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Just a thought, but I think that something that often gets overlooked in the romance vs friendship/QPR debate is how those things are just as socially constructed as gender, and do not, in fact, fall into a strict binary, or even trinary system. Relationships between people are fluid, negotiated things, and terms like partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, friend, etc, mean different things to different people, cultures and eras.

pls more cishet allo/monogamous ppl need to hear this. u don’t need to identify as queer for your relationship to be outside of what’s expected. so many people would be saved from shitty unhappy relationships if they were just educated and accepted that complete monogamy/ long term romantic relationships aren’t for everyone. and sometimes there is no such thing as “the one” sometimes you will find a soul mate and you be in love with them but not want to date/marry them. sometimes you click with lots of different people in different ways. sometimes you click sexually but not in day to day life. don’t let what is expected of you and the “norm” or the judgetment of others get in the way of your love. and just because you’re not “dating” doesn’t mean that love isn’t real and genuine or less than a typical relationship