I’m not real

okay but are you going to be understanding if your dom is a little nervous and not as suave as you'd expect their first few times when domming you? are you going to make them feel comfortable enough to slip into the role without making them feel stupid about it? are you going to accept that real sex is not always as rigid as it would seem in text posts or your fantasies and that it is okay if there are some unserious moments in between the intensity? do you understand that we are all just people having fun and we need to be gentle with each other when showing this vulnerability?

I’ve always felt immediately drawn to dominant women. What does that even mean, dominant? In an initial greeting or encounter, it’s very subtle. Confident, focused, calm, communicating her needs or expectations in a clear unapologetic way. Centering the conversation around herself. But also kind, warm, emotionally open because she fears nothing and is not intimidated or feels the need to be fake or polite when talking to a stranger. Just able to be herself, with anyone. You can tell instantly. These are probably just some qualities, there will be others. These aren’t things I experience consciously but I know when I’ve met a woman like this. She probably intimidates many men with her way of being, but not me. Or rather: I’m intimidated but it makes me feel like a little boy, and at the same time I’m drawn to her erotic energy as an adult. I want to make her happy, please her, I want to do what she says, and be good for her. I desperately want her to like me, I want to be near her. I have a desire to be held by her, or kneel by her legs. Those are images that come up a bit later, it happened just the other day. I won’t see that woman again but am still thinking of her. It was a 2 minute casual conversation. Magnetic is the word. I feel drawn to her.

you can post on tumblr even when you're trying to take a break from social media it literally doesn't count. it's like pepsi max, or pescatarianism

There is something damaged within me spiritually that can only be repaired by,,, tongue in my mouth,,,,,,, yep!

i want to FLUSTER that man. i want to make him BLUSH. i want to make him feel VULNERABLE AROUND ME. i want to make him WEAK IN THE KNEES. i want to kiss him

slow intimate sex where we just wanna make each other feel good 😵‍💫 skin to skin, my fingertips trailing lightly down your side, we've got all night

clocking in to my shift at the yearning factory

Reblog to give mutuals a break from whatever they're been going through