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Being a good servant means developing and investing in your skills. Let’s be real - most women don’t want naked men sitting around in rope and collars begging to serve. Most Dominant women I’ve met are practical, have specific needs and desires, and always have things that have to be done that prevent them from doing the things they want to do.  If you really want to serve a Dominant woman, it’s important to give some thought to her inevitable question: “How would you serve to make my life easier/better/enjoyable/successful?” And no, being her sex slave, or ‘doing anything she wants’ is not a suitable answer. Neither is offering to clean her house but being shit at it, or being her chauffeur but then expecting other things from her. After all, you don’t employ a plumber who then pesters you to whip him… A suitable response is: • Cooking meals for you during the week when you are busy with work • Running your errands so you don’t have to sit in traffic or take time off • Preparing, organizing and cleaning up your parties or social events • Building and fixing things around the house and car • Meticulously cleaning your car and home each week • Preparing your home after returning from travel - groceries, airing, fresh sheets • Preparing and managing your travel - luggage, lists, mail, visas, bookings • Detailed research and documentation for things you want or need to buy • Sewing repairs, washing, folding, ironing, and putting your clothes away • Buying gifts for your family, colleagues and friends for each occasion • Performing pedicures and manicures to a professional standard • Being your personal shopper doing pickups, returns, and exchanges • Finding and curating things you enjoy - music, art, experiences, foods, people • Providing physical help or assistance to any of your friends and family Oh, and when doing these tasks, don’t expect to be sitting around naked in a collar with a butt plug in - unless that’s what SHE wants! These things aren’t sexual. They’re useful. They’re valuable. They free her up so she can enjoy her life, and explore and grow her empowerment. All that you do ADDS to her life. It improves it. It enables her to grow.  You must be good at these things. Go and learn if you need to. Take a class, or contribute your professional skills. If you don’t have skills, or anything you can think of, you’re simply not ready to serve another person in a meaningful way. Go and work on yourself first. Go make yourself valuable for her. It’s an important thing as a man to truly know your own value, and what you can bring to a woman’s life. Being a submissive servant doesn’t mean being a doormat; it means being empowered that her needs and desires are your own, and you can meet them to a standard that exceeds her expectations. Your unhinged horniness and a willingness to spend money to relieve aforementioned horniness, is simply not enough - nor appropriate. If you do have skills, experience, or ability, then really put yourself in her shoes before engaging your mouth / fingertips. Learn about her and what matters to her. Her goals, her ambitions, her ideas, and her dreams. Offer things you can do and give that matter to HER. If you have something to offer that doesn’t matter to her, either develop a skill that does, or find another woman who wants what you have to give. If she’s smart, she will value you and give you just the right amount to keep you enthralled, engaged, and fed, but still hungry and eager to serve. Her empowerment will expand in time; you’ll definitely notice. Your submission will deepen in time; you’ll definitely notice. If she’s not smart, she’ll take advantage of you without valuing you and mistake her sense of self-appointed entitlement as empowerment and domination. Dominant leadership is about inspiring a submissive to view serving them as an opportunity to fulfill their highest purpose; Dominant management is about demanding compliance and obedience because she said so. They might sound similar in the short run, but in the long term, one leads to fulfilling your purpose as a submissive, while the other leads to a life of unmet expectations and resentment. Be smart - you can have the lifestyle you’ve dreamed of, but the secret isn’t that you just need to find a Dominant woman. It’s that you need to develop yourself in both skills and attitude to such an extent that you are undeniably valuable to her. Women are smart - they protect and take ownership of what works for them.

Best read. Encapsulates what I want with my submission.

This is so nice ,but i want women to do this for me !!!! I think women are weak and should submit to real men ! only sisy can do this what u wrote