one of the many reasons Fleabag is so heartbreaking and relatable is because no one ever chose her. Not her family. Not her lovers. Not her supposed “soulmate”. The one person that picked her died. She was no one’s choice or option, not even to herself. The way we can feel her loneliness through the screen is enough to make me collapse into a mess of tears on the ground and shake uncontrollably

we should treat love as something to be built rather than found

the show (going out to get groceries. making myself a nice dinner. showering and opening the windows. being kind to myself in everything i do) Must go on

Not everything happens for a reason. Some things happen purely because evil exists in the world. That did not happen to you because you deserved it. It didn’t happen to you because you needed to learn a lesson. There are lessons you can learn without experiencing pain.

Friendly reminder to care for yourself. Eat regularly, drink water, sleep at least 8 hours. And if at all possible, remove abusive people from your life. You don't need people who lie, manipulate, threaten, or hurt you in any way. Like if you can't settle disagreements without those kinds of things happening, get out of that situation.