Duchess Elsa

It's frustrating to me to see people here with names like Katiecumslutsissy or frillysissymaidbitch4u complain about having a hard time getting acceptance by family and friends. If your idea of yourself is purely sexual it's going to repel everyone and you will reek of it even when you think you are hiding it. Hot sex is not a valid reason to transition, jfc. Your sexuality is your business. Keep it that way. Want family and friends to accept you as a woman? Then act like one. The way you think about yourself matters and the way you present yourself does, too. Being trans is NOT about your sexuality. Grow the fuck up and educate yourself before you say silly shit to family and friends. Seriously, how lazy are some of you? Is transitioning going to be easy? Hell no. We don't live in perfect world and probably never will so quit demanding that it be simple. You sound like a privileged idiot. Especially to trans women who have already fought the battle you complain about years before you were even thinking about it. Who are you telling how hard it is? I don't trust people who have never faced adversity and overcome it. And if some family and friends do reject you as a woman when/if you come out? Then you find new family. They are called your Chosen Family. Ask any trans woman or man. You have to take the rough with the smooth and ride out those first big waves.

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"What “Chosen Family” Means to Trans Women

For many trans women, chosen family is the network of people they intentionally choose to love, support, and stand by — regardless of biology, legal status, or traditional family structures. It’s a source of safety, belonging, and affirmation when relationships with birth or legal families may be unsafe, rejecting, or unavailable.

Why It’s Especially Important for Trans Women