el diablo

Pray For It.

Invoke it.

Harness The Power Of Love.

For a long time I didn’t understand why I kept attracting unavailable partners. I especially didn’t understand why I was attracted to these men that were making me miserable.

In order to break a pattern, you need to become aware of it and understand why it keeps happening. Awareness is always the first step towards change.

Why do you fall for these unavailable partners?

Positive vibrations have just been sent to you. They are now travelling into your eyes, through your brain, and towards the very core of your being. As they move through you, they cleanse everything left in their path. Everything is left pure.

This is to all my Hotties who need a guide for this Summer and beyond

1. You are that Bitch

I always say if you don’t know you’re that bitch nobody gonna know you’re that bitch. You should always have confidences in yourself and everything that you do. Now I’m not saying to walk around with some funky ass attitude. But Nobody gonna know you’re the shit if you walking around with your head down questioning every move that your make. Unfriendly Black Hotties are comfortable with anything that they do. Even if they make a mistake they know it a learning experience. And even if you’re not all the way there yet honey fake it till you make it.

2. Know your worth & add tax

PLEASE stop accepting mediocrity from people and from yourself. Every Unfriendly Black Hottie knows that she is worth the world plus tax. Always expect 110% from people, your environment, and from yourself. People tend to sit around and just accept what life have given them or how people try and treat them. Stop being afraid to tell your friends, family, and significant other that you WON’T tolerate that shit anymore. People only do what you allow Sweetie.

3. Always look your best

Now I’m not saying you have to go outside like you going to MET Gala everyday. But you should want people to always see you put together. Even if that some lip gloss, earrings, and nothing else. If you’re a extra person like myself then you’re going to take that extra mile. But if you’re more laid back you can still look your best with minimum amount. Make sure your nails done. AND if you have this habit “Stop Biting your nails” it’s not cute.

4. Have goals

Have something for yourself in life because trust me sis nobody respect the girl who’s not working towards her future. Even if you’re not in school have some kind of plan for yourselves. Set up a 1 year goal, 5 years goals, and etc. Don’t limit yourself to what people think you should have. Even if you’re trying to get with a baller Honey plan that shit out and make the moves.(make sure you have some funds saved up for yourself and have a career in mind sis, hell get a hobby)

Imma post part two later sis

•Cheer Up, Buttercup

•Learn How To Make Stress Your Best Friend

•What Does It Mean To Live?

•Passion Vs. Success

•Write You Own Legacy

•Taking Better Care of Your Body

•Simple Reminders for this Holiday Season (Gratitude Edition)