Then what really is love?
What is this love? Have you ever experienced love before?
True love is when.. the base of relationship is not based on codependency / your past.
For example the most common one: you love someone you want them soo bad you never wanted someone this bad. they ignore you, they hurt you, they make you feel misrable still you only want that single person to be your permanent one.
Ever thought why so? Why only this person and not someone else?
Cause honey this is your past Wonded self.
let me make it more simple for you🌟
Think of a similar situation happend in your life. like this person wasn't there someone who suddenly left you. who turned their back on you. who suddenly became cold same like this person. Many a times these people are our parents and friends who suddenly changed just like your "love". The base of this type of relationship is codependency. if you will get this person your "love" you will be shocked on how you just don't love them anymore. why?
because you never loved them. 💔 noo?
let me explain it more..
so there is part inside you who want justice, who want to make things normal for you in past, who want to get loved from your (parents)or (friends) or whoever hurted to you the same way your "love" treated you.
Darling i know it is hard to accept but whatever love is based on this type of things is not love but it is for your own good. we can't be victim always nah 🍂 hmm?
So now what is true love then? mother's love? umm....
can be/can be not not everyone has amazing loving parents. i can understand ❣️
Well love is uhh.. no no
true love is where you both balance each other. ( not the one in which one is kind/innocent/calm and other one is arrogant/ aggressive n' can be easily hurt) ( beacuse it is again codependency). where there is no drama and you are from the core happy😊
You wanna know now? is it true love or not?
Do one thing now.. ask yourself honestly and it is only you here so there is no need to hide anything. 💓
Ask yourself are you litreally happy? Can you live without this person too? Is your relationship constant is it same like it was first time? Isn't this relationship is always on-off? does this person is always there when they see you are moving on? or just when you really need them not when you want them too?
if your answer to all this question were NO
baby here you go you got the answer ❣️
And at the end of the day you yourself know what is it and what is it not. if you are still struggling and don't want to leave this person. it's ok honey give yourself time. Everything happens for a reason. and believe in yourself you will find solutions to all your problems. 🍂
So here it ends this is my first post on tumblur and you can also follow me on instagram @clarity9191. and can share your anything with me i am always there but only when you really need someone's help❣️
Ok? soo bye my loves❣️ see you soon with more next time 🍂
