I think I deserve to be flirted with. Just a lil bit. Wooed, courted, maybe even romanced? Is it fair that no one's sweeping me off my feet right now?? I don't think so.

tumblr is the safest social media to open in public bc nobody recognises its interface. if u recognise it thats ur problem

don’t do anything for social media. don’t let it affect your media consumption too much. or how you spend your time. or how you see yourself. don’t watch a tv show you won’t enjoy just to post about it, don’t buy a pair of jeans you don’t really like because it’s a trend, don’t become a spokesperson for ideologies you haven’t truly read and thought about first yourself. operate as though you don’t have a social media whenever you’re not using social media. this is what stops it from seeping over the borders of the time you give it into the rest of your life. let your real life influence what you choose to do with your time more.

one thing i have been trying to teach myself lately is that i am enough whenever. i am always, all the time enough. i am enough when i don’t like myself, i am enough when i don’t look presentable, i am enough when i’m not ready to face my demons. you don’t have to do certain things such as working out 5x a week, journal and meditate every night or be good at school to be enough and worthy of love. whatever state you are in right now is enough. you are deserving of a relationship, a good life and everything else at any given time.