Empress Misha

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uhhh off the top of my head

Phallic centered, 100+ photos of his dick, mentions his dick, his dominance comes from his dick, he thinks he can ‘fix’ you with his dick, keeps sending photos of his dick, mentions his dick more then he mentions anything else 

Thinks your submissiveness is because you’re a woman, and therefore ‘natural’ so any forced sex or abuse is simply him putting you in your ‘natural’ place 

Has no hobbies or other interests, and doesn’t care about yours 

Demanding and impatient 

He’s simple, he just want to fuck you, he just want to feel important, he reeks of insecurity and is desperate, he needs you to act like he’s a king and a god, he needs his cock worshipped, he doesn’t care about your needs, he is stuck in this frantic, desperate need to stop the thoughts of worthlessness and rejection and he will force this on you because he is like a scared rabid animal stuck the corner, scared of more rejection, so he won’t hear it. 

Can’t just be a normal, interesting, person 

Back tracks and passive aggressive, he mentions something you don’t like and says something like ‘well I’m the dom and you’re just a sub-’ ‘haha, don’t take it so seriously-’ ‘you’ll like it ;), you’ll let me do what I want,’ ‘Well my last sub was a real sub, I guess you’re just a fake-‘ 

Expects things you’re not comfortable with, demands them, calls you ‘crazy’ and ‘typical’ 

Believes you owe him anything, no, you owe him nothing

Doesn’t fulfill his promises, but keeps promising, and the promises become more and more extravagant.

Brings up old subs a lot and compares you

Lots of compliments but very little action

He expects you to fit him completely, his opinions are your opinions, you have to believe what he believes, you have to like what he likes

Automatically assumes you are of lesser intellect and doesn’t listen to any of your opinions, ideals, and laughs off anything you say that doesn’t go with what he believes

Isn’t upfront with what he likes, expects, and who he is. Charming at first, but then demanding, insecure, and needs a constant ego boost from you.    

Calls all his past subs ‘crazy’ 

Isn’t sympathetic or empathic 

Doesn’t treat you like you’re an individual, surprised when you like things aren’t typical to your type, and ignores specific things that you like and goes with ‘well, all women like this-‘ 

Arguments become personal, debating turns into insulting, he refuses to respect your personal views 

His ambition is to one day, actually have ambition 

Believes that regardless, he’s better than you because you are a woman and he is a man 

Around friends he takes the side of his friends regardless of the situation and seems to be ‘beta’ around the ‘alpha’ male in the group 

Treats you like a trophy, always mentions appearance, or sexual prowess, but never mentions anything else you’ve accomplished 

rolls his eyes at anything ‘feminine’ and instantly sees it as vapid and a waste of time 

expects you to baby him, even as a dom, acts like your his mother in terms of care and coddling 

Catch him lying and he isn’t upfront about it but dances around the topic in hopes you’ll shut up about it 

Speaks badly of past ex’s, consistently 

threatens you in anyway, even if he laughs it off later 

thinks all men naturally have a highly sexual appetite and therefore are entitled to sex constantly, also thinks that view forgives his cheating because ‘he’s just a man,’ 

Any physical change that happens to you (loss of weight, hair cut) he feels entitled too and gets upset when you change you’re own body without his approval first 

Wants you to fit his ‘ideal’ woman even if it’s nothing like who you really are 

has too many fantasies about women that are all sexual with the women as props

has no real female friends 

doesn’t trust your male friends with no reason other than they are male 

BlackUp, the First Black-Owned Luxury Cosmetic Line, Heads to Sephora Without Its Black Owner

Blackup Cosmetics, the first luxury makeup line for women of color is now available on Sephora.com and select Sephora stores and we’re here for it. What we’re not so thrilled about is the fact that it might no longer be black owned.

It has been reported that founding African make-up artist, Fabrice Mahabo was wrongly booted from his own company.

“In the book, the natives are described as being redskins, which is a term I don’t really recognize so I couldn’t work out where they were natives of. I thought should they be Native American or African or Mongolian and then I thought well better if they are just sort of from everywhere and that they are all natives of planet Earth and so that’s what we did.”

Matt Damon Interrupts Successful Black Woman Filmmaker Effie Brown to Whitesplain Diversity to Her

Last night was the fourth season premiere of HBO’s Project Greenlight—a Matt Damon and Ben Affleck passion project where they give first time filmmakers the chance to make a movie. It also provided a platform for Matt Damon to deliver a masterclass in whitesplaining—a whitesplaining sermon, if you will.

They enlist a group of producers to help them choose their finalists—the group included a bunch of white guys and one white woman.

The finalists are flown to Los Angeles to meet in person with the producers. At these meetings, they introduce Effie Brown, an experienced Hollywood producer and a black woman. She has produced seventeen feature films, including Dear White People and boy, the Irony Gods are working overtime today.

As the only person of color in the group, Effie clearly understands that any attempt at diversity will be on her shoulders. She recalls growing up in the 1970s where most of the time when she saw black people in films, they were playing gangsters, criminals and prostitutes. She also explains that she is passionate about making films where marginalized people are recognized. Basically, she is their only line of defense against making yet another all-white dude project, something at best incredibly tone deaf or, at worst, a racist shitshow.

During a discussion about one of the films, Brown helpfully points out that she’s worried that the only black person in the entire movie is a prostitute who is slapped by her white pimp. All she’s saying is that perhaps this roomful of white people should be cognizant of who they hire to direct a character like that—AKA hire some people of color so they can treat the role with some dignity and prevent it from descending into a racist trope.

“You’re looking at this group right here and who you’re picking and the story that you’re doing,” she says calmly. Luckily, Matt Damon is there to swoop in with this Smart White Man cape and interrupts Brown in order to explain diversity to her and this room full of white people. He argues that actually, the less diverse directing teams brought up the same issue about the prostitute character that Effie is raising.

Effie counters by saying that his summation is “not necessarily true,” and Matt Damon interrupts her again, this time by laying out what exactly diversity is. “When we’re talking about diversity you do it in the casting of the film not in the casting of the show.”

Meaning that they don’t have to hire any diverse filmmakers on Project Greenlight as long as they throw a few women and black people onscreen.

Just so we’re clear, Matt Damon thinks that diversity in Hollywood amounts to simply hiring people of color to be in the movies—not allowing them any power to make the movies themselves.

In a later interview, Matt Damon says, “I’m glad Effie flagged the issue of diversity for all of us.”

Then he spits the same tired rhetoric about how if they worry too much about hiring diverse filmmakers, the’ll undermine the integrity of the entire project. The only factor they should be considering is merit, leaving “all other factors out if it.”

Obviously this is correct because we all know the only reason Hollywood is dominated by white men is because white men are the only creative people on Earth who know how to make films real, real good…

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Here is a piece that I love of a mermaid-esque jelly fish.

Her upper-half is based on flowerbattblog so hopefully she doesn’t mind lol