes and dick lovers are all insane. it's like toxoplasmosis, you have compulsive need to defend and push and worship dicks all the time and spead your dick mania to everywhere you go.
this seems rational and grounded in empirical evidence
The way adult fandom people hold indie online creators and cartoons to a much higher standard than their actual local politicians. You could be putting that energy into terrorizing and protesting conservatives at your town hall and actually make a good material impact on the world but instead you're background checking everything the trans woman who made the amazing digital circus has ever said
Terms relating to the discrimination of transgender and intersex people
Transphobia - most well known term on this list probably, can describe the fear, hatred, and aversion of transgender people. It came into use in the 1980s
Transmisogyny - a term that describes the unique combination of transphobia and misogyny that trans women and similar identities face. Coined by Julia Serano in her book Whipping Girl.
Transandrophobia/Anti-transmasculinity - a term that describes the unique prejudice trans men and similar identities face. It is sometimes, controversially, labeled as transmisandry. There has been a lot of discourse surrounding these terms. Transandrophobia was coined by st-Dionysus here on tumblr.
Exorsexism/Enbyphobia - a term that describes prejudice that nonbinary people face, specifically because of their rejection of the gender binary. Exorsexism has also been used to describe discrimination against intersex people who don’t fix into the binary. It was coined by Vergess here on tumblr.
Intersexism - a term that describes the unique discrimination intersex people face. Unknown coiner
Cissexism - a term that describes the belief that cisgender identities are more valid and natural than transgender and nonbinary identities
Transmisogynoir - a term that describes the unique prejudice black trans women face. The term was coined by a writer named Trudy on her blog, the Gradient Lair.
Transandronoir - a term that describes the unique prejudice black trans men face. Unknown coiner
Misogynoir - a term that describes the systemic oppression of black women. Was coined by Moya Bailey in her book What is Misogynoir? to describe oppression of both cis black woman and trans black women, though transmisogynoir is used more commonly when talking about the latter
Intergynesexism - a term that describes the specific oppression of intersex people who were assigned female at birth. Coined by me
Interandrosexism - a term used to describe the specific oppression of intersex people who were assigned male at birth. Coined by me
Intercissexism - a term used to describe the weaponization of the terms afab and amab to try to misgender trans people in some sort of way. Used to describe trans people who uphold the idea of sex and “biological gender.” Coined by me
Viderephobia - a term used to describe the discrimination transgender and nonbinary individuals face from the differences of what society perceives their gender as and how they themselves act and present themselves. Coined by me
Predatorization - a term that describes the phenomenon of labeling transgender people as predators. This is usually against trans women, but generally affects older transgender people. Coined by me
Transableism - a term that describes the unique intersection of transphobia and ableism that disabled trans people face. NOT TO BE CONFUSED WITH PEOPLE WHO WISH TO TRANSITION TO BE DISABLED. Coined by me
Transenphobia - a term used to describe the discrimination against trans people who do not desire to transition or transition “completely.” Coined by me
> Artist only draws skinny people
>> No one says anything
> Artist draws all people with body fat
>> They apparently have some sort of fat fetish
> Artist draws everyone aggressively white / pale
>> No one says anything
> Artist has all POC ocs
>> It's "blackwashing" (its literally their own ocs)
> Artist draws all trans people as perfectly passing
>> No one says anything
> Artist draws trans people that dont pass as well and dont fit into the cisgender norms (women with facial hair, men with hips, etc)
>> They're making caricatures with the intent of harming people
ppl only ever get upset by things that arent the super hetero cis skinny white capitalist shit / directly oppose it. like cmon.
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Pixie be AAC device user is not a young child . and . but all AAC device vocabularies exactly same as the for children . no words for relationships and more “adult “ conversations .
have not seen any AAC device vocabulary have words for any “private” body parts . can not tell caregivers about having a problem with some “ private “ body part . no pages for to talk about serious brain “trouble” either .
we people what use AAC devices are very most likely to be hurt by bad people because them people know we can not tell really what happened .
AAC device businesses need to do better. speech pathologists need to do better , and caregivers , and parents , and guardians . all need to do better .
Pixie HAVE grid from smart box . Is been Pixies primary AAC device for years . Pixies original speech therapist STILL had add genitals to body page AND had find switch , buried in settings , for make grid actually show not - censored symbols . ( And also same same with all not - straight identity words too , because of same same censorship . )
Them words and symbols being available to children and especially intellectual / cognitive disability people , too often make not - disabled people so very uncomfortable , and so get excluded from default vocabularies . THAT is what this post was about , automatic censoring of people what use symbol based AAC devices . Grid not exception to this .
These these absolutely critically needed words need be include in all AAC devices AND make visible *by default* . No needing to dig through settings to find the switch that make these symbols appear . No needing ask for help put in these words .
Pixie not demand perfection , just a end to automatic by default censoring of words from people what depend on symbol based AAC . No more excuses !!
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#grid has a genitals page for both the child and adult vocabulary sets
#ive only used the childrens set but based on whats already in that one
#id guess the adult has more #its not perfect #no aac is #but grid is pretty good #and super flexible #(im an slp and we definitely need to do better with aac as well as with many other things!)
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Not allowing people to have proper terminology for topics of their choosing on AAC devices is ableism and censorship!
