may we meet again

no offense but stop taking lesbian fashion and slapping the “boyfriend” label on it to make it accessible to straight girls (boyfriend jeans, boyfriend shirts, etc.)

to be clear, I’m not saying nobody but lesbians can wear flannels or anything like that, I’m just saying stop calling them “boyfriend” to make straight girls feel safer in their heterosexuality. if you’re gonna take style that was popularized by lesbians, at least don’t put a label on it that’s a blatant slap in the face to lesbians

better yet, imagine lexa going to war, leaving clarke in charge of polis while she’s gone. one day, when clarke is laughing and playing around with the nightbloods, the ring stops

SUFFERING IS NOT A CONTEST

SUFFERING IS NOT A CONTEST

“I’m not skinny, so I can’t have an eating disorder.” You definitely can.

“i can talk to people so i can’t have social anxiety” yes you can

self-destruction doesn’t always look like taking too many pills or cutting your skin open. sometimes it’s drinking coffee when you know caffeine gives you panic attacks. sometimes it’s crossing the street without looking both ways. sometimes it’s showering with the water a little too hot. sometimes it’s avoiding eye contact with your reflection in the mirror or ridiculing your problems rather than addressing them. sometimes it’s walking out without sunscreen in scorching heat and not wearing enough when it’s freezing out. self destruction isn’t always physical mutilation, mostly it’s masked as little things so never assume what someone may be going through just bc they don’t show you visible signs of suffering.

I am unable not to reblog this.

Being old doesn’t excuse being a bigot, now or ever

how do people not swear??? like where does their anger go?? how do they show their enthusiasm??? what if they stub their toe??? like saying golly gosh isn’t really gonna cut it barbara 

The person you love is not the same as they were when you first started loving them and they are not the same as they will be when you die. Love must be adaptive. Love must be smart enough and strong enough to survive constant change. Love must not be rigid.