MOOD

A lack of relationship skills & unhealed childhood trauma leads to a chaotic recreation of "love" in later relationships. It is the inability to soothe oneself & care for one's own needs (those we wished our parents would have fulfilled) that leads to disoriented romantic relationships - always fighting for what we need. All we wish for is to feel at home in another ones arms. All we find is the roller coaster of connection & separation created by showing up immaturely & not being able to handle inner conflict with grace & patience. The only way to create harmonious & peaceful relationships is by building a home within self & looking at those self sabotaging patterns. All we want is peace, but inside there is still war, so there must be peace first. Acceptance of self.

I’m so attracted to personalities like I don’t care how fine you are I need to be able to have fun with you

how y'all be dating like 6 people in one year? It takes me like a year to find someone i even like

even more!!

You don’t want to normalize “two guys being straight and friends” you want to normalize physical and emotional closeness with friends. Doing this actually involves breaking down the stigma around homosexuality and letting go of your fear of being seen as gay, but you’d rather pretend that everyone on earth just wants you to be gay and you have to fight against that by being straight with your straight friends.