You have met your big little girl. You have had several long, deep and wide ranging conversations about wants, don’t-wants, needs and wishes for a relationship and Daddy (or Mummy) has finally brought his big little girl home.
We begin fairly strictly. Better to be strict at the beginning, so she knows without question what is expected, allowed, not allowed and why. We can “loosen the leash” later on, when we know she’s learning and is going to be a good, obedient little girl. In general, the fewer clothes she wears around the house, in comparison to your fully dressed self, the more it reinforces her junior position in the household. Married couples who “adopt” a big little girl may well have a hierarchy at home too - Daddy is in charge, Mummy is in charge of their big little girl/s but is still disciplined by Daddy as and when necessary, and big little girl/s are the children of the house.
Newly arrived “children” will need to learn the basics fairly quickly, so a daily or even twice daily maintenance spanking might be called for. “Children” should be put to bed at a suitably childish time in the evening. 7.00, 8.00, certainly no later than 9.00 pm. Likewise, indoor clothing should be limited to a T shirt, knickers and socks to begin with. The “child” then earns privileges such as extra layers of clothing, later bedtime, etc, by being a well behaved, well mannered and obedient little girl, and maintaining a good, acceptable attitude. Each “parent” can then add their own personal variations to this process as the big little girl makes progress. Remember though, that the majority of such “children”, although physically adult, are mentally and emotionally somewhere between 4 and 14 years old, no older.
I hope, for those who have asked, the above is a helpful introduction to parenting big little girls.
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