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♡ˎˊ˗ here’s an example to help you get out of the victim mindset:

you want to be the best version of yourself with your desires right? whether it be insane intelligence, confidence, desired face & body, being the happiest you’ve ever been…

so think of the old story as a toxic friend.

old story = toxic friend

the act of repeating the old story = toxic friend is pulling at your arm.

meeting new & better friends = new assumptions/living your dream life

you want to be your best self BUT the ACT of repeating the old story is equivalent to this friend literally PULLINGGG at your arm, not wanting you to be friends with those who are better for you (aka living in your new assumptions, your dream life)

a true friend would want the best for you, right? exactly! you know what’s best for you, you know what to do! so let THEM go. LET THE OLD STORY GO. AND GO TO THOSE NEW AND BETTER FRIENDS!!! they are literally standing there, waiting for you to claim them, to run to them!!

☆ all possibilities exist the moment you claim it’s yours. what are you waiting for?!

❝ don’t be afraid, for courage is necessary. ❞

this toxic friend (old story) does NOTHING to benefit you the more you stay with them (the more you repeat the old story). staying with them will only set you up for repeating an old cycle you so badly want to get out of.

you’re seriously gonna let this “friend” hold you back from living your best life ??? couldn’t be me. i’m bigger than this toxic friend AND YOU ARE TOO! i know i could do better. AND YOU CAN TOO!

“be still and know that I AM GOD.”

but THE BIG THING IS, all of us have been there. leaving a toxic person behind hasn’t always been easy right? this is where persistence comes in.

the more you pull your arm back from their grip, the more the strength of it’s grip on you will decrease.

let me say that in a law of assumption way: the more you persist in your new assumptions, the less your old beliefs will have a hold on you.

☆ what you focus on grows. they will get weaker and you will get stronger.

☆ you will be the lion and your old assumptions will be grasshoppers.

☆ you assumptions are plants. your awareness is the water, sun, and whole source of nutrition. so, ask yourself which assumptions you want to grow? the old or new story?

♡┊quotes:

“just as a branch withers and dies if the sap of the vine ceases to flow towards it, so do things and qualities pass away if you take your attention from them; because your attention is the sap of life which sustains the expression of your life.” — n.g, your faith is your fortune

“as we revalue ourselves and begin to feel ourselves to be the giant, a center of power, we automatically change our relationship to the giants, deducting these former monsters to their true place, making them appear to be the helpless grasshoppers.” — n.g, at your command

“you are not going to die to anything by your former limitations but they are going to die as you move away from them, for they live only in your consciousness. in this deep or expanded consciousness you will find yourself to be a power that you had never dreamt of before.”

☆ soon enough, your new assumptions + affirmations will make you feel so much better that you won’t even THINK or BE PHASED by the mention of the old story.

☆ your desired self exists because of persistence!

** AND LOOK! do you ever get reminded of all the good times you had with that toxic person? and you find yourself missing them a little? **

☆ thinking these thoughts & missing them is the same as having negative thoughts slip into your mind sometimes; it’s totally normal!

so this is what you would say to yourself:

“i do miss them but i’m glad i left them in the past because i know they weren’t good for me. i wouldn’t have gotten to where i’m at if it wasn’t for my courage.”

whenever the old story comes up, just flip it and remind yourself:

“that is the old story. the old me. i did the best i could at that time but i am a new person now. (insert self concept affirmations here)”

now,

HERE’S WHAT TO DO:

BE YOUR DESIRED PERSON.

GAIN COURAGE.

** GET SOOO SICK OF STAYING WITH THIS TOXIC FRIEND THAT YOU UP AND LEAVE **

AND NEVER LOOK BACK!

sometimes you have to get sick of your own dealings, you know? like if not now, then when??? choose NOW.

BE LOT. DO NOT BE LOT’S WIFE.

“do not be a Lot’s wife who looks back and becomes salted (Genesis 19) or preserved in the dead past. Be a Lot who does not look back but who keeps his vision focused upon the promised land, the things desired.”

i typed this out at 1am so i hope this post makes sense! and that i helped you gain courage whether it be manifesting or actually dealing with toxic people ㅋ⫬ㅋ⫬

- yours truly ૮꒰ ˶• ༝ •˶꒱ა ♡

p.s - you can do it! i believe in you! (＃⌒∇⌒＃)ゞ