« ' Ghost Protocol ‘»

Everyone was surprised that the cheetah didn't move out of it's place, they asked the race coordinator what happened!?

His response after seeing this picture:

′′ Sometimes trying to prove that you're the best is an insult.

We don't need to go down to other people's level, to make them understand that we are the strongest.

Think hard and save your energy for what you deserve...

Cheetah uses its speed to hunt not to prove to dogs that it is faster and stronger...

DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME TO PROVE YOUR VALUE.

Moral of the story: Know your worth!

Found this video today. I don’t know who this girl is, for me to give her proper credit’s. But she has some very WISE words, I think everyone should hear…

The biggest irony in life, is that men use wealth to attract women, then complain about gold diggers.

And women use their body’s to attract men, then complain about being perceived as sex objects.

They use skimpy clothes, see-through clothes, more skin than clothes, leaving nothing to the imagination clothes, then complain that men only think about one thing. Only view them as sex objects. Well dear girl, if I see someone dressed in a cops uniform, I will think that person is a police officer, no? If I see someone in a firefighters uniform, I will also think that person is a firefighter.

So how do you dress like a prostitute, and expect a guy not to think you are one? You might not be one, but you are wearing their uniform, so excuse me, nothing personal, but we will think you are one.

21st century, times were girls like calling their boyfriends and husbands “daddy”, because most of the times… well the boyfriend or hubby have the same age as their daddy. They call you “daddy”, and 5 mins later ask you for some air time (TodirCredito), they call you “daddy”, and expect you to do their daddy’s duties: pay for food, take her places, pay for nails, beauty saloons, hair weaves, etc

Don’t get me wrong, let’s make one thing very clear, we are happy to do those things, but we don’t HAVE to. The moment you make a guy feel like that’s his obligation, you make a guy feel like he is paying for your time, well you do the math… abracadabra magic: he will look at you as a sex object, that he paid for…

-On the Flip Side-

If you are a guy who spoils a girl YOU JUST MET, of course you will attract gold diggers, it’s a time of communication, everything is online, and believe me they do better research than us. Women are smart they stalk you better then a hungry predator in the jungle. She laughed at your joke, but believe me she heard it before, she is just enduring that because she knows about your bank account situation (or the illusion you sold her on)

What happens to everything you spoil? It rottens that’s what happens!

So if you keep spoiling a person who you just met, you will live in constant fear of her being a gold digger. How do you know she is there for you and not the things you have/buy or the illusion of money you sell on your social media, the ostentatious lifestyle you live? How will you know if she likes you for you, if all you do is spoil her?

Bottom line is…

These are hard times for romanticism.

Long gone, are the days were we used to be friends before we made love or get into a relationship. We live in a generation, that buying a girl a few drinks, implies sex. We live in a generation of one night stands and hook ups.

You want to wait three months to have intercourse with him, but your friend gave it to him on the first date, do the math… why would he wait for you? These are sad times, where we are stuck, and there are very few of us hopeless romantics left, nobody has time to wait, appreciate and enjoy each other’s companies, we rush to “post it”, we all have hidden agendas, she wants the sugar daddy, he wants the easy laid.

Dear girl, you want the real thing, chase someone who will grow with you, find a person you really like and help him become the best version of himself, grow together, stop being lazy looking for mr. Perfection, make someone your own perfection. I guarantee you, he will value you, for liking him when he had nothing, that man will be loyal and devoted to you. You keep chasing the bad guy, he will do what? Bad things, of course.

Don’t be lazy, rushing towards a “complete project”, find someone who is good on the inside, and bring that to the outside…

-On the flip side-

These are hard times for romanticism, you can have everything she likes, but if you take her to eat at a cheap place, and some other guy takes her to a fancy restaurant, you will be stuck in the friendzone until he is done playing with her. She will complain to you about the rich guy she is with.

She will tell you something like “why can’t I find a guy like you?”; and you think to yourself “well I am a guy like me”…in fact you are the MOST guy like you, well dear reader let me translate this conundrum for you…

Nowadays when she says that, what she really means is… “why can’t I find a guy like you… who also happens to have a lot of money”?

So dear friend reading this, best advice I can give you is HUSTLE, don’t show of, don’t worry about competing with other’s, compete with yourself yesterday, become better everyday, make someone you care about feel good every day, the right one will value that and stick around…

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For anyone still reading, male or female, please don’t rush things, but value when you find someone you like spending time with. Don’t miss your window. The love game is hard as it is…

Will we let our love flourish? Will we heal from our pasts? Or will we become what hurt us?

These are the questions that run through our minds, as we try to forget, and move on from our past traumas...

“The difference between a garden, and a graveyard, is what you choose to put in the ground..”

So will we let our love flourish, or will we let it die?

Science has proven that speaking with kindly, with love and affection to a plant, helps it grow; so imagine what it does to another fellow human being?

Yes, we all want to heal, we all want to grow. But wanting isn't enough, we have to act on it. Real love is built, day by day, it's a choice, we choose to stay there, and do everything in our power to make it work.

So will we let our past define us, or will we create a better future for us? Together.