Desparikon

POI : TAROT

6 - THE LOVER

雨の日

Asexuality is something I feel so deeply and it's impacted my life in huge ways (often negative), and I need media that captures those huge feelings ya know? I read an article or smth recently where it was singing praises about some character that's asexual but their orientation isn't their whole identity or the main focus, and that's great! But for many people it is a huge deal! And I just feel like that's not all that groundbreaking for an asexual character, when thats also every asexual character ever, just one small little sidenote that won't be explored much.

And assuming its chill for me to talk about my own personal hatred of sex...as a sex repulsed ace whos experienced SA, sex is not a neutral thing to me. To me, sex is horrifying, not just "ew gross", but something I can never experience safely. And I cant stop thinking about a horror story that explores those feelings of being a sex repulsed suevivor in such a sexualized world. Experiences of someone that where others see a beautiful or desirable physical act, they see body horror. What others see as the ultimate declaration of trust and intimacy, they can only feel a deep violation.

“But they have a right to be in public!” So do I. Don’t interfere with that by making a public space unpleasant for everyone else.

“They’re just kids, they have to be in public to learn how to behave in public!” And some parents are not teaching their children how to behave and actively encourage bad behavior. That’s the issue, that’s why people get annoyed. They won’t learn if you never enforce proper behavior.

And parents, think of the fucking workers who can’t leave when your kids are screaming and running and have to clean up their messes. People deserve to be able to make a living without being forced to smile while dealing with your kids cause problems. Think of the disabled people who have to deal with your kids running in the way of their mobility devices and the people who get overwhelmed by your kids screaming.