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your favorite furry antitheist's fiancΓ© that never posts but is still "around"
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updated take
redefining transmedicalism in the modern era
the public consciousness is irrevocably set on intwining gnc and trans experiences, and niche online identities are now spoken in the same breath with medical procedures for transsexuals.
societally, the definition of transgender has been twisted into an umbrella term for anything with which stands in opposition to gender roles or even the concept of gender.
where do we as transmeds stand now
when transgender has lost clinical meaning?
my new focus is
prioritization of medical care
i can no longer justify wasting time debating amongst ourselves who gets to use the label trans
when all of us are under the same threat
the same person that changes their name to arson rex orange county's rights are being stripped the same as john smith.
now is a time to come together
ill keep my gender dysphoria exclusive spaces
but at the end of the day, they'll send us to the same camps
i think boycotting massive non essential corporations is good regardless the reason tbh, but especially when they're supporting genocide.
destroy massive companies. support local.
I have a question about ATLA/TOLK (I think that's the acrynom)
So someone I follow here likes that franchise and I am confused af on eho is who because ive seen some shit about the shiw and characters. Who is Korra's girlfriend is it Asami or Rangi? Is Kyoshi a person or a ship name? If Rangi isn't Korra's girlfriend (I thought she was for a while) then who the fuck is she? Is Rangi even a woman, is Rangi a dude?
Also I have a feeling that Korra is a traumatized autistic bisexual loser for some reason and that her girlfriend has anger issues lmao
#to the person I follow that likes ATLA you know who you are π #I I am not indenting to watch the show EVER
#I have no idea what the show is about lmao
#does ATLA have movies or is it just a show with comics? #yes I did ask a question in hastags fuck you #sorry for saying fuck you to you π
oh my god lmfao
answered in the tags but im calling in kanin
@kanincotton
any thoughts on this post (https: //www.tumblr.com/sothisistheweightofcreation/722449354194124800/my-biggest-problem-with-transmedicalism-isnt?source=share)? (tried to embed the link and it didn't work sorry)
im new to transmedicalism but the question in it is kinda messing me up. i don't known much of the theory yet, do you have any idea for answers??
Here's the post for anyone who wants to read it cus I had some trouble finding it! Response below βοΈ
@sothisistheweightofcreation
also tagging the person in the OG post, dont wanna start shit w u but u did ask as a question and i tried to give a genuine response so I thought u may wanna read :3 if ur not intrested its all good!
Personally, i actually dont have an issue with people who are non dysphoric (cis) getting things like HRT or surgery. Some transmeds do some dont, most people i know dont think it's an issue IN GENERAL, IN A VACUUM, as it could be considered body modification and a part of bodily autonomy.
The problem is that, at least in the American healthcare system because that's what i have experince with, there is no determination between people who need these medications and procedures for their transition and mental health, and people who just think its cool, like a tattoo or piercing or other body mods like split tongues or implants.
A person with dysphoria is not prioritised despite the fact that it is a medical nessasity for us, and this results in the abhorantly long wait lists for one, but also an idea both socially and through many insuarnce providers that transition is cosmetic. People die on surgery wait lists.
Medically, this means many people are unable to afford SRS, top surgery, FFS, or HRT because its deemed voluntary and cosmetic by their insuarnce provider and that assertion is enabled by the plethora of "non dysphoric trans people" who see transition as just that, optional.
Socially, this has (partially ofc, not the only reason) lead to the idea that it's due to insecurity or social stigma surrounding their AGAB and should be therapy-ed out instead of receiving gender affirming care, and that our healthcare system that already tries to avoid covering as much as it can get away with, does not need to help us, because a large ammount of non dysphoric (cis) people are misrepresenting our needs.
I think there should be-
1. A distinction through insurance AND discussion between a person dx with dysphoria and person without. People with dysphoria will have these costs covered by insurance, be either prioritised in wait lists or have clinics exclusive to dysphoric people (imo a mix of both sounds best but that's a long way down the line) and cis people (non dysphorics) who want the procedure can go about it like any other cosmetic surgery.
2. A distinction in language. The word transgender has essentially become synonymous with anyone GNC and this creates both pushback against gender affirming care, and confusions when an AFAB person going by she/they and 100% comfortable with her body is talked about as though she has any needs even ADJACENCT to an ftm/mtf/nb person.
This dosent mean she shouldn't be able to do what she wants with her body, but her medical needs should not be lumped in with ours and then end up warping them because trans (dysphoric) people become diluted by cis people claiming to be us despite monumentally differing needs, experinces, and mental health concerns.
3. Ditch the informed consent model. When I went on HRT I required a note after multiple sessions with a gender therapist. Visits to a gender therapist SHOULD be covered for everyone but the note should not be given to non dysphoric people. If they recive a diagnosis and note from the therapist, insurance and prioritised care. If they don't? It can be persued like any other cosmetic surgery if that's what they want.
None of this is fool proof and a big problem does stem from the American healthcare system being fucked up to hell and back, but even under a universal healthcare model i still think these things should apply. Dysphoric (trans) people require a dx and then subsequently recive priority in the wait lists, and to have their needs payed for by insurance, non dysphoric people do not, but can persue them on their own accord if they wish.
Edit: i think I'm gonna turn this into a video topic so when I have that uploaded I'll edit this post with a link! @ OP if you read this, dw i won't be sharing your account or post unless that's something you explicitly wanna have a discussion about!

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My baby boy, I love you so so much, you'll be deeply missed by me, my partner, friends, family and our other pets. You were a strong tough boy, Im sorry it wasn't enough. I love you.
Some pictures of the baby
I'll miss you stealing my food, ill miss you waking me up at 4am woth zoomies on the bed or just standing on me, ill miss how chill you were and that I'd prove bunnies were nice because I could stick my finding right on your mouth and you just didn't care, ill miss you nudging me for pets and stepping on my laptop if i ignored you, ill miss your insane obsession with crinkles and seeing yoir head pop up from the edge of my bed when you hear them, ill even miss hearing you throw any god damn peice if metal i left on the floor because you loved the clanking sound. Ill miss everything, I love you so so so much Egg
hey yall I didnβt want to have to do work for my online classes so i made a uquiz instead. answer some questions and iβll tell u what aspect of your personality annoys me the most
So far, people who get the same answer rb and tag this in VERY SIMILAR WAYS. Which is so cool!!! You know what really kills me though? People who get βyou donβt like being held accountableβ NEVER reblog it. BUT YOU GUYS ARE THE MOST POPULAR RESULT. I KNOW YOUβRE THERE. which tells me that you donβt like being held accountable SO MUCH that you will boycott a whole ass uquiz bc of it. And that, my friends, that is beautiful.
shaking and crying
shockingly accurate
no, i hate being a disappointment, but i smoke copious amounts
anxiety hell
often when i see people draw or create trans male characters, they are either drawn as essentially masculine women, or with very aggressive top surgery scars. While top surgery scars arenβt inherently bad to draw on trans men (as double incision is common and does result in scarring, though less often as aggressive as i have seen) seeing these depictions, often on skinny feminine trans male characters, shows to me that these people believe that trans men must be visibly trans. my original statement was βif you want to draw trans male characters just draw men its that simpleβ when people draw men, without thought of them being cis or trans, we see a massive range, feminine, masculine, androgynous, all sorts of shapes and sizes, and visible personality. Trans male characters are rarely lent this same range.
scar discourse became relevant again (tho I don't recall where I encountered it)
Yeah, I'm a trans guy and I agree with you that minors should be able to get hormones. I find it weird when transmeds talk about how bad dysphoria is but think 16 year olds should just have to deal with it. Like if it wasn't that bad for them they can speak for themselves, but other trans kids shouldn't have to wait on actual treatment. Also I wonder if kids should have to wait on other types of treatments since that too would be instant gratification. I didn't transition as a minor but really wish I did.
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uhv this blog was generally more like taking myself very seriously than my Twitter
but im pothead
also before it starts to happen: if i see a single person calling july "gay wrath month" or saying "we deserve a second one" it is ON SIGHT. that is DISABILITY PRIDE MONTH. abled queers i will run you over with my wheelchair if you so much as reblog one of those comments.
hello! reblog this version instead!
Hello! Disabled person here. Did you know those of us declared legally disabled and collect SSI and benefits are barred from getting married? Yep! I'm also queer so this isn't hate at all, it's a call to action: if you love marriage equality, come help us fight for ours.
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BTW... PSA.... even if we arent mutuals if youre in my notes regularly theres a Very high chance i am still fond of you. yes im vaguing someones tags on the compliment the person u rbed this from post. but like. positive vaguing? THE POINT IS im weird abt following ppl but IM STILL SENDING U FOND VIBES...
id post here more if tumblr wasnt better on desktop
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If you have many people hounding you for your opinions, it would probably behoove you to uh. Maybe change them? Like if you got enough people coming at you for them.. Now dont strawman and this and go "well what about all the people saying vaccines are wrong are they right?" or something like that. I'm just talking relative to the social opinions. Idk i know you wont but its just a little. Ahem. Advice.
People don't talk like this outside of anon for a reason
Imagine forming your opinion based solely on the people telling you that you should and not actually informing yourself. This is some "I'm 12 and I just discovered social media" shit
literally telling you not to think critically & to conform, this is hilarious.
Reminder that it's actually imperative for society to have special groups/spaces that are only for certain groups. Being excluded isn't inherently a bad thing. And just because you could benefit from something that excludes you doesn't mean that it should be meant for you too. It's important for others to have spaces just as much as you.