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basically my favorite thing to do is imagine The Character in some sort of situation of terrible emotional turmoil. it’s like enrichment for me

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starryk1sses

I hate delayed amnesia so much. I’ll go through a whole day thinking I’m “fine” and fully present, and then hours later it hits me like—wait… I don’t remember anything from today. It feels like my whole day just slips through my fingers.

I’d like to think I’m staying relatively co-conscious with our other alters/fragments, but then once they leave, I lose nearly—if not all—of the memory afterward. It’s so disorienting.

lesbian-avenue

the terms narcissist, sociopath and psychopath do not mean "bad person". unlearn that.

hollanderthoughts

"your life is yours to mold" oh nooooooooo oh no oh my god. oh fuck me. no. oh my god. oh im so fucked dude.

depression-stays-but-you-dont

sorry for not talking to anyone i am completely one hundred percent disconnected from this reality

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void-and-aether

How many other people have done this you think

balaclava-trismegistus

[Getting so angry it makes my brain disease worse] people sre supposed to be nice..

partywithponies

Strange racists and homophobes on the internet seem to have access to an alternate way cooler version of TV than me. "every white character on TV is in an interracial relationship" "every show has a gay couple in it" "main characters keep having to secretly be bisexual and nonbinary" "every show has gratuitous full frontal nudity" like damn promise?? What channel???

urlocalpyshcopan

as a black gay person real like where y'all be finding this stuff pass the name

brainsforbabyjesus

for real though, those DO NOT WATCH OR YOU'LL CORRUPT YOUR CHILDREN lists put out by conservative christian family groups is where I find all the stellar tv shows. Like, shit I didn't know half of those existed, thanks for finding them for me, gonna go watch 30 hours of gay tv now!

infamousbrad

I think I know how this works.

For personal context, before I went to the '98 Burning Man festival, one of the things I'd read from a couple different journalists was that "everybody" runs around naked. Which, fine by me, I'd already spent a lot of time in clothing-optional spaces, I'm not fanatic about it but it's nice.

So I got there early and set up a public shade structure on one of Black Rock City's main roads and spent most of each afternoon just watching the crowds go by. I don't remember seeing more than one actually naked person the whole week. I think a topless woman passed by my intersection maybe every half an hour, sometimes once an hour. So why in the hell were people, normally pretty smart and observant writers, coming away with the impression that everybody was naked?

Then I remembered an unrelated passage from Joel Garreau's great book about the history of the outer-ring suburbs, Edge City. Mall developers told him flat-out that they tried to keep the crowds in their malls less than 5% black. Not because they themselves were racist, but because they had determined, experimentally, that if more than 5% of the people in the mall are black, the median white shopper will wrongly describe the mall as at least half black, as mostly black. And not a few of them would describe it, at 6% black, as a mall where "only black people go." Why?

Because, emotionally, they were still upset over the last one when the next one came into view.

Same as the journalists describing Black Rock City as all naked. Same as the right-wing religious culture warriors describing television as entirely mixed-race and gender non-conforming. Not because it's even vaguely true, we know that, but because they haven't gotten over their discomfort over the last one by the time the next one comes along. The anger, not the stimulus, is the part that's continuous, so their mind lies to them that it's "all" the thing they can't get over.

kagedtiger

Similar effect for the presence/proportion of women in things, by the way: https://health.howstuffworks.com/mental-health/human-nature/perception/how-17-equals-496-the-amazing-multiplying-women.htm

ifoundmybeatingheartagain

Because, emotionally, they were still upset over the last one when the next one came into view.

this has rewired some neural pathways for me

laterkiss

is this happening because i was born

this-is-neuropsych-ableism

Traumisia

Traumisia: The oppression and stigmatization of people with psychological trauma.

Examples:

-Gatekeeping trauma that doesn't seem "severe" enough (ie; emotional abuse, touch starvation, peer abuse, friendship breakups, etc.) -Blaming trauma survivors for their experiences, or deciding it was "deserved" based on negative actions. (Ie; "That serial killer deserved to be beaten as a child, I am glad they suffered through that.") [Disclaimer: Trauma doesn't excuse shitty actions, but praising a person's trauma just shows other trauma survivors who went through the same thing that you only care if they are "moral enough" for you.] -Fakeclaiming or policing trauma survivors due to having "unpalatable" or "unrealistic" trauma responses. -Treating trauma survivors as weak/pathetic. -Undermining trauma survivors agency and autonomy. -Infantilizing trauma survivors. -Adultifying minor trauma survivors, or treating trauma survivors [of any age] as "beyond their years." -Expecting trauma survivors to undergo painful recovery processes before they are ready and/or against their will. -Telling trauma survivors that what they experienced made them "stronger" or had a "purpose." -Expecting trauma survivors to be leaders or lonewolves (nothing wrong if thats what the survivor prefers, but it's the romanticization of other people that is the bad part, the expectation that they won't lean on anyone or that they'll be more responsible.)

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kosmogrl

they weren’t kidding when they said the only way out is through

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gendernewtral

can we go back to acknowledging that ignoring someone’s chosen pronouns is always misgendering, even when you’re using neutral ones instead

nightmaretour

"I'm disabled too so I can't be ableist!"

*Loud incorrect buzzer noise* ❌

#important reminder that just because you're a member of a group doesnt mean you cant be bigoted against that group #fx misogynistic women or transphobic trans people #aaaand just because youre disabled in one way (maybe youre autistic) and super aware of ableism against autistic people #that doesnt mean you might not carry ableist views about another disability

shimejikin

implying the r slur is anything like reclaiming faggot or dyke implies there's some sort of community and comfort and care behind the social group "retard" is being applied to. which there isn't, because disabled people haven't ever had the ability to create communities for themselves let alone archive or take down their own history and experiences. that is happening now, this is the first time that has ever been allowed to happen. there is no comfort when another disabled person calls me it, there is lateral ableism. that's it. they're just weaponizing our oppressors' words against me in a way that gains them power. that's not reclamation. that's just slur slinging.

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