Cilvixie

thinking as a person who already has it AND DOING NOTHING EXTRA TO 'GET' IT

put in no effort, and feel like i'm putting in no effort because i'm just believeing that i have it and then repeating that to myself (because why would i think of how to get something, which requires effort, if i already have it?)

don't think about the 'how' or 'when' (since you already have it)

take your desires off the pedestal

think of yourself as the prize.

i think of my desires as way smaller than me and as very achivable/plausable

i see manifesting as something easy.

affirm whenever i get the chance; like when i'm cleaning, walking my dog, brushing my teeth, showering, etc. whenever my brain has the chance to not conciously focus on something. (there's a post on how to affirm but i'll probably write a new one soon.)

this is all about perspective. see it as simple, and it is.

Your world is nothing but your assumptions in disguise.

Every detail you notice outside of you is only a mirror of what you already decided within.

This is why “hoping” and “expecting” keep you stuck.

This is why hoping feels ENDLESS: When you hope, you push your desire away, holding it in the distance. When you expect, you keep waiting for proof, which means you keep living in the absence of it.

But assumption is different. Assumption is a DECISION.

It’s the inner moment where you say: this is mine, this is me, this is true. And the second you decide that, it already exists within you, which means it already exists in your world.

Focus on having it, not seeing it.

the 3D is the afterimage, not the source. It is the echo of who you’ve already assumed yourself to be.

When you change within, the mirror bends.

Think of it like tracking a package you’ve already ordered. When the confirmation email says “your order is placed,” you don’t panic every hour wondering if it’s real or if it's really going to arrive. You know it’s already yours even before the box shows up at your door.

Your imagination is NOT a fantasy, it is the seedbed of your reality.

The picture in your mind is more real than the empty space outside of you. That empty space is only residue, an echo of an old story you no longer tell.

but what?

what’s stopping you?

shifting/loa is real. period.

you can’t just say you know shifting/loa is real but then go “oh but but but!!!”

knowing means you stand firm in your belief no matter what. knowing means nothing can stop your belief from shaking.

just by you knowing, that’s all you need.

there’s no exception.

shifting is real.

loa is real.

no ifs no buts.

it’s just real.

done.

i'm sure all of us have been in this situation at least once:

you're manifesting something. you decide, feeling 100% fulfilled, knowing nothing could go wrong. but then you hear the thoughts.

the loud negative thoughts screaming "you're wrong!! you don't have it. you're lying to yourself. it's impossible." people tell you to just ignore it, but how can you when it's SO loud that it's taking over your mind?

this is the ego. the ego thinks logically and relies on its senses. it believes that because it doesn't see it, then it isn't real.

but you are NOT the ego! you are consciousness. meaning those thoughts and feeling aren't yours. they have nothing to do with you. so you don't identify with it. you dismiss it. but how do you do that when its so overbearing?

how do you make it submit?

you just have to beat it at it's own game.

like i said, the ego thinks logically. so all you have to do, is beat it with logic. watch how it can't come up with a response. watch how it submits.

(now you, consciousness, don't believe in logic. logic doesn't even exist to you. but it doesn't mean you can't use it against the ego 🙃)

let's go through some examples:

say you have a test today but you decide it's postponed. immediately, your ego screams "no its not! don't you see what the teacher said? it's today!! it's too late for it to change." but you stay calm. you dont let that affect you.

you reply, "what if they get sick and have to cancel?" it thinks. but what can it say? it responds,"oh...you're right...that is a possibility i guess." see how it can't argue with you?

heres another one. your sp is dating someone else, but you decide they love you instead. again, your ego yells "no they don't! why are you lying to yourself? they're literally dating someone else." do you spiral? no. you know that's not true.

you go, "what if he's just trying to find the right time to break up?" the ego thinks again. no rebuttal. it accepts, saying "hm..i didn't think of that...that could be true."

last one. you have brown hair, but you decide you have blonde hair. of course, your ego cries out "no you don't! you obviously have brown hair, look in the mirror. see? brown. you can't have blonde hair, it's impossible." hearing this, you don't falter. you don't break down.

you persist and respond, "what if the brown hair was hair dye? and i just forgot?" it thinks, trying to grasp for straws. but it can't find any. it eventually gives up, thinking ""well...i guess that makes sense..maybe it is real."

SEE? the ego has no rebuttal !! because HOW can it rebut logic, the very thing it follows?? it can't.

it can't respond. it can't argue. it can't fight.

all it can do is submit.

the girlies on twitter haaate talking about self concept and i'll never understand it. “don't worry about self concept, i was crying shitting and throwing up and i still got what i wanted so it's fine!” congrats but why would i want to go through that though? why would i choose to struggle when i could actually like myself and get what i want? if you are struggling, surviving trauma, or experiencing genuine self loathing, self concept is so helpful and i just think it's really wild to deny that. 

self concept is just the foundation you’re building your reality on. it is who you assume you are, the self you identify with the most. and it’s that self who is creating your world all day all the time. neville called this your “state.” he said “the state you occupy by your beliefs is the sole cause of the phenomena of your life.” when you change the state you’re thinking from, you change what you naturally expect, how you feel, how you react, what you notice, and what you allow. you don’t need to force or fix the outside world, you just need to stop identifying as the version of you who doesn’t get what they want.

neville said: “man moves in a world that is nothing more or less than his consciousness objectified.” so ask yourself: what have i been conscious of being? what identity have i been living from? what version of me keeps showing up and getting recycled? self concept affects everything because it’s behind the scenes of every assumption you make.

it influences:

what feels natural or “realistic” to you

how you interpret situations (neutral, threatening, or confirming)

whether you revise or spiral

how you handle silence, attention, money, compliments, praise

how deeply you believe your own affirmations

how much resistance you feel toward your own desires

that’s why when people say “stop focusing on self concept,” it’s like telling someone to build a house on quicksand and just not think about it. girl… the house is gonna sink. you don’t need to become perfect to shift your self concept, you don’t have to love yourself every second or never doubt again (you are still a human being after all) you just have to start identifying as the version of you who has, not the one who lacks.

start normalizing your desire, start assuming you’re meant to have it, start seeing yourself as already being that version, even if you think the 3D is showing you something else. neville said: “to be transformed, the whole basis of your thoughts must change. but your thoughts cannot change unless you have new ideas, for you think from your ideas.”

new identity = new ideas of self = new assumptions = new reality.

that’s how it works. the law doesn’t respond to begging. it responds to being. when you shift your self concept, your old assumptions literally stop making sense. you stop spiraling, you stop reacting the same way, you stop repeating the same stories because you’re no longer the version of you who needs those stories to be true. and the 3D has no choice but to reflect that back.

you don’t need to “work on” self concept forever. you don’t need a million techniques. you just need to notice what identity you’re living from and choose differently when it’s not serving you. and keep choosing that over and over and over (AKA… persisting!) 

it’s not what you asked for. stop viewing it as a process, accept it as a reminder.

i’ve said it (more than) once, and i’ll say it again. that “movement”, the “signs” you see are not what you asked for. it’s motivating, but it’s not what you want. it’s not the WHOLE thing.

when you order a whole cake at a bakery, and the worker gives you just a slice, instead of being all “omg thank you!! it’s a sign of what im trying to manifest!! it’s working!! its movement!!” just say “okay? but it’s not what i asked. i said i have so and so, and that’s it. it’s done.”

when you’re manifesting a SP to text you, and you get all excited because they glanced at you once all day, you’re telling yourself “it’s movement, it’s a sign, etc” you are AFFIRMING that what you have isn’t the whole thing. it’s why most get demotivated after a sign, and end up not seeing any for a long while.

don’t also fall down the rabbit hole where if you get movement, you won’t get the whole thing. the whole point is to acknowledge the fact you have your ENTIRE desire, not just bits and pieces. like, okay, sure. there’s movement, whatever. i have what i want, and that’s that.

never settle for less, it’s that simple.

(buckle up, this is a lil wild)

Let’s start with the fact that… I didn’t even know this guy. I had never spoken to him. Not once. I just randomly started crushing on him one day — and honestly?? It was so random that I wouldn’t be shocked if HE manifested me first. I was minding my business.

My friend used to know him, so I’d been hearing stories about him for like… two years? And I knew we went to the same school, but I’d never seen him until suddenly—BOOM. There he was. Real. Breathing. Cute. And I was like “ok wait why is my heart doing things??”

Naturally, I spiraled. I started stalking his TikTok reposts (don’t do that, it’s not cute) and realized we liked the same stuff. He seemed fun, lowkey goofy, just my type. So the crush got worse. But here’s where I messed up: my mindset? Absolute garbage.

I kept thinking, “He’s too shy. I’m not good enough. He’d never like me like that.” I was literally setting myself up to fail. I messaged him once — got nothing back. Because duh, I was already assuming he wasn’t gonna answer. I knew about the Law of Assumption, but I didn’t really understand it. I’d visualize him, then be like “but what if it never happens” five seconds later.

Every day I thought about him. Every day I got mad that it wasn’t working. I kept saying I was manifesting him but deep down I was still waiting for proof. Still doubting. Still lowkey begging the universe to show me something.

Took me a YEAR to realize the problem was me. I was saying “he’s mine” while still looking at the hallway like a heartbroken NPC every time he walked by. I had to change that.

So I did. I stopped looking for signs. Stopped stalking. Stopped overthinking. Every time he popped into my head, I was like “yep, he’s already mine, moving on.” And I finally started believing it. I worked on myself, built up my confidence, and didn’t even try to “manifest” him again.

And guess what? HE messaged ME. Outta nowhere. Apologized. Explained stuff. Total plot twist moment.

I wasn’t even shocked. I was like “well, finally.” Because once you actually believe you’ve got it, it has to show up. That’s how it works.

AND NOW??

We’re literally perfect. Like not even being dramatic — he treats me so well. He always checks in, sends me memes, compliments me out of nowhere, and actually listens when I talk (10/10 bare minimum KING behavior). He flirts with me like we’re in a teen movie and makes me feel like I’m the only girl on earth. He’s soft with me in private but funny and chill around others. AND he remembers the smallest things I say?? Ugh.

We joke around, go on little walks, sometimes just sit in silence and it's still perfect. It’s not forced. It’s not stressful. It just clicks.

The version of him I wanted? He’s literally that now. And honestly, I’m not even surprised — I became the version of me who had this. That’s the real secret.

So yeah. Don’t give up. Don’t spiral. Stop begging the hallway to make eye contact. Act like it’s already yours — and then it is.

Now go live your Wattpad story.

STOP ! WHEN MANFIESTING PT.2

These are common mistakes I’ve made and seen by people who are new to manifesting and LOA. I also thought a part two would be enjoyed 🪼

STOP– SECOND GUESSING YOURSELF

Oh my hunny :(( I understand why you would, especially if you're new to manifesting and the law. And it's okay!! But truly you need to take deep breathes and trust yourself that it's already done. SP really loves you, I promise. Your DB is in the mirror, I promise. The money did come in, I promise. Your grades are better than before, I promise. This is when you have to have self-discipline and control the thoughts take you away from the desired reality of it already being there. Negative thoughts are really what delays yourself from getting what you want, so flip those thoughts into positive ones. It’ll be a great habit for the future <3

STOP– GIVING UP

Another one that makes me sadness and have seen with people new to the law💔 I’ve seen most people give up because ‘it’s taking too long’, ‘it doesn’t seem possible’, etc etc. It's coming, it's here. You're doing good, don't focus on the undesirable. This is happening because 1. You’re wavering and 2. You’re self sabotaging. You cannot affirm for hours that you ‘have the desire’ and then complain and spiral. It’s not possible till you make it possible. LOA is thought based, so if you leave the end state repeatedly, you’re going to delay it, or unfortunately, not get it. One bad experience doesn’t mean give up, it truly should have you push further. Never mentally leave the end state, stay there as frequent as possible. And again, it’s okay if you messed up! Trail and error is okay, just take deep breathes and try again.

STOP– MAKING YOURSELF THE VICTIM

You need to stop the complaining!! No it’s not the universe coming after you, the universe is doing what it's told BY you. Not anyone else. You complaining about how no method works and how it's not here yet, that's pushing you away more. Stop not even trying to stop the spiral, stop letting yourself waver. SP spoke to 3rd party? Don't complain about it, breathe and affirm they're in love with you. Money didn't come right after of affirming once? Okay? Keep persisting. You need to open your eyes and take charge. The world is your company, you're the CEO. Keep the stocks up, not low. You're powerful, so insanely powerful, stop pushing that control away.

That's all I have for today, hope you are doing well my loves <3

logic has no place in manifestation. you don’t desire anything that you couldn’t have or isn’t possible for you to have it.

if anything? you desiring it is proof that there is a version of you who has it.

the only difference between you and the version of you who has it is your mindset.

how would you feel if you had your desire? how does that version of you think? (about themselves, life and in relation to your desire?)

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even logically, your beliefs influence your behavior and behavior shapes your outcomes. so even “logically” believing in something increases the likelihood of that thing happening! this is how your subconscious mind works. the law just goes another step deeper— belief doesn’t only influence action, it influence perception, experience and even reality.

we’ve all been there when we’ve assumed something bad would happen, and it did.

we’ve all thought about someone and then they reach out.

don’t let logic stand in your way! especially because it doesn’t have to. struggling with logic and doubt in the beginning is normal. look at all we’ve been conditioned to believe.

REMEMBER, everything is literally made up anyway. but that’s a different conversation for a different day..

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𝑳𝒂𝒘 𝒐𝒇 𝑨𝒔𝒔𝒖𝒎𝒑𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒊𝒔 𝒔𝒐𝒐𝒐 𝒇𝒖𝒏

Do you guys understand that you guys can create your reality from scratch? You guys can create your OWN reality and there are NO limits. You can manifest a new planet, a person you desire appearing from thin air, a snack, a hair strand, a star, your desired body, being a master reality shifter, your desired face, a Ferrari, a mansion, meeting a celebrity, meeting your family, being more talkative, your desired friend group and career and so on.

There are no rules or limitations with manifesting. Please go wild and do not waste this law. You can live your best life with this law. The law is literal KEY to your desires. AND you can manifest ANYTHING with it. So scream into your pillow, kick your feet, listen to your favorite music because YOU have your dream life and if you don’t doesn’t matter you still have your dream life.

So for the last time persist. You cannot fail the law if you persist.

Persist no matter what !

You better persist no matter what. Cause’ the law is always going to be there to work and it just follows what you assume. ALL. THE. TIME. So you might as well just keep on persisting. You might as well keep on persisting through doubts, thoughts, fears, emotions etc. Cause’ guess what? The law is always there and its always working whether in unfavorable assumptions or favorable assumptions. The law just is and does. It doesn’t question. It doesn’t investigate. It doesn’t say “Convince me.” It just is your servant. You assume “I am so ugly.” The servant will just make you ugly and you will keep on being ugly if you persist in that. You assume “I am so beautiful.” The servant will make you beautiful and you will keep on being beautiful if you persist in that. Just think of the law as your maid bowing down to you just following whatever you tell it so make sure your assumptions is in your favor and that you persist in it. Cause guess what? The law is always working whether good or bad. (P.s there is a difference between having thoughts and identifying. Identifying is assuming and persisting in a assumption)

this is so freaking cute!!! The order is

exitment and doubts+persistance in affirmations ->

no doubts and happily waiting+persistance in affirmations->

boredom and ugh where is it + persistence in affirmations =

desire in 3d

that was confusing to read but im just here for the graphics <3