meowow :3

i cannot take seriously posts that bring up tme attempts to pressure transmisogynized people into identifying a certain way that bring up claims of nb identity being more palatable but not of binary identity being more palatable at this point. like ok yeah intercommunity bs and fandom bs deserve their discussion etc but can we be fucking serious. yes its annoying how many people go "the transfem headcanon is nice but what about genderfluid (popular transfem character.)" yes it sucks how many peoples favorite transfem musician is gerard way in a tone indicating its because he/they public pronouns mean its easy to just see them as a quirky man. yes its horrible your shitty ex wanted you to try being a femme demiboy instead. thats all bad. can you talk about it without implicitly denying the far wider scale to the point of being structurally imposed pressure to be a 100% feminine (and ideally straight) normal binary woman that means sometimes you have to lie that you are or cant get hormones without diy. sometimes youll have to say this lie even to get diy if your local resources are handled by trans people who follow this mindset and its too costly get shit imported. sometimes you cant get surgeries in an order of choosing and will have to get ones you dont want to get ones you do. sometimes the surgeries you want actively will not be available from the only surgeons in your area that people reccomend. sometimes getting certain surgeries is the only way to stop being legally classed as a man. every other self proclaimed cis/tme trans ally and plenty of other trans women too will defend transfems on the basis of hormones and surgery in ways that make it clear anyone with a lack of desire for these is the invasive predatory man that all the transmisogynists are worried about.

there's a really fun balance when you know someone has a crush on you where you can tease them for having a crush on you without letting them know you know they have a crush on you. this only works because people who have crushes will analyze everything you say but not very well. anyway, i love playing with my food.

Trying 2 Be Better Than Myself

YIPEEEEEEEEEEE

They are both doing the "I want" chitter. They very much want to get up, but they have a sleeping baby cuddling with them. They must endure, but they will not be silent about it

Well well well, kitties. Looks like you want to get up but there's a little cat on you so you can't. Very frustrating situation there, can't imagine the burden of being held down by a little adorable kittycat. Couldn't, as the kids say, be me.