I'm going freestyling next weekend for the first time, I just wanted to ask a couple of questions! Is freestyling easier alone or with a friend? Cause I know men will easily approach a small group of girls, but I'm not sure how they'd react to just one! Also, if alone, is it alright to be reading a book/newspaper? I can't decide if that's peak men's interest or make them think that I don't want to talk to anyone! I'm a little nervous about this, but practice makes perfect!
Q1: Is freestyling easier alone or with a friend?
Personally, for me, I’ve only gone freestyling alone. However, I know alot of ladies that do go in groups though. But idk, if you’re an introvert this may be a bit much. *Hmmm, marinates on this for a moment/gather’s thoughts*
Hmm, I still think you should try it by yourself and here’s why….
Your sugar friends may not always be ready when you’re ready to go freestyle. You don’t want to become dependent on them every time you decide to go out freestyling. Instead, you must be independent when it comes to sex work. Hopefully you’ll understand what I mean by this.
Q2: Also, if alone, is it alright to be reading a book/newspaper?
Yes and no, depends on the setting.
For coffee houses, such as Starbucks, yes it’s okay. Just make yourself look approachable. Look happy, smile, enjoy your coffee. Just look like you’re enjoying life. If you see a gentleman that you like, ATTACK! By ATTACK, I mean make eye contact and smile coyly and blink/bat your eyes while you’re smiling, then look away and get back to what you were doing. While smiling show little teeth, not alot. Wait a few minutes, if he leaves, oh well, onto the next victim. But if he stays, wait about 3-4 mins and make eye contact again. Sometimes I walk up and introduce myself, sometimes I don’t. It depends. *I’ll elaborate on this later*
Now for restaurants and hotels that have bars, no. Hotel lobby ehh…maybe. Same rules apply. The only difference is, you may have to buy yourself a drink first. This may not make a difference, but what I like to do is to buy myself a colorful pretty looking drink, like a cosmo. Here’s a list. Oh and if you’re hungry, buy yourself a small plate of food too, lol. Sit up straight, no slouching and wear red lipstick. No seriously, wear red lipstick and don’t wear any other color. If the bar is somewhat empty, that’s okay, sit somewhere near the nearest guy and chat it up with him. Introduce yourself, say something like, “I guess we’re the only ppl here tonight, huh?” Laugh. Smile. Give him a compliment. Wait until he gives you a compliment. Ask him, “So what brings you out this lovely evening?“ Smile while you’re saying this. Continue on with the conversation. Ask where’s he from, what does he like to do for fun, but ask it in a cute/create way like, “So what do you do when you’re not wearing this sexy suit and tie? What do you do for fun?“ You know questions like that! Be interesting, sound interesting, even if you have to tell a fib here and there. Be intriguing! Listen more than you talk. If the guy is shy, you may have to do a little more talking to open him up. It all depends…
Tip: Do you all recall that scene in Bad Teacher when Carmeron Diaz was in the bar!? Even though it’s somewhat exaggerated, I always think about this scene before going out to freestyle. I also think about all the bad bitches I admire such as:
Joseline Hernandez (LHHATL)
I would go into more detail, but…
I may come back later to add some more little tips when it relates to freestyling, but I think this should help you all out for now. :-)
