spankmered

Mad? At exactly fucking what?

No, you know what? I would be mad. I’d be mad as hell that I completely failed in every conceivable way to uphold my responsibilities to my sub/little. I’d be livid with myself for making her so worried about me because I failed to make her a priority. I’d be furious that I didn’t keep my word to her by keeping my plans.

More than that, I’d be ashamed. I’d be embarrassed. I would know that I disappointed the one who means more to me than anyone else on this godforsaken planet, and that would be humiliating to me.

When you own someone, you don’t just get to uphold your duties when you feel like it.  This is not a game we play at when it’s convenient for us.  If you don’t understand the principles of commitment, responsibility, or possess a sense of duty - if your word to your sub/little isn’t something you hold sacred, then this life isn’t the life for you.

My property.

My toy.

My cunt.

My kitten.

Quite simply, MINE.

on her own

She never needed

a man

because she had herself

A person can respect your limits and still choose not to be with you because of them.

You don’t want to give up control of your orgasms, don’t want to swallow, or don’t want to use an honorific (Sir, Master, etc.), that’s your choice and it’s completely valid.

You get to set your limits, but keep in mind that when someone comes along and tells you those things are a must have for them, that’s not them disrespecting you. They’re not abusive or manipulative for deciding not to pursue a relationship because your limits are essentials for them.