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Hydraqueer is a flag I made for Headmates who feel like their queer identity is an extension from another source that has at least one other headmate derived from it too, which might cause dysphoria and/or conflict if the identities don't align. As in splits/introjects, Fictives and factives

Atertiary - an umbrella term for any identifiable amount of lacking a tertiary attraction/s (aesthetic, platonic, sensual, alterous) regardless of if one is on the asexual or aromantic spectrum.

Conflict Aspec - When someone, generally neurodivergeent but not necessarily, identifies as asexual, aromantic, or atertiary and doesn't experience a complete lack of attraction, but they attribute the attraction they do feel to another factor that is in conflict.

For example, someone may identify as aromantic, Conflict Asexual, and Atertiary and explain that while they don't feel attraction, they experience feelings that can be easily confused as sexual attraction because of symptoms of a mental health condition. Someone else may explain that while they do feel some romantic attraction, it manifests from a human need of closeness and not a real desire to have romance.

Atertiary was mostly for summarizing but I thought a flag could be fun! I do want to acknowledge that there are two similar terms that I know of, omni Aspec (zero attraction or tertiary attraction), and Electio Aroace (Zero attraction or tertiary attraction but desires any/one kind of relationship/s)

Conflict aspec stripes represent attractions, darkened to represent being in conflict, aesthetic red, sensual orange, platonic gold, alterous bright blue, romantic green, sexual purple. Black for the frustration or confusion from conflict in your identity.

Taken from Faux, as in fake, imitation. Faux in the sense of something incapable of perfectly imitating a subject, an uncanny being...Used as a metaphor to describe gender expression! This is self indulgent.

Can apply broadly, basically any gender/feeling that's spooky/uncanny/monster vibes that presents as a binary gender.

Ie, 1. Something that is not binary but is attached to a binary gender by resemblance[how you present]. 2. Gender like how a mimic isn't human but it pretends to be human and wants to be treated like one despite not identifying as one. 3. identifying as a masc/fem entity that isn't quite right, because saying you identify as a man/woman doesn't feel quite right even though that's how you want to be perceived. Etc!

To clarify, this is not encouraging "not a real man/woman" transphobic rhetoric; but to sort of inadvertently reclaim it. Like "nah man you caught me I'm actually a gD.-u🧨&U-⚓-D*$+🐾y!4E ty I feel seen :]"

Faux/*Faus or Fauxs*/Faur/Fauxself or Faurself

Pronounced fou, foes, for, foeself or forself

*Faus and Fauxs intended to be pronounced the same just without including the silent x

The vibe I was going for is when you shine a flashlight into the darkness and the light is swallowed up by the void except for one lone figure that isn't as it seems, shouldn't be there, or seems off entirely. Pale red for adrenaline, white for imitation, yellow for the uncanny, and green for strangeness. The circle, like the base of a gender symbol ♀️♂️⚧️, is dotted to represent the gender being presented not truly being there.

Fun fact, Fauxer is inspired by a lil species I made. Lore to come when I feel like it ✨ otherwise unimportant, just a lil Easter egg.

I personally feel it in the ND way. Masculinity is an imperfect performance and the mask is slipping constantly. Like I can't help but break character because I don't truly understand what masculinity feels like. When I do it's like a horror movie scene of discovering a person has been a mimicking monster the entire time.

I also feel it in the alterhuman way. I'm not masculine feeling at all but it is how I present naturally, I'm masc xenic in the way that you'd call it a blue ocean, it's not actually blue but it almost seems to be. The way a monster on a trail cam almost could seem to be a known animal, but not really.

Other ways I imagined it could apply, you feel like you experience some semblance of a gender because it's how you present, like the presentation comes first before the feeling of gender associated.

No need to ask if you can use/id as, if you feel like you get it you got it :]! The only way it doesn't apply is for when you are closeted and masking as a binary gender, This is for when you want to be perceived as what you are masking as, not when you are hiding something you want to be perceived as.

Shameless self coin, I made this to express my experience with dysphoria lately that I've kind of seen echoed by other people in the past.

Definition :

When someone experiences dysphoria for an attribute while also experiencing euphoria either at different times, different ways, or simultaneously.

Flag/Exclusives :

Two toned heart + blank : for anyone to use (Trans identifying or not)

Smiley Frown : for anyone with bipolar who feels like it influences their gender identity in this way

Paw : For trans/gender diverse Therians/Otherkin who feel an overlap of their species and gender, or that their gender is influenced by their species. Can be in the context of just species dysphoria if you think it fits and you're trans/diverse.

Colors, Etymology, and Examples below :]

I've recently really wanted to begin uploading my art on Tumblr and stuff, And I'll have a more personal/art blog for that set up eventually. But there's been a lot going on and I feel like I've been dark online entirely, so I'm building up to being active again, I guess.

There are some updates to the pinned post, and under the page break is just a little recap of what's happened lately.

Dude to lack of interest and fading passion, this blog may go dormant for awhile. I'm still Xeno and all that but there's nothing I need to coin for us anymore at the moment and I'm pretty at peace with the labels I've found and made for myself.

Short for Xeno incomprehensible.

For when you wouldn't describe your gender with any traditional terms [masc/fem/nonbinary/agender] and would regard it as exclusively xenic. But you're unable to describe it in any way or link it to a known concept [ie, a forest], if there's a way to, or if you can even comprehend your gender. You don't have a gender connection to a specific thing, but to something unknown or non-existent.

Exclusive to xenic only people.

Kind of has some cosmic horror vibes going on with the wordage but it is not exclusive to that 'genre' of xenogenders or anything.

Black represents the 'blank space', purples represent unknown and confusion, and greens represent xenic feelings.

For when you are hesitant to refer to yourself as transgender or cisgender despite fitting the definition. You lean one way or the other but not fully. It can be considered an alternative to questioning or 'idk'. It makes you hesitate if someone asks, you say "I'm transss-? Maybe?" Or "I'm cisss-? Maybe?".

Mostly for fun since I've noticed it when I go to conventions.

[Transss? image ID : a even 9 striped horizontal flag. the colors go in order from top to bottom, greyish blue, light blue, salmon, white, peach in the middle, white, salmon, light blue, greyish blue. Centered on the middle stripe is two white question marks with a peach outline.]

[Cisss? image ID : a seven striped horizontal flange with three even stipes on the top and bottom, but a much thicker stripe in the middle. the colors go in order from top to bottom, Dark greyish blue, greyish blue, light blue, a thick white stripe in the middle, peach, salmon, pale red. ]

I was thinking about making a side blog for non coining stuff, like art and stuff. It's not like I'm polling or anything but just a heads up I suppose. It'll be in the pinned post if I ever get around to it.

So I've had a lot of experiences with people saying 'zipzapzop' in regards to xenogenders. Such as "You could identify as zipzapzop and I wouldn't care!", or "I identify as zipzapzop! [/Sarc]" And so yeah.

This is made for anybody xenogender who don't take the idea too seriously and/or align themselves with the nonsense that people who just don't get it see of the topic. It feels silly and maybe even a little bit defiant. It's dedication to having fun with your identity as well as being intentionally confusing to people who can't open their mind to it.

If you're someone whose response to bad jokes is to do what we've done and make a serious or 'for fun' label out of it, this is for you.

If you disagree in regards to the silliness of xenogenders, that is completely okay. This isn't referring to the concept itself being silly or not to be taken seriously, but more in how someone might view their own identity or respond to remarks about it. You're not any less valid if you refer to yourself light-heartedly or seriously.

Flag is made to kind of look like a snake's fangs in reference to how some people try to make hurtful pointed remarks, But the fun stripes just go right through it because hell yeah. Also a version with a white divide.

Stripes are:

Orange[ish] - Light-hearted fun, promoting the silliness of your identity rather than wanting to be taken seriously.

Pink - Pride, especially in being nonsensical

Purple - having a deeper or more specific idea of gender to be able to identify with xenos. Being beyond the spectrum of male/female/nonbinary/agender

Blue - Resistance and bouncing back from mockery or unacceptance. Taking it in stride.

Light - mild irony.

For when someone is Agender in a specifically xenic way, either just in feeling or using terms like voidgender, missinggender, nullgender, xenoblank etc!

Green : Agender umbrella

Lime : nonconformity

White : absence of traditional gender

Blue : xenogender umbrella

Navy : other disconnections from gender [apathy, trauma, questioning, etc]

As in a rename? Totally!

As in flag? Also yes. Icon inspired by the Lapet faced vulture and Devine The Queen of Filth, a prominent figure in the grotesque drag community .

Not to be confused with

Lapet Faced : a trans, genderqueer, or otherwise GNC person who isn't conventionally attractive and generally feels excluded from their communities because of it.

I've noticed that the level of respect trans people get is very dependent on pretty privilege and not only on "passing" but also how conventional you are to the gender and attractiveness. This presentation embraces the concept of being beautiful without beauty.

Similar to how most people think less of vultures than other birds of prey because of their baldness and role.

One for a general REJECTION of conventional attraction, the other is a purposeful DEDICATION to avoid convention [ie, embracing "being ugly" or accentuate features through the culture of ugly/grotesque drag, etc] And the last is BOTH!