#freestyling

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lando suffers from Alzheimer. he found out only after he won the world championship, during the break. as days pass by, his headaches only gets worse, the pain interfering with his time with his family, making him not able to enjoy it to the fullest. the new season is approaching soon, and he doesn’t want to be in pain, otherwise he wouldn’t be able to commit to his training sessions. so he went to the doctors, and that’s where he find out.

he doesn’t want to forget anything. not his maiden win in miami 2024. not when mclaren won constructors championship in 2024, then continuing the streak in 2025. not when he achieved his lifelong dream of becoming a world champion in 2025. and most certainly, he doesn’t want to forget the person who’s been through those moments with him, the one who understands him the most, the one who saw his ups and downs. his friend, teammate, rival, his oscar piastri.

What do you call placing yourself in a position that aligns with your goals? Well AI calls it “Strategic”. You’re being strategic when you place yourself in an environment where the kind of men you want to date frequent.

I’ve seen videos on TikTok saying how it is “desperate” to go to upscale restaurants, bars, lounges and coffee shops in upscale neighborhoods with the intention of meeting a man. When in reality it is the smartest thing you can do to take control of your love life. When people say things like “love will find you when you least expect it”. Can the same be said for a job that you want? Is it desperate to apply for jobs better yet should the employer just hire a random person they found on the street? It doesn’t work that way sweetie. This often will be said by people who are already in long term relationships or who want you to stay single or settle or want you to buy their course.

Place yourself in an environment to be found by the kind of man that you want. That is the best way to get what you want. Do your research. Use google to find out the information that you want to know.

1. Only go to places that you would want to be taken on a date to. Don’t go anywhere that you don’t like.

2. Order a single non alcoholic drink and if you get hungry order an appetizer, side or dessert. It will be very cheap. Or just wait until a man comes over and offers to buy you a drink and then order whatever food that you want since he is paying.

3. Be open, friendly and smile. Don’t forget to make eye contact.

How else do you expect to get the life that you want if you don’t place yourself in a position to receive it?

I picked up some BOMB free-styling lessons this morning! It was less about what to do or say when you freestyle and more about how to maneuver/behave. It was so insightful. Here’s what I learned…

First, this goes without saying but its super important. When you go out to a hotel bar, you have to feel comfortable and confident enough to ask men for money. Some of them will shame you about asking for money even AFTER they’ve asked you for sex. Be comfortable enough to ask for what you want.

Do not give every man at the bar your attention. If someone doesn’t come correct or doesn’t look like they’re worthy of your attention, politely brush them off. Because other men at the bar will be paying attention to who you are giving your attention to. If you’re getting lots of attention from guys, don’t give all them your attention - only a very select few. This will raise your worth and eventually someone will step to you correct.

Do not solicit to men who talk too loudly.

Hit up hotels that are known for hosting business conferences! Come dressed to blend in.

If you want to freestyle while you’re on a date with another man, you have to be super discreet and smart about it. The sex worker I was listening to this morning said that when she goes out to a restaurant with a guy, she’s very physically affectionate with him if there are other guys around. Other men that have already noticed you will be jealous and wishful for your attention. So, here’s how I would personally approach this situation: if you spot a guy that clearly wants you, look for opportunities to slip him your number. For instance, once your date goes to the restroom, approach the bartender with a CASH tip and your business card and ask them to slip your info to the guy at the bar that’s been staring at you the entire night. I mean, the guy should look like he can afford you. Don’t just give your number to anyone.

All these tips I picked up got me so amped to try them out, get out of my shell, and take another crack at free-styling! But I also learned that free-styling isn’t suitable for everyone. I’m not talking about the mental/emotional skills needed to free-style, but the fact that these environments are easier to blend to into for some more than others.