This the Tea

calls out toxic masculinity, heteronormativity, sexism, harassment and homophobia right from the start till the end

Femdom and Malesub 👌

even though it’s a romcom about B-D-S-M it doesn’t mock it or drags it into a parody, from the first trailer I expected it to be more comedic but I am glad it isn’t that much (it has funny parts but also handles the topic seriously)

it is actually really educational!!

includes some psychological aspects

includes fails

they both communicate and set boundaries!

aftercare

the glasses as subtle sign of “consent” in the office is clever

talks about non-sexual and sexual B-D-S-M relationships, while pointing out that it’s different for everyone and you should just do what fits you all best

draws a big line between consent and assault, shows safety precautions 

separation between daily life, romantic feelings and sessions (if you are in D/s relationship this is not a 24/7 thing…)

supportive non-prude mom

fucc kink shaming in the year of 2022

THEY ARE BOTH LOVELY

my anxiety:

my piece for the ‘Classics But Make It Gay’ zine!!

based on The Death of Marc Anthony , by Pompeo Girolamo Batoni

prints available here!

i was holding off on remaking this post until i have a set date but everything's very chaotic with my doctor rn but it's sometime at the end of January, so I only have until the beginning of January to get the money, please help me by sharing/reblogging this post!! thank you so much to everyone for all the help and kindness so far, I can't express how thankful I am for everything🥺 🥺 🥺