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Seriously can people stop acting like fandoms are countries, cities or even states. They do not have rules, there is no hierachy, You cannot dictate hundreds upon thousands of fandom and make them follow your stupid racist bullshit, Same with the fandom elder/mama bullshit I do not know you so fuck off. (Like no im not going to "respect you." after you go on about how its actually fine to make werid incest rape smut of actual people because "we're so woke arent we!!")

You are not your ‘transrace’ and you never will be

You are not your ‘transethnicity’ and you never will be

You are not your ‘transpecies’ and you never will be

You are not your ‘transdisability’ and you never will be

You are not your ‘transdisorder’ and you never will be

You are not your ‘transage’ and you never will be

The tl:dr for anybody who doesn’t want this yapfest is No, I am not proship. I do not support proshippers or darkshippers, and will not change my views nor my beliefs for anybody.

Nope !!! I do not believe the ideology of “ship and let ship” when it comes to certain dynamics that include dark, taboo, or illegal ship pairings (I.e: adult x minor , extreme power imbalance , heavily toxic or abusive , incest , etc.)

I believe that fiction DOES take part in shaping reality , and when it comes to people saying things such as “well you like watching murderers and don’t say anything” , if you can’t tell the difference between “this rape fic is so sexy” and “oh, this is a VILLAIN. This person is really bad.” Then fiction has affected your reality. Fiction DOES take part in shaping reality whether people like to admit it or not. It could happen in a lot of different ways too !! For example(s) ! It helps in shaping human emotion and provides things like empathy or perspective. Reading or watching stories, real or fictional, activates the brain’s emotional centers, which allows people to understand lives and feelings outside their own experience. Or cultural shifts, where books and films can spark massive social changes, raise public awareness, or normalize representation for marginalized groups. Behavioral influence when stories set trends, alter costume habits, and model social norms (like increased interest in specific hobbies, travel destinations, or lifestyle choices) after a popular release. This can also be the way for dark, taboo, or illegal topics consumed through media if you cannot tell fiction apart from reality. It may shape your personal beliefs to thinking “oh this is okay to engage in and isn’t bad !!” It can also cause negative, real-world consequences if negative stereotypes in media are shown, these can reinforce real-world prejudices, while powerful cautionary tales or propaganda have historically shifted political movements and public safety habits. Now obviously there are larger parts that play a role in a person’s behavior, like personal values, existing beliefs, and real-life environments, but fiction is still there playing a role, albeit smaller, as well.

I also think it’s important to talk about the excuse many people use, both those who make the dark types of media and those who just defend it, and calling it a “coping mechanism”. While it MAY be that way, it’s seriously important to realize and understand not all coping mechanisms are good or healthy for the individual, those around them, or a mix of both (as shown in one of my recent posts talking about that !!), and instead of reaching out to said person to provide different forms of support and other, healthier coping methods they could try out and use, they promote the user to continue. It also becomes a problem when rather than using said “coping mechanism” and keeping it private for yourself, when you share it on the internet then harass or bully others who express their discomfort having to see such media (whether it be triggering to the user, just uncomfortable in general, or something else).

See See See I’m tempted to crosstag just to be petty but I wanna be the bigger person. Cuz if I do it then everyone’s gonna start doin it and it’s just kind of shitty imo

Person 1: Creating a firm, solid claim, shows the facts and evidence from BOTH sides and addresses the rights and wrongs from both sides and stays on topic of their claim, as well as providing their reasons for the stances/claims they started with (CER : Claim, Evidence, Reasoning)

Person 2: “lol, I’m not reading all that you’re stupid and misinformed”

I’m sorry, if you are that Person 2, I will immediately invalidate whatever argument you try spewing out afterwards. You have to read everything. You have to create your own strong claims with evidence and reasoning backing it up, instead of some half-assed “yeah well [xyz] and [abc]” that doesn’t even make sense to the topic being talked about.

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imagine being on your lunch break, and your supervisor comes over to your table, tells you to stand up in front of everyone. they draw everyone's attention to your thighs. they tell you that you have broken the dress code because of the length of your shorts. they tell you to go change (so you do not get the rest of your lunch break). they do this every single day at lunch. every day. so you read the whole dress code front and back, and you choose your clothing carefully to not break it. you bring a cloth tape measure with you to work because they will not believe you. this time when your supervisor tells you that you're breaking dress code, you pull out your tape measure and show that you are within the limit. your supervisor says "I bet you wouldn't want me to bring you to the boss and let him measure it, would you?" it's clearly a threat: if you don't obey then you will be put alone in a room with your boss and he will touch your thighs. you don't know how to respond. you're taken out of lunch again.

Pedophilia is NOT Lgbtq

Zoophilia is NOT Lgbtq

Necrophilia is NOT Lgbtq

Trans age is NOT a trans identity

Trans racial is NOT a trans identity

Stop trying to ruin the lgbtq community by making us look like predators

Did porn rot theese people's brains? First of all, The Nazi's didnt fucking ban romanctized incest porn. Not wanting incest, rape or pedophilla to be treated as some little kink or fetish doesnt somehow mean its automatically facism or means we're complaining on that type of shit.

The Nazis Banned Modern art, LGBTQ & BIPOC Media, Anti Nazi & Jewish media among many other things. Keep in mind, iirc the artists who's work was banned literally were also murdered btw.

Saying that thoose things are on the same level of your glorfied incest/rape/pedophilla ships or porn is just fucking stupid and insensitive to the people back then who's art was censored in that movement.

Also, Ah yes the good ol excuse. "WELL!! IF YOUR AGAINST RAPE INCEST AND PEDOPHILLA BEING ROMANCTIZED YOU HATE GAY PEOPLE THEN!" Dude, A lot of people who are against proshipping are gay too, Im fucking bigender and bisexual and Im against proshipping.

Furthermore.. Dude, this is the internet. Spaces on the internet like tumblr or just fandoms arent states, they arent countrys. They are PLACES for people to talk together about their favorite things.

Stop trying to act oppressed or overreact when someone says that We shouldnt be romanticizing incest, rape or pedophilla. This isnt the same thing as saying "We should be banning anything dark or related to sext!" And for christ sakes stop comparing people who are against romanization of dark themes to nazis or facists.

Hey so thats rape💀

"No, its rapephil-"