I'm just a moth

Reblogs r back on so BEHAVE.

all my haters become cicaders when i enter the summer of success

i just think more people should know that rejecting monogamy is not a big to do or something you need to do mountains of research and planning for and not something you need to come out as doing or dedicate a portion of your identity to. i always say things like this and get people in my notes going "AAAGH but the SCHEDULING and COMMITMENT and i don't even KNOW if i'm REALLY poly" but the thing is that you can just choose not to cram your love for others and your understanding of others' love for you into pre-ordained restrictive boxes kind of at any time & very likely be happier for it. yes yes reblog joke about going and cheating on your partner after reading this, very funny you won one free internet etc

people with the emotional maturity to handle non-monogamy without doing mountains of research and cramming their feelings into pre-ordained boxes are probably already doing that tbh

The people who can't handle non-monogamy can't handle monogamy either

some people are monogamous, Jasmin. god.

just recently agreed to be closed and maybe soon monogamous with my gf. Its been working great for us. I had to give up some sexual and romantic freedom but it was well worth it for the happiness and confidence in our relationship for my partner. even as a normally poly person I don't look down on those who work differently from me. 2 year reunion coming up soon 💜

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You know that cute way bugs wave their front legs looking for the next leaf to walk on I'm doing that to cute transgenders on this website