qing / hui

some digital stickers i made with blender a few years ago feel free to use them as a pfp or whatever you want lol (except for commercial use)

dead or detransitioned.

they were killed by their families. by their partners. by random strangers.

they killed themselves because they weren't treated with respect.

they never got out of the closet because they live in a part of the world where people seen as women don't have any autonomy.

they detransitioned because they had no support, because they were pushed out of community and safe queer spaces.

they're so stealth nobody in their lives knows they're trans, because they get treated with less respect when people know.

Oh, that sounds rough. Not being able to explain yourself because you don't have the language you need .... Hmmmm...... That sounds familiar..... If only the people you're taking language from could understand Your Epic Struggle™ ....... Hmmm..... (/Sarcastic tone).

Nonverbal people and our culture and identity are being used for memes- and misrepresented by fully or partially verbal people. So... Consider: we don't owe you a bunch of language alternatives before you decide you don't "need" to be ableist towards us. We deserve better than that.

It is so incredibly violent to take language and descriptors from a group of people who categorically have a harder time accessing language than you. And on top of that, nonverbal people are supposed to coddle and hand-hold you through our pleas for you to stop being ableist towards us? Fuck off.

No, really. Fuck that ableist, downpunching bullshit. It shouldn't be our responsibility to gently guide you through language alternatives that aren't harmful. You're being ableist, so YOU go look for alternative language. It's literally on this website. Other nonverbal folks have done the labour to create masterposts of alternative words and phrases... All you have to do is use the search function.

Nonverbal people get written off as nitpicky or aggressive when we tell people not to misuse our identities for their convenience. Yet you're the ones causing harm to our community. You rely on us not being able to argue back in a way you find "acceptable", and use our struggles with language as a reason why it's ok for you to carry on ignoring us.

Nonverbal people aren't believed when we communicate we are nonverbal. This struggle to be understood is worsened when verbal or altverbal people decide to misuse the word nonverbal to mean "goes quiet when tired".

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Pixie not even try do that any more . Too actually impossible to work through hurts and intense feels without outside help .

The tent we live in is barely standing, and we are doing everything we can to protect ourselves and our children.

Any help, even a small amount, truly makes a difference and helps us endure and make it through another day.

Donation link:

https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-ali-survive-and-evacuate-gaza

Hi there, I'm Casi, I'm a disabled enby who is the sole caregiver for my elderly disabled mother. We are Homeless, and staying in a hotel because it is the safest option for us. Theres no shelters anywhere accessible, we have no family that could put us up, and the county sheriffs will arrest you if they find you on the streets or camping in the desert. We dont even have a car to live in. We have no transportation and no other options.

She has chronic bronchitis and severe arthritis and has difficulty breathing and walking, I have chronic pain and autoimmune issues as well as HS which are all flaring up badly right now[comorbiditys a bitch and stress + cold doesnt help hahahahaha].

Currently Moms SSI is our only stable income, and it only goes so far. I do sell my art and am looking for stable work but, as of 9am Dec. 9th, we're flat broke with nothing substantial expected to come in this month.

We have all our medications and the necessary supplies for the month, and our food stamps are good today so we will have food covered, the sole worry is the big one, keeping a roof over our heads.

The room is paid for until Tuesday the 16, it costs $72 a night, $557 a week.

Literally anything that anyone could spare to help us is so incredibly appreciated, even $1 helps, a reblog especially helps because the more people who see this the more likely someone who can afford to help us will see it.

I am Amer, a Palestinian man from Gaza. I live with my wife and four children in indescribable conditions. Despite all this suffering, hope remains in our hearts.

My wife, my children, and I live in a single small tent. We lack the most basic necessities, and our daily lives are full of challenges: power outages, water shortages, and difficulty in securing food and medicine.

The situation in Gaza is tragic, and we face relentless conflict every single day. But I believe that strength lies in unity, and that support, however small, can transform our family's life. I launched this campaign as a plea for hope and an appeal for help to overcome this hardship. All we ask is for the opportunity to live with dignity for my children and my family.

If you hear our story, please share it and offer your support, whether through prayer, a kind word, or any other means. Together, we can make Gaza a better place.

Hello everyone, I know it's been a while! I apologize for my absense, but I come back here to ask if any of you could help my dear friend escape an abusive situation.

They are a victim of sexual assault, attempted-femicide, and they are currently under threat from the same assailant with no way out. It's an extremely hard thing for anyone to go through on their own, so please, if you have anything to spare, could you help them reach their goal?

Third Lotus Prince 🪷

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