Putting the "meme" into "memento mori"

I don't use Tumblr much but this is of me and my ex back in 2019. He doesn't model anymore and we're very amicably just pals now. Also I'm non-binary and don't date men these days. Thought any Tumblr gays might appreciate that this photo is a lot more queer than it looks!

@doesmyforeheadpleaseyou @derangementofepitaphs

dont forget that its all about hedonism and decadence baby 

@derangementofepitaphs

When ur dead inside but plants give you life.

This is the only day you can reblog this. Do it for Weed Moon.

This post, despite being funny for exactly 1 (one) day, has been reblogged heavily over the past year for whatever reason, and I’m going to appreciate the few days before it completely blows up again. God help us all.

@derangementofepitaphs it you!

@derangementofepitaphs u

It *is* in my twitter bio. :P

Omg😍

I was thinking about how you never really see older bi women portrayed or talked about in any way and how bisexuality is linked to immaturity all the time, and then thought about how this fits into the inverse stereotype of lesbians as the old unwed cat lady, and how these are both part of the same misogynist narrative: a woman is bisexual when she’s young and attractive and trying to gain male attention, and she retires as a lesbian when no man wants her. It’s all an attempt to revolve w/w attraction around men, all misogyny.

::wipes away a tear::

girls dont mature faster than boys, girls are punished from an early age for the same behaviour that boys are allowed to indulge in well into adulthood

i actually talked about this with a psych professor and she believes that women/young girls have been pushed into responsibility from young ages for so long that its actually triggered an evolutionary effect where young girls are literally developing mentally early in order to cope with the stress.

Local Girls Literally Evolve To Deal With Patriarchal Bullshit