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I want mental health to be so normalised that little children can tell their parents if they’re feeling mentally ill just like they would if they had a stomach ache or a fever.

I want mental health to be so normalised that school lets you go home after a panic attack episode like they do if you sustain an injury.

I want mental health to be so normalised that when someone’s in recovery the people around them ask for progress reports and send get well soon cards just like they would for any other sort of recovery.

I want mental health to be normalised because every mental health disorder is just as frightening, just as damaging as a life threatening injury and we pass people by every day who are so unwell in this sense but who don’t receive a fraction of the care they deserve just because mental health is unseen.

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you do not need to constantly justify yourself. go ahead. eat pancakes. eat a ton at dinner. eat ice cream sundaes at 1am. take a rest day. take six rest days. sleep in. watch a movie. watch ten movies. no explanations needed. you’re allowed to be kind to yourself.

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Depression makes no sense. For a while you think you have it contained but THEN IT BREAKS LOOSE AND IT’S EVERYWHERE AND IT’S BROUGHT MATES

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Failed Relationship Lesson #211: Heed the fucking warning signs. They are there for a reason. #redflag #relationshipproblems #failedrelationships #breakup #emotionalabuse #brokenpromises #lies #toxic #codependent #selfdestruction #ex #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtpoetry #lesbianpoetry #poetry #poems #poem #poetrycommunity

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“Fantasizing about boys felt like a healing paper cut: uncomfortable, but manageable. While imagining a future with a man I mistook the relief of companionship for romance, and the anxiety for chemistry. When I pictured him saying ‘you’re mine’, it felt like being trapped, too possessive, I did not want my heart stolen but at least being kept in a cage would keep me safe. Dreaming about kissing boys seemed acquiescent, as long as my eyes were glued shut the entire time. This was love, right? When I saw her for the first time I was mesmerized and I have never wanted to give up custody of my own heart more; She felt like home, like freedom, and all the discomfort I had assumed was natural melted, just like I did whenever she touched me. Her laughter reminded me why the earth revolved around the sun and when we kissed it felt like I had found the world’s greatest treasure without even searching for it. When I imagine a lifetime with her it doesn’t feel cumbersome anymore and I realize it was meant to feel this way all along.”

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“at five years old you know what the word means. it’s dirty, it’s bad, you’re too young to know. other kids use it as a curse word when adults can’t hear them. when you’re nine, two women move in across the street. one of them has a shaved head. you’re sitting at the dinner table when your neighbour’s father uses the word “dyke” with a lowered voice. you’re eleven and a new girl has joined your theatre group. you want to be around her all the time. a year later she leaves and you feel disappointed and sad without really knowing why. at fifteen you’re at a church camp and a girl asks the priest why gay people can’t get married. he says: “we have to draw the line somewhere. some people would like to marry animals.” six months later you’re looking at a friend of yours with butterflies in your stomach, and all of a sudden it just hits you. you have a crush on her. you have a crush on a girl. at sixteen you try to say the word. you say to yourself: “i’m a lesbian.” you feel dirty and cry in the bathroom two hours later. at seventeen you hold hands with a boy. he says to you: “you don’t want to be with girls like that.” he touches your cheek but it feels wrong. when you’re eighteen you fall in love with a girl who has pale blue eyes and the most beautiful laugh. she calls you an angel but a year later she introduces you to her boyfriend at a house party. you want to cry but you can’t. at nineteen you try to say the word again. it still gets stuck in your throat but you do it anyway. you tell your friends and they say they are proud of you. and you cry, not because you feel dirty, but because you feel okay.”

— the word “lesbian” has always been something people spit out in disgust

With her, I'm learning that love doesn't make you walk on eggshells. It doesn't force you to hold your breath or watch every word that you say. Love doesn't punish. The feeling of being completely accepted and encouraged to grow is liberating. #herkiss #love #acceptance #growth #movingforward #positivechange #change #joy #poem #poetry #lgbt #lgbtpoetry #lesbianpoetry

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Too many years of my life were spent sitting in a corrosive vat of anger and resentment. For the longest time, I blamed her. If only she would stop betraying my trust. If only she would apologize. If only, if only, if only... My life changed for the better the minute I chose to own my part in our toxic relationship and end the cycle. Today, I am able to accept the apology I have finally given to myself. #toxicrelationships #codependency #resentment #heartbreak #personalgrowth #positivechange #owningit #poem #poetry #lgbt #lgbtpoetry #lesbianpoetry

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The last year we were together, I sank into a frighteningly dark place. Death constantly felt imminent, and to be honest, I almost welcomed it. That stale dirt taste was otherworldly and so real... Somehow, one of the insults she hurled hit something in me that was still alive. This served as the catalyst I needed to finally end our toxic cycle and break away. Guess what? I don't taste death anymore and I can see light, even when the sun doesn't shine. #depression #mentalillness #fear #toxicrelationships #toxicpeople #darkness #darktimes #death #change #movingforward #poem #poetry

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The term "lovesick" never seemed more fitting. Learning to look for the people who bring out my strength instead of my sickness. #toxicrelationships #breakup #emotionalabuse #lovesick #movingforward #change #growth #poem #poetry #lgbt #lgbtpoetry #lesbianpoetry

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I let myself get so wrapped up in her that I lost who I was. Luckily, the girl I once was thought to drop bread crumbs. I'm following them in hopes of finding a way back to myself. #codependency #codependent #lifelessons #breakup #positivechange #growth #movingforward #poem #poetry #lgbt #lgbtpoetry #lesbianpoetry

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Allowing yourself to be vulnerable with the right people can be healing. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable with the wrong people can be fatal. Choose wisely. I didn't. #mentalhealth #vulnerability #mentalillness #struggle #betrayal #emotionalabuse #toxicrelationships #toxicpeople #makeachange

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The fact that she cheated on me, repeatedly, both in front of me and behind my back, is not my fault. For the longest time, she convinced me that it was. She wouldn't have done it if I was more fun, if I hadn't made her mad, if I hadn't gotten jealous, if I hadn't questioned her, if I hadn't... I thought I was crazy. I'm not. The only thing crazy was how long I chose to stay. I deserve better. We all deserve better. #cheating #gaslighting #narcissist #manipulation #emotionalabuse #codependency #mentalhealth #change #movingforward #poem #poetry #lgbt #lgbtpoetry #lesbianpoetry

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Why do we try so hard to hold on to relationships that are clearly dead? At the time, I thought I did so out of love and loyalty. Now, I realize that it was because of fear. Fear of anger, fear of change, fear of starting over, fear of regret... If love causes us pain, it's not really love. Be brave, and let that shit go. #toxicrelationships #breakup #fear #sadness #failedrelationships #pain #change #movingforward #poem #poetry #lgbt #lgbtpoetry #lesbianpoetry

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People like her will never think you're good enough when they have you. They'll make you believe that too. When I finally realized my worth and left, well, she didn't like that. Suddenly, I was perfect. I was everything she wanted. So, I came back...and you know what? Immediately, I wasn't good enough again. We deserve someone who wants us when we're with them, not just because we try to leave. #toxicrelationships #manipulation #emotionalabuse #mentalhealth #breakup #youdeservebetter #youdeservelove #change #movingforward #lgbt #poetry #lesbianpoetry #lgbtpoetry #poem

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