rae

Amazing

hey do you guys wanna see a bunch of pictures of a cat my mum looked after named simply “The Pumpkin”

im starting to irritate myself with my poor mental health like damn can a bitch just keep it together for a minute

unpopular opinion but it’s cool if you don’t want to be in love

like, idk. I used to feel so compelled to make excuses for being single, whether it was self-deprecating jokes about myself or insisting that I was too busy for a relationship or making myself go out on uncomfortable and pointless dates just to make a show of trying to not be single. there’s such an expectation that if you’re single you should be actively working of changing that, and it’s like. nah. there are 9999 other things you can be focusing your time and energy on and if you don’t really feel like being in a relationship now or ever that’s cool.

plot twist: you are everyone's first choice.