you just try again

watching steven universe is the polar opposite of eating pussy

literally every kind of tumbler discourse is happening in the notes of this

you can tell a lot about someone based on their phone background. it shows what’s most important to them

Reblog this and put what your phone background in the tags

Sometimes good parents make mistakes.

There might come a day when you look at your parent who loves you, tries their best, never abused you, and realize that they don’t always know best. And it’s a weird thing to come to terms with. To know you were loved but there were still bad things that they did accidentally. But even if it’s small you’re allowed to struggle with it. You don’t need to have been through the worst kind of abuse to question your parents.

This isn’t a post about abusive and/or manipulative parents. It’s about things like your mom leaving you with an irrational fear of germs or your dad trying to get you on a diet when you’re a kid because he believes the studies about weight affecting health. Not intentional harm and not abuse. Just garden variety mistakes.

liberal family members when a woman cuts her hair very short: I respect your decision but I can’t lie, I think you look better with your hair longer. Is this just an experiment, do you think you’ll grow your hair out after this? Again, I respect your decision, but I do think longer hair looks better than you. I think it is very important that, while I know I have no say in what you do with your hair, I need you to know that I think you look better with your hair long. Don’t be offended, but it is of utmost importance that you understand that you look better to me when you have long hair.

I’ve seen several replies along the lines of “you’re confusing liberals and conservatives”, which I’m not. I specified liberal relatives because in my personal experience, conservatives are more likely to just straight up say “your short hair is ugly and you need to grow it out” while liberals will go “I am a good socially conscious person and therefore know I am not supposed to try to dictate other people’s appearance, however I still need to make it very abundantly clear that I think your short hair is ugly in hopes that you’ll get the hint and grow it out”.

viewing queer identities as “this is the label that makes me happy and feels most accurate now” rather than “this is who I am, was, and always will be” will definitely take the pressure off, friends. changing your mind is proof that you have one.

Friendly reminder that your understanding of yourself changes and it’s ok to change your labels to reflect that.

normalize flopping. it’s ok to fail baby. sexy even

the amount of people saying "i thought you meant flopping on the ground". target audience