cosmos

i know we're not supposed to say this but i literally love being alone and going on the computer

You have to let people love you. You have to let people get to know you. You have to let people help you. Being so completely selfless that you try to erase yourself off the face of the planet and never ask for anything and reject everybody's offers of support makes you very hard to love! Unfortunately. Emptying yourself out of everything that makes you, you is not actually what your loved ones want from you, generally. They want to make you happy! They will be so so sad if you don't give them the chance. It's not all selfish. I promise.

getting older and weirder and sexier and more perverted and gluttonous and intelligent and blunt and eloquent and spontaneous and skilled is literally what it's all about

I'm so glad that I get to be queer in this day and age. we still have far to go but there's so much queer joy in my life. I love you my friends. I love you strangers and loved ones alike who see me for who I am. I love you people who saw me visibly queer and smiled like my existence alone made their day a little easier. we've been here for humanity's entire history. we're here right now, alive on planet earth. and we'll be here for humanity's entire future. there's so much queer joy to come. I'm so excited to experience it with all of you in this lifetime [:

i can understand the trials but were the tribulations really necessary

every single fucking thing on earth exists solely to put a dent in your newly applied nail polish

You should tell people how important they are to you. Not because they could leave at any moment, but because they’re here now, and it’s worth saying something.

it will get better. but it will also get worse, and then it will get better again. and that’s how it will be forever and it’s okay

i hate that morrissey wrote i was looking for a job and then i found a job and heaven knows im miserable now. i hate that i have to give him that

maybe there is no best version of myself. just me, right now, vulnerable and tired and hopeful, willing to show up regardless of what it looks like.

how are you all carrying on like it isnt all happening