✸ 𝙵𝚁𝙾𝙼 𝚃𝙷𝙴 𝚁𝙴𝙳 𝙳𝚄𝙽𝙴

sanjay leela bhansali movies + the four elements: (especially for @cat-tully)

<   your  zone  of  control   >      everyone  else  in  the  world. 

tumblr  is  full  of  people  who  think  they  deserve  control  of  other  people’s  lives,  hobbies  and  minds.  censorship  over  writing  and  expression  is  not  only  reductive,  it’s  literally  the  first  tools  of  those  who  wish  to  claim  power  over  others.  

WHY   DO   PEOPLE   WRITE   THIS   CONTENT?

there  are  many  reasons  people  write  dark  things,  or  things  otherwise  considered  ‘ bad. ‘  these  reasons  are  not  limited  too  but  do  include 

escapism 

theraputic  intervention   ——   and  yes,  i  am  a  trainee  therapist  and  this  is  an  acceptable  and  helpful  form  of  therapy  for  some  people.  ( * )

because  the  plots  are  reflective  of  their  muse’s  source  material

because  they  bloody  well  want  too 

now,  if  this  content  should  be  public  and  free  for  those  to  see,  that’s  another  question.  but  it  is  a  question  for  the  individual  until  and  if  it  is  answered  by  the  platform  we  use.  personally;  i  don’t  rp  smut.  and  if  i  wanted  dark  plots  i’d  go  to  discord  because  i  know  the  culture  of  shame  and  humiliation  imposed  on  people  here.  however,  there  is  a  case  to  be  made  for  how  effective  tagging  is,  etc.

and  these  are  questions,  and  discussions,  that  can  be  had.  but  the  people  making  shame  lists  and  joining  in  cancel  culture  don’t  want  to  ask  questions.  they  want  authority  that  isn’t  theirs.  they  want  to  drag  you  down  so  they  feel  more  validated. 

WHAT   TO   DO   IF  YOU  DON’T  LIKE  CERTAIN  CONTENT

if  you  dislike  something,  you  may  block  it,  or  blacklist  it  so  it  doesn’t  make  you  uncomfortable.

if  you  feel  that  your  dislike  goes  deeper;  in  that  you  fear  this  thing  or  person  is  harmful,  you  may  report  the  thing  or  person.

this  is  it.  these  are  the  only  two  options. 

HOW   TO   GO   ABOUT   WRITING   THIS   CONTENT

there  are  right  ways  to  do  this,  and  wrong  ways.  we  see  with  people  like  matt,  that  there  are  ways  that  are  hurtful  to  people  or  can  bring  people  trauma.  ( * )  so  if  you  want  to  write  things  like  this,  please  make  sure  to

seek  consent  and  interest  from  your  partner.  two  adult  persons  with  consent  can  do  anything  legal  thanks. 

actively  read  people’s  rules  or  enquire  into  their  interests  and  triggers. 

actively  check  someone’s  age  if  the  content  is  particularly  gruesome  or  sexual.  it  is  illegal  to  write  sexual  content  with  minors.  

don’t  lie  about  your  age.  

tag  everything;  that  way  people  can  avoid  you  and  maybe  fill  their  own  lives  with  more  fulfilling  pursuits.  

Indian dagger with gem studded agate handle, 20th century.

inspired  by  devotedecay’s  non - sexual  acts  of  dominance  meme  ! send  in  one  of  these  for  my  muse’s  reaction  to  … (  add  ❝  reverse  ❞   if  you’d  like  to  see  how  my  muse  would  preform  the  action  !  )

[ shower ]   your muse joining mine in the shower.

[ choke ]   your muse choking mine.

[ kiss + soft ]   your muse pulling mine into a tender kiss.

[ kiss + rough ]   your muse pulling mine into a rough kiss.

[ pin ]   your muse pinning mine down.

[ wrists ]   your muse roughly grabbing mine by the wrists.

[ push ]   your muse pushing mine into bed.

[ rip + clothing ]   your muse tearing a piece of clothing off my muse.

[ spank ]   your muse spanking mine.

[ pull ]   your muse pulling my muses hair.

[ talk ]   your muse talking dirty to mine.

[ eyes ]   your muse making mine look them in the eyes during.

[ down ]   your muse pulling mine down by their collar / clothes.

[ knees ]   your muse telling mine to get on their knees.

[ hips ]   your muse pulling mine in close by the hips.

[ denial ]   your muse putting mine through orgasm denial.

[ many ]   your muse making mine orgasm over and over.

[ tied ]   your muse tying my muse down.

[ lazy ]   your muse lazily beginning to touch mine.

[ love ]   your muse telling mine they love them during.

[ dominance ]   your muse taking the lead and dominating mine.

[ submission ]   your muse letting mine take the lead and submitting to them.

[ humiliation ]   your muse humiliating mine, re: name-calling and verbal abuse.

[ pain ]   your muse hurting mine in bed, whether intentionally or not.

[ knife ]   your muse using a knife in bed, whether for threat or actually cutting mine.

[ hidden ]   your muse having sex with mine somewhere semi-public.

[ public ]   your muse having sex with mine in public, whee other people watch.

[ adore ]   your muse being near reverent with mine in bed.

[ dress ]   your muse having mine dress up in lingerie.

[ eat ]   your muse eating mine out.

[ sleep ]   your muse touching / beginning to have sex with mine while they’re asleep.

[ gag ]   your muse gagging mine, or or making them be quiet.

[ blindfold ]   your muse blindfolding mine.

[ praise ]   your muse praising mine in bed.

[ good ]   your muse calling mine a good boy / girl.

[ want ]   your muse telling mine they want them.

[ snarl ]   your muse growling and / or baring their teeth at mine during sex.

[ mark ]   your muse purposefully marking mine up with bruises, hickies, ect.