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Well... sort of. I mean I understand why some men use online keyholders. It's more fun than locking yourself up. You're paying for a service that you could probably get from putting your key into a locker with a random number of days. But I guess a keyholder offers some human contact so I get that.

Tom here: I'm guessing the question is more about "What if the person does not send you back the key?" Every device on the market can be unlocked with some hand tools, or at worst, a Dremel with a grinding tip and a careful hand. There's no actual danger of a KH not returning one's keys. 🔒

I understand what you're asking. While we did not have that issue, I have heard from other guys over the years who have told me similar things. The issue is that women are accustomed to think that guys want to hump everything that moves; saying 'Honey, here's something so I can't have sex with you" is completely counterintuitive.

It's really in how you approach it. I think that if you present it as a way for her to have all the control over when your sex happens, it might be less weird. And as I always say, if you approach it as a way for the both of you to have some fun together, as opposed to "I want you to do this thing to me," I think you will have a much better chance of her trying it with you.

I'm not sure that what my husband and I do is a fetish. It has become so ingrained into our daily lives that we almost never even mention it to each other outside of the bedroom. This is what I mean when I write that I am mainly vanilla and that our relationship is otherwise very traditional. There's none of the teasing or domme stuff with us that you see in all the Tumblr memes. And our love life is not acrobatic or filled with leather and handcuffs.

Yes, when we make love I am aware that his penis is in a cage but "foxing" is so natural to us now that I honestly do not even think of this as anything other than normal lovemaking. Honestly, we never even use that expression anymore... to us, it's just having sex. 🤷‍♀️

Tom here. I think the OP is asking if we will get into some other bdsm, kink, etc. Probably not as a regular thing. Mrs Edge has had a long while to figure out what she likes, and what she doesn't care for. Except to occasionally indulge me, I don't see anything on the horizon. 🔒