How is Severus an “incel” for honoring Lily’s memory and wishes for decades after her death but James isn’t an incel for refusing to take no for an answer to the point of trying to blackmail Lily into a date with him by physically abusing her friend? I think y’all just think “incel” means “man you don’t personally find attractive who has possibly unrequited feelings for a woman” not a member of a misogynistic hate group who sees women as just objects who owe him sex. Severus was never angry Lily wouldn’t date him or have sex with him, he was only ever angry she was defending his abusers. And even when she married one of his abusers, he still loved and respected her deeply for his entire life. No incel would risk his life for decades to honor the memory of a woman who is long dead and can’t possibly have sex with him.
