It's all fun and games until...
The above video is shocking and in complete ill taste, however it shows the entertainment value put on rape in a gaming and new media environment. One user outlandishly comments, â33 people have been date rapedâ to address the 33 dislikes on the video (keep in mind there is 443 likes). Â
My stance on the issue of rape in virtual worlds has always been adamantly clear, so before continuing I looked to other studentâs opinions to generate food for thought. Â I found one bloggerâs, INNEZKCB-206Â ideas on the topic which came to disagreement with mine. They post, âI am left thinking that the two are vastly different and although sexual assault is unacceptable and despicable...â
I would disagree with INNEZKCB-206 stance on virtual rape vs. real life rape. I do not believe they are âvastlyâ different even though one is physically held in the confines of an intangible environment and may only produce intangible consequences, an opinion Regina Lynn confirms, âvirtual rape is not just a prank, one the target needs to get over or expect as part of a role-playing worldâ (2007). Like Julian Dibbel I believe that it is just as âemotionally trueâ (1998) for a real-life rape victim.
Online conditioning towards rape culture doesnât just exist in game form- but the colloquialisms and urban dictionary speak which litters Facebook and Youtube. Words like âfrapeâ (Facebook Rape) and groups which promote rape joke culture are common to see in everyoneâs newsfeeds. One such joke group is named "'I love raping bitches out in the cool night air, don't complain sluts or your (sic) next". I can't understand the punchline. lol Manitoba perceptively writes in his blog, "If you put as your Facebook status 'I totally raped at Halo today' for your two hundred Facebook friends to see, statistically, you have just reminded thirty-three people of one of the worst experiences of their entire lives... [just] to describe to someone how well you did at a video game"
Normalizing something through modern speak, colloquialisms and jokes doesnât eventually mean itâs acceptable, it just shows our characters fail to stand up for what is right.
It is bizarre such a contentious issue such as rape still exists online. Why havenât strict laws condemned it? Or at least a form of regulation from a governing body? Safe virtual realities are worth employing; it is even worth considering that âreal lifeâ law practises or consequences apply to virtual worlds. I would suggest both.
I think we need to take a big step back, and look at the mess weâve created online.
  References:
Dibbell, J. 1998. My Tiny Life. New York: Fourth Estate.
Lynn, Regina. 2007. âVirtual Rape is Traumatic, but Is It a Crime?â Wired, May 4. Accessed May 6, 2012. http://www.wired.com/culture/lifestyle/commentary/sexdrive/2007/05/sexdrive_0504
RAWRMEBITES 2007. "Close Gaia Online- DATE RAPE." Youtube video. Accessed May 5 2012.
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