Passionately Curious

This umpire basically accused her of cheating! And penalized her for his accusations. This is touchy for Serena being that they have been conspiring against her for the longest with the whole drug testing. She’s had it with them opposing her with no merit or basis! SHE HAS NEVER CHEATED which has been proven time after time with those negative results. and to accuse her of that during this game is why she is extremely and rightfully emotional! The pain and humiliation in her voice says it all. It really hurt her for him to accuse her of that so publicly too. He announced it during the match on the mic to everyone and now that’s like a stain on this moment forever. That’s why she’s demanding he apologize to her and say it over the loudspeaker. To set the record straight that she didn’t do what he alleged.

Honestly she has faced the most her entire career and her mental fortitude to endure it and still be dominant is a miracle. ALWAYS A QUEEN

Not only did he try to steal this moment from Serena, he also cast a shadow over what should’ve been an AMAZING victory for 20 year old Naomi Osaka, a Haitian-Japanese player who’s the first Japanese Player to win a Grand Slam tournament.

If two people lay down together, without full protection, they are making a choice.  Once the choice is made and the damage is done, there really is no going back.  You have three choices.  Abortion.  Adoption.  Parenthood.  Regardless of the choice the woman makes in the long run, if you run and hide and cannot show some kind of empathy or support, you are a coward.

If she chooses abortion, and you decide she’s going to just handle the emotional, physical, and financial scars on her own with that, because why should you stick around?  She’s getting rid of it anyway.  You have no more obligation here.  You’re wrong and you’re sick.  She’s making the decision for all of you to better your lives first.  She’s deciding that she is going to be ready before bringing in life. She’s making a brave and selfless decision.

If she chooses to have the baby and put it up for adoption, and you can’t stick around to help support her through a very stressful, emotional, and physically painful time in her life.  Possibly traumatizing.  If you think that because the child “technically” is going to a home that isn’t with their birth parents (YOU) than you have no more obligation to it, you are again wrong and sick.  She’s doing what she feels is best for the child.  You try carrying a new and precious life inside of you for nine months, growing attached and loving that child, and then having to give it to strangers because you just can’t provide for them.  That’s heartbreaking. She’s making a brave and selfless decision.

If she chooses to have the child and raise it.  Regardless of how you want to or do not want to be a parent, if you cannot be there for not only the woman that you made the choice to risk impregnating, if you cannot be there for your own child, you are a coward.  If you run away and hide because she is “ruining both your lives” or you believe that someone bringing up a life is “fucked up.”  You are wrong.  You are sick. Leaving that child is the worst form of abuse you could ever imagine.  It’s abandonment. Maybe you’ve never hit a child.  Maybe you’ve never called a child names.  But you have left your child with the questions “why didn’t he want me?”  “why couldn’t he love me?”  “is there something wrong with me?” You have abandoned a child that you helped create.  Not even to mention the woman that you helped to put in this position.