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In 2021, CDR groomed Jane (Froster) when she was 15 and nearing her 16th birthday, while he was 19. The grooming started when he pressured her to come out and then offered 'support' for her struggles with gender dysphoria, self-harm, anxiety, and depression. Unfortunately, on the very day he began this supposed support, their conversations took a sexual turn as he introduced his fetishes, disguising his advances as 'care.' This led to several issues for Jane, including a masturbation addiction that I have personally noticed, stemming from the behaviors she learned from him as her sole source of support at that time.

She feels a lot of shame about the situation, which has made it difficult for her to fully share his actions, including the numerous erotic role-plays and hundreds of explicit images he sent her. Nevertheless, the screenshots provided are sufficient to confirm that the deleted account belongs to him, showcasing the inappropriate messages he sent and revealing that this troubling behavior has recently returned. For instance, he suggested masturbation to a recovering addict during her darkest times after she had self-harmed a few months ago, mislabeling it as support.

If you think my actions are unforgivable, you are free to cut ties with me.

I’d like to share more, as I'm unsure if I will have another chance to express this: before meeting Froster, I didn't have many friends and felt a sense of comfort around her that was unfamiliar to me. I struggled to understand appropriate boundaries at that time. Although I have since moved away from those behaviors, the foundation of our early friendship was built on a mix of trust and my misuse of it, which ultimately led to its collapse.

Honestly, I had never confided in anyone about my sexuality before meeting Skyla, and I realize now how much I was affected by unrealistic portrayals in pornography. I believe I’m in a better place today, but I regret that others had to suffer because of my past actions. I truly hate that I hurt her and other friends. While I appreciate the forgiveness, I doubt I can be forgiven by anyone. However, I can't bring myself to end my life, so all I can do is strive to be better. I apologize for my previous shortness with you."

⁃ Carlos Daniel Rodriguez (Cdr2002)

All of the above was Cdr's response when confronted about his grooming behavior toward Jane since 2021.

Carlos acknowledges that he behaved inappropriately, violated trust, and caused harm. He denies that deliberate grooming was his intention, accepts the consequences of his actions, expresses remorse for those he hurt, and believes his responsibility now is to continue improving himself rather than seeking excuses for the past.

Prayer:

Please pray for Carlos Daniel Rodriguez, Jane, her friends, and everyone affected by these events. Pray for healing, wisdom, accountability, peace, and God’s grace for all involved.