clean-queer Aspheera

Actually being diagnosed with a disorder shouldn't be something seen as a quirk to have. You cannot be "trans disabled" or "endogenic" because that implies its a choice to have a disorder. Its not. You don't have to have a disability. Its ok (and much rather prefered) to not have a disability, but the ones with said disability can't help but have it

"BPDgenic systems!!" Y-you mean.... like.... traumagenic....???? Like actual systems are...??? Cuz BPD is a disorder that is triggered by trauma.... So you admit that you need trauma for a system to form, even if it's "BPDgenic".... endos are so contradictory, they don't even research their own "blanks" in the "*blank*genic" labels they place. Otherwise they'd know that BPD is a partial trauma disorder formed as a way to cope and respond to trauma.... just like actual systems...!!!

The rqc put 'trans' onto everything that should be 'normal' just for them to appeal to pedophiles. 'Transage'? Thats called a birthday or age regression. 'Transspecies'? Therian, otherkin. 'Transabled'? Gaining an actual disability or disorder in life is a thing that happens, you dont gotta be 'trans' for that. All youre doing is fueling the actual transphobia trans people face by using the term 'trans' as a quirky joke. Especially the transage thing... that's just disgusting if youre an adult that thinks theyre forever a kid. Age isn't a social construct the way gender is... neither is being able bodied vs disabled, neither is being a Nazi???? Wtf is transNazi?????? Why are you proud of that?????? No better than Republicans, being a Nazi ("trans" or not) isn't a flex!!!

Being in the BPD community on tumblr lowk kinda scary, cuz if I like a post that's a little more on the graphic side ("I want to gut myself for them"), idk if its in an obsession way or a necrophile way--cuz it does feel very thin ice sometimes-- and i dont want to be associated with necrophiles ://

Lecturing is not harassment!! Something I've seen happen is that a lot of radqueers and proshippers will think that someone lecturing them and informing them as to why their communities are harmful is a form of harassment. If done nicely yet sternly without name calling (which, ironically, something peoshippers do, then say we're the ones name calling), then its not harassment. We are trying to look out for you, *especially* minors in the community, but all of you in general, so we (attempt to) lecture out of love and concern.