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@claraheaux
a bottom-tier autistic experience is being told throughout your entire childhood that you are just an overthinker when it comes to social situations and later finding out that your friends did, in fact, hate being around you and tried to communicate that through weird little hints
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Me: Fuck, the paper towels I want are on the top shelf.
The Sir David Attenborough That Lives In My Brain: Being smaller-than-average presents an added challenge to foraging ... but necessity is the mother of invention. A little creativity turns a baguette into a tool, and voilà--
(paper towel roll falls on my face)
Sir David Attenborough, pleasantly: Success.
learning that constantly thinking about and analyzing and interpreting my traumas isn’t actually healing . and don’t get me wrong its made me a very effective communicator and emotionally intelligent person. but actually im supposed to be moving on and experiencing new things and happiness and stuff and not just compulsively reliving and recontextualizing the past. oops!
Best therapist I ever had helped me unpack my trauma and then, crucially, helped me pack it away again
Except this time it's all correctly labeled so when I start experiencing issues related to them I'm not just drowning in undefined pain.
I'm like: "ah shit the Childhood Neglect container is leaking all over everything! I better mop it up and put it in a new container"
And sometimes something comes up and I'm like: "ah. This belongs in the religious trauma box. Let me put it away and then I can do art until I feel better"
You unpack your trauma to organise it and correctly label it do you know how to handle it. But you still pack it away so you can live your actual life
"I'm just a girl☺️🥰💖💞💅🌺🌷🦄" when you were eight and the teacher said she needed some strong boys to carry something you used to be furious, and when you convinced them to let you help, you carried twice as many chairs as the boys with the righteous anger of a girl who knew she was just as capable as them. Where did that go?
some of you are perfectly fine people but you need to develop self esteem and distress tolerance so bad how are you ugly and having the worst day of your life every day
people sent me death threats for this one
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the ''you need more communication'' hypothesis is a scam, it is a lie, dont fall for it. no amount of ''communication'' will make somebody who doesn't fundamentally respect you as a person treat you any differently. this is just another bone i have to pick with the collective scam of the ''therapeutic'' approach to human relationships. more communication more communication. if something is wrong that just means you didn't ''communicate'' correctly. then if you do communicate exactly like they instructed you to you're left with nothing but embarrassment. and they'll be like yeah so basically you have to repeat that ''communication'' that you just did again. and again and again. until the other person complies out of straight up being tired of hearing your voice. it has nothing to do with actual mutual understanding 99% of the time. they literally just get tired of you complaining so they agree to do it your way but they actually resent you. i see people falling for this all the time
maybe i like my tech a little bit inconvenient
maybe i like pulling out my debit card instead of using apple pay. maybe i like untangling my wired headphones. maybe i like typing something into the search bar instead of using siri or whatever. maybe i like curating my own social media feeds over an algorithm. i just don’t think everything has to be perfectly streamlined and efficient i like it when things feel tethered to the real world.
character whose villain origin story is having a job
Don Draper
what Work is the most important? the work you have to do next. narrow the scope of focus down to that singular glittering point.
How to get out of a rut
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Controversial Opinion but one thing that I learned in the last few months of 2023 was to not accommodate my social anxiety at any cost. If you're someone like me, whose social anxiety is caused by fear of messing up and just not being used to socializing, then this is for you. Do not indulge or adapt to your anxiety, instead just do it. I know it seems ridiculous, but really you have to just expose yourself to what you're anxious and scared of, which in this case is socializing or basically doing anything publicly.
Exposure=Knowledge=practice=confidence=less anxiety because once you're exposed to your fear, it'll get easier. Sure, it may takes weeks, months and maybe even years, but you will eventually gain confidence and get better at it. For instance, let's say you suck at doing pull ups. But you practice it for 30 days and eventually you will see improvements. It's the same thing with social behavior, you won't get better at it if you don't participate in socializing. You have to show up, even if it's just for 5 minutes, even if it's just walking to the grocery shop. You need little steps to achieve confidence and fuck social anxiety up. If your anxiety is telling you not to do it because you'll look dumb or ugly or whatever, it's lying to you. You need to do it anyways. Literally cannot explain this enough, do it anyways, even if you're bad at it, even if you don't know how to do it. Do it anyways.
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i know it's hard. but i so firmly believe the strongest antidote to loneliness is reaching out first. and continuing to reach out. again and again and again. excise any scrap of shame you hold about being the person who texts first or pitches the plan or asks to get lunch. everyone is tired and busy and struggling. and afraid of feeling unwanted and unimportant. don't let the people you love feel that way. reach out first. don't be a ghost in your own life.
Charlotte Opinion?
You have to dedicate yourself to what works for you but at the same time, it doesn’t do to be a walking pile of contradictions. I understand that humans are nuanced and constantly evolving creatures, but there really is something to be said for knowing who you are and celebrating yourself in all forms. Self-awareness is necessary if you want to find your place in this world.
What I’m saying is that you can’t want to be seen as a serious intellectual and a voracious reader but present yourself as an “I’m just a girl/lobotomy-core” coquette; you can’t play a femme fatale or a hedonistic seductress with one group one day and then be the simple innocent Catholic girl the next. It doesn’t do to play up social justice and equal rights in public and then turn around and claim that you’re totally apolitical and refuse to vote or speak your opinion on anything.
People do not have much patience for people like this. They don’t like people who seem to stand for everything but speak up for nothing; they don’t like people they can’t depend on, and the acts get old and tiring fast. You don’t make friends, create connections, or have doors open for you if you’re like this. I’m of the opinion that the exact opposite happens, and you’re more than likely to be shut out by the people you’re so desperate to impress. It’s cool to know who you are instead of being someone who has no concept of reality, who they are now, or what works for their soul.
