I’m going to say this and than I’m done: The anons who continually move between blogs tattling on blogs to other blogs to create drama and tensions are at the root of so much of the toxicity in this fandom. Mods of blogs are human and it should be understandable that they get triggered over all the asks/messages being sent to them to instigate shit. They are not robots who never make mistakes or give in to their egos. Mods of blogs have their own personal lives that we do not know of or shouldn’t know about and they are never allowed any grace to have a bad day, self-correct, learn, or grow. We seem to hold these mods to a standard we could never reach ourselves. So how about we just believe whatever it is we believe and not look to others to provide us with the “truth” we want to hear to than use as amo to go to other mods and attack them. How about we all just stick with the blogs we appreciate or are entertained by and leave the other blogs be because not every blog is for us and that’s ok. I know I’m asking for a lot of maturity, even I know it’s a lot to ask of myself, but perhaps we just try it for once. Who knows we might allow those mods that are pretty amazing and who we each enjoy to flourish more. 🙃🤔🫶🏼✌🏼✊🏼














