childhood trauma is so weird because you grow up to find out that stuff that happened wasn’t okay and suddenly memories come back and you realize how it really messed you up on the inside

Everyone say it with me: THANK YOU BLACK VOTERS AND ORGANIZERS

When I tell people to delete anon hate, to not publish it, it’s not me saying “ignore it and it’ll stop; don’t fight back.” It is 100% petty and spiteful. Honestly, I can’t think of anything better than the person who sent the hate obsessively checking your blog and refreshing and refreshing, waiting for you to reply, and getting increasingly frustrated when the ask they so masterfully crafted never pops up & you just keep posting cute pictures of your pets and talking about how nice your day was.

the reason why tumblr friendships last like 2 months with a callout and screenshots ready is because you’re all freaks and because none of you learned how to communicate and I don’t mean like “you don’t know how to talk to people” I just mean like. Y’all think it’s healthy to hate your friends and just not tell them or not telling someone when they say something fucked up and then waiting for their callout to tell everyone “it was so scary!” Like y’all are what... 16-20 years old and can barely tell someone if you’re upset w something they did

friendly reminder that twink, bear, etc, are body types, not gender expressions! being a twink just means small/boyish and thin/average build, not inhearently fem or masc. let fat/chubby/hairy boys be feminine! n let skinny/small boys be masculine!