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” Aw, baby. You’re too little to use the grown-up potty. Sit on my lap, relax, and go potty in your diapee/pull-up. I’ll help you if you need it. “

” Do you need to go potty? Oh no, you’re too little to use the grown-up potty. I’ll take you to your little potty chair. “

” Let me cut your food up for you, sweetheart. You’re too little for such big bites. You could choke! “

” Here’s your bottle, baby… lay in my lap, you’re too little to drink it yourself. We don’t want it to spill on your clothes, do we? Let me hold it for you. Just put your hands on your tummy and relax~. “

” Uh-uh-uh! Those are adult clothes! You’re much too little for those! Let’s get you in a snug diaper/pull-up–after all, we don’t want you having an accident in big kid clothes~. Stains are hard to get out. We’ll find you more age-appropriate clothes too. “

” Uh-oh, did someone make piddles in their diaper/pull-up? Aw, don’t cry. You’re too little to know when you have to go potty. Let’s get you cleaned up. “

” Nap time, baby~. What’s that? You’re not sleepy? Don’t be silly, you’re too little to go without a nap, you’ll turn into a fussypants. “

” You know the rules; you hold my hand when we’re out. You’re too little to wander around by yourself. You stay by my side at all times. Or do I need to put you in a stroller? “

” Oh no, baby. The public bathrooms are for adults. You’re too little for those. Just go in your diapee/pull-up, and I’ll change you as soon as we get back to the car. “

” You’re too little to check yourself to see if you’re wet or messy. That’s my job~. And no, you can’t change yourself. “

” In the back seat, let me buckle you in nice and safely. Of course I’m using the child-locks. What’s that? You wanna sit in the front? Nuh-uh, you’re too little! “

” Oh, you silly baby! You’re too little to dress/undress yourself! Let me help you. “

"C'mon champ, just have a few spoonfuls and maybe I'll consider letting you have some apple slices and cheese cubes too, okay?"

"NO! This stuff is yucky! I'm not eating it, and you can't make me!"

"Baby Boy, I know you're upset, so I'm going to ignore the fact that you just went way over your spoken word limit for the day - although I know a certain crinkly chatterbox who'll be sporting a paci-gag during his stroller session at the park this afternoon.

This is what's for lunch. If you don't want it, then I guess you'll just have extra room in your tummy at..."

DINNERTIME

"Listen, Buster Brown, being our bouncing baby boy is your only job around here and commitment to our respective roles isn't something we take lightly in this household!

I hope you like your new mealtime accessories, because they'll be getting a lot of use from now on. Did our padded lil' picky eater think those cute star cutouts on the sides of his highchair were just for decoration? Guess again, Mr. Stinky-Pants. Looks like we'll need to order an extra strap to keep your feet anchored in the center - enjoy flailing your 'little piggies' around while you still can, wiggle-worm.

Now then, if you expect us to keep working jobs while you fill your pants in the baby bouncer all day and continue to pay for the 'privilege' of wiping and powdering your smooth little bottom on a daily basis - not to mention kissing boo-boos, cleaning Cheerios out of your carseat and reading bedtime stories - it isn't going to come without some tradeoffs to help balance things out.

We are the adults, and we are the ones who get to enjoy certain adult pleasures and entitlements - eating for enjoyment and not simply for nutrition being just one of them. The mature members of this family have made our decision and we are fully committed to transitioning our little bundle of joy away from the grownup privilege of solid foods permanently - whether he likes it or not.

Just like our sex-life is enhanced by watching the baby monitor every evening after 7pm, while our cute little crinkle-cuck thrusts away while locked in his crib, trying and failing to create any resistance between the thick memory foam topper and his hefty Huggies, heatedly humping away with what little mobility the ankle restraints allow in a futile attempt to get any relief from his chastity cage - so too will we savor every bite of our big-boy foods after seeing you endure eating your goopy glop while strapped into the highchair 3 times a day.

We tried to do it the easy way, let you go at your own pace, but unlike your locked little boy parts, it seems you only know how to do things the hard way. When will you learn that refusing to dip your toes into the water when we instruct you to do something is always going to get your squishy butt tossed directly into the deep end, my soggy lil' swimmer?

I think we'll start by making sure all your Kale & Spring Peas goes bye-bye, especially since I put some light sedatives into it that'll help relax your gag reflex and calm you down a little, though they probably won't kick in until at least half-way through.

Then, we'll move onto your main course of Boiled Turkey & Butternut Squash. Unlike lunchtime, I didn't add any seasoning to it, so it'll be extra gentle on baby's stomach!

Hopefully you'll still have room for that nummy bowl of Mixed Berries & Beets afterwards. Remember, only good boys who finish all their food get changed into nice clean diapers for beddy-bye.

That shouldn't be a problem though. With all the laxatives in those bottles, there should be plenty of empty space in your system by the time we reach dessert!

Now open up those hanger doors real wide, my hungry little man, because Mickey's plane is coming in for a landing - and he's not taking "no" for an answer!

Treat me like a little boy. Help me me pick out what to wear, and help me put on my clothes. Ask me if I have to go to the bathroom before we go on trips in the car, because little boys don’t always remember to stop when they’re playing. Ask  me which superhero is on my underpants today, and wonder out loud whether they’ll have to fight the Evil Pee Monster.

Check to make sure my pants aren’t wet every so often.

p loudly and say, “Uh-oh!” when you find I couldn’t stay dry. Take me by the hand to go change into something dryer, and more appropriate. Put on my pull-ups gently, but firmly, that you brought against my protests. Reassure me that it’s ok to have accidents sometimes, that’s just what little boys do. Give me my paci to calm me down when I fuss about my new, thicker underwear. Help me take my pants off so you can check my pull-ups when we get home. Ask me when my pull-ups got wet ,and how, and why didn’t I say anything to you. Take me over your lap when I admit I didn’t even try to make it to the potty. Pull down my wet pull-ups and spank me while commenting on how disappointed you are that I don’t seem to care about not going pee pee in my pants. Hold me close, and gently rub my red bottom and tell me it’s ok while I cry softly into your chest. Tell me that it’s bedtime, and therefore diaper time. Drag me away while I protest that I don’t need diapers, and it’s still daylight outside.

⬆️ The first breakfast baba of the day I mention below. Laying on daddy’s chest to start off the day…

One of the most recurring questions I get on this blog is: What does a full day in your life look like? What does little one do during the day? Is daddy home all the time? Does kiddo get any break during the day?

I had written a post last year about how routine made AB/DL work. At least for us. Like a lot of posts, you may have missed it because our blog got banned, but no worries, there have been a few changes since then, and I will explain everything below. If you have been wondering what happens in a typical day for my little boy, my partner or me, just keep reading…

Before I start, I would like to remind everyone that this is based on our life and our dynamic. There is no rule or model to live an AB/DL life and you can live it however you want to. Everything below may not be adapted to you, but this can serve as inspiration for others. Feel free to also comment any suggestions or ideas you may have, or simply share how you live your AB/DL life!

As a Daddy, one thing I have learned over the years is that AB/DL requires a strict schedule. If you are willing to fully commit, your days are inevitably reshaped and a routine is needed to go through feeding, changing, dressing up, baths and much more. As you can imagine, living like this for a weekend is very fun, but when it’s been going on for almost 30 months, there needs to be a structure.

Without a routine, I would probably have struggled managing work + taking care of my little one. With one, I was able to do it perfectly fine and still enjoy some quiet time in the evening to relax.

I know some of you enjoy those “daddy tips” I post as you might someday be in a position to have a little of your own, or you are simply curious and interested ! Below is how our routine works, so maybe it can inspire your own. Make sure to like and reblog, those posts take a long time to write and it keeps me going!

A quick summary for those of you who don’t feel like reading a post for 10 minutes.

A day in the life of my little pamperpacker contains:

- 4 babas (including one of formula)

- 3 or 4 changes

- 1 bath a day

- Several hours in his playpen

- At least 6 hours wearing a bib

- Yummy numnums and dindins lovingly spoonfed by Papa or Daddy…

- …And a lot of daily fun with Papa and Daddy!

For those who have been asking, our little one does get access to his phone when he’s in his playpen. There’s no parental control on his phone, but my partner and I have full access to his phone. We particularly enjoy when he’s on Tumblr scrolling through AB/DL content or talking to some of you guys as it never fails to make him a bit excited in his paddings and it is extremely cute to see him wriggle and try to get any kind of release through his cage and very thick Pamps. Daddies gotta have their fun…🤷🏻‍♂️

Our babyboy generally does not watch or read any content aimed towards an adult audience. It wouldn’t really fit his mindset. Occasionally, we will watch a movie with him that’s not too babyish, but he has to be a very very good boy for this.

Typical day

(weekdays or weekends are very similar)

7:00: Daddy and Papa wake up and check on monitor -

Alone time to get ready for the day, including morning run, shower and breakfast.

8:15: Daddy/Papa is ready and wakes Kiddo up.

First Pamp check of the day. Generally no change before breakfast no matter if soggy or messy except if already leaked.

8:20 : Breakfast for Kiddo

First baba of the day 🍼: Hot chocolate or regular milk only + a jar of fruit baby food spoon fed by Daddy or Papa.

8:30: First Pamp change + dressing up.

Most likely outfits: Onesie + dungarees in the summer & onesie + pajamas in the winter. A bib is always worn from that time until lunch time.

8:45: Kiddo goes and brushes his teeth on his own (now you understand why he’s wearing a bib already) and washes his face.

09:00: Daddy leaves for work and Papa works from home, or vice versa.

Babyboy used to have some time alone at home when Papa hadn’t joined our family, but it doesn’t happen as often now.

From 09:00 to 11:45: Kiddo is in his playpen, plays with his toys, watches cartoons.

Daddy/Papa regularly checks on him. He’s usually soggy by around 10:30, but no change in the morning.

11:45: Lunch (or "numnums") time.

Can be babyfood or mashed "big boy food" depending on days. Spoonfed by Daddy/Papa most of the time. Morning bib is supposed to be soggy from drool and is changed to food bib.

12:30: Done with Kiddo’s lunch, but usually stays a bit with Papa/Daddy when it is time for him to have his lunch.

Depending on his Pamps, there may be a change after lunch. It is all about checking if it can hold any more, or not.

12:45: Second baba of the day🍼: Regular milk.

From 13:00 to 15:00 (length can vary): naptime for Kiddo.

He doesn’t necessarily sleep the entire time, but it gives him some time to cuddle his plushies and rest a bit after a tough morning in the playpen! (Well, the main reason we make it at least two hours long is because it gives Daddy/Papa some time to work with no noise around, but don’t tell him I said that, or I will have a cranky boy around nap time😉)

15:00: Second or third change once Kiddo is up from his nap.

This one is the most likely to be the messy change of the day. It happens mostly during his naps, which Daddy/Papa can always hear and see on the monitor. Makes for very happy and proud daddies!

15:15 to 17:30: More time in playpen + third baba of the day🍼: regular milk.

Generally more crafty activities like drawing, painting, sticker books, flower pressing, etc. If an activity is too dangerous i.e. requires the use of scissors, Daddy/Papa must be in the room.

17:30: by that time, Daddy or Papa who was at work is back home and generally takes the lead to spend some time with babyboy.

17:45: Third or fourth diaper change & Bath time.

That’s the time of day the chastity cage may be removed for cleaning and put back on.

18:15: Dress up for the night.

Onesie of pajamas depending on the season and the thickest padding of the day. Either a double pamp, or a regular one with a booster. It is the last change until the next morning no matter what.

18:30 : Dinner time for Kiddo (or called "dindins").

Can also be babyfood or mashed "big boy food", even though evening meals tend to always include babyfood nowadays, whether only partially or completely depends on Daddy and Papa. Always spoonfed by daddy or papa.

19:00 : Playtime, TV or video game time

Next to Daddy and Papa who are having their dinner. This is the time Kiddo can play a bit of Switch if he wants to. He’s particularly a fan of "Bluey, the videogame", "Paw Patrol: World Adventure" and of a few "Mario" games if we’re playing all together which can happen from time to time. This also includes, just before bed, the fourth baba of the day🍼: formula.

19:45: Kiddo gets ready for bed.

20:00: 💤 Bedtime! 💤 Kiddo is tucked away in his crib. (21:30 during the weekend)

Daddy and/or papa read him a quick story and spend some more time with him until 20:15 or 20:30. Monitor music is turned on and all lights are off. Pacifier is in, a few Pamp rubs over his pajamas to make sure his little locked parts are all happy to get a good night of sleep and off we go.

From 20:30: Alone time until bedtime for Daddy and Papa.

You will see that this routine matches perfectly the Diaper Chart I shared with you all a few months ago on our previous blog. It gives a chance to our little guy to earn his weekly points if he behaves like a good boy. Once again, it’s all about creating a frame that works for you.

PS. : Nothing is set in stone in this routine, but 90% of the days follow this pattern.

Q: I don't know if you've been asked this yet but how many diapers does your little go through in one day? And do you have any tips for dealing with the cost of the diapers?

From @emonerdyboy13

A: My little guy generally goes through 3 to 5 Pamps a day. It really depends on a lot of things. The weather, if he needs to drink more, what time he gets up and what he’s up to during the day. You may remember the two editions of "Diapeefy", our very own yearly recap of babyboy’s achievements. On those posts, this little stinker achieved 978 paddings in 2024 and over a thousand in 2025! One important thing is that I have realized that he became quickly cranky when in need of a change. I am currently in the process of making him used to staying in soggy or messy Pamps for longer periods of time. Changes will not happen as quickly as in the past as I think it is important for him to enjoy the feeling of his diaps whether they are dry or soiled.

No real tips when it comes to the cost of those precious crinkly underwear unfortunately. They are expensive, that’s a fact. I would recommend not using proper AB/DL ones if those are too expensive and use simple white ones you can find pretty much anywhere. They still do the job! Don’t change right away and make sure you have really used them to the fullest before getting another one.

Q: Hey Question for Daddy. First i really like what you do and i have to admit im very jealous . Sorry if i ask something that was asked in the past but is there stuff that your baby didnt think off at first that end up being quite embarassing for him or that he actually regrets with his baby life compare to his old life.

From @littlenick24

A: Oh, there are plenty of things he did not expect when he started being my little one. I did not introduce everything to him at the beginning and still keep bringing new things, so any day can bring something new, and that’s the exciting part for me and embarrassing part for him!

The most recent examples have been the babbling and the drooling. I’ve already written about these, but as you can imagine it still makes him very embarrassed whenever I ask him to babble for me for some time. It has become more natural now though, so this is a work in progress. Drooling is however still not natural at all, and I still need to remind him everyday that I expect his bib to be wet by the end of his playtime or cartoon time. He’s been doing much better as he initially kept complaining that having drool on his chin was "cold and yucky". Poor little one, life is so sooo tough…

Q: In your recent post you mentioned a papa, would they ever join the account and how did they find out about your dynamic ?

From an anonymous follower

A: I will definitely write a longer post about that one day as I think it needs a proper and detailed answer. We met through ABDL connections and something clicked instantly. Surprisingly enough, he was also on the "daddy side of things" and had never had a little of his own. Since then, he’s had lot of things to discover, but also a ton of ideas to make little guy even more blushy and babyish.

Q: What do you think about little ones that have tattoos from when they where still acting big?

From an anonymous follower

A: No problem with that. Those tattoos will serve as a reminder that they were one day living as adults, but that it is now over or just play pretend. How about adding another one to balance everything out? Winnie-the-Pooh, Mickey Mouse, Bluey? Options are endless😉

Q: I’m curious to know your little one is reacting to wearing diapers for longer and to this possible loss of continence. Does it scare or frustrate him at all ? And how is dad handling it all? Has it changed your daily routine at all?

From @speedykoalastarfish

1. Public paci usage - I’ve got my little tyke hooked back on his paci for regulation and comfort and he basically never takes it out his gob, this has lead to a couple of unfortunate incidents and tantrums where the boy won’t want to wear it in public ( say for example a cinema showing of Thomas the tank engine) but his behaviour worsens and he gets very anxious, I don’t want to not ever let him leave the nursery again 😆 as I think those moments in public where he fully realises that this is his life now are incredibly affirming / beneficially reinforcing for him, but I also dislike how much genuine worry it causes him.

2. New - I’ve found someone! Got drinking at an abdl event we hit it off, they were incredibly well receptive of the lifestyle dynamic all good. Went on a couple date. Introduced her to the kiddo all good. Something to note is I’m bisexual and this person is woman, my toddler back when he was allowed to be a grown up identified as gay. This dynamic is making his little head spin slightly, do you have any ideas or notions on to help make him feel more at home with his mummy. The little man is currently on a liquid diet and my girlfriend did suggest that she’d be comfy taking lactation supplements so she could nurse him which he has expressed interest in before (idk I’d just love your opinion generally on this as it’s a very unique situation that you also seem to have an insight into)

3 - I’d also just love a breakdown of the small reinforcements you push onto your little one to help keep him in headspace, it was really hard for ours at the beginning to let go and whilst he’s come leaps and bounds into understanding he is not a big-boy anymore it still does occasionally rear its ugly head. The wand with baby food is inspired and we have adopted it! Is there anything else or similar you do that helps keeps your little one’s head nice and correct that I could pinch from you 😆

All the best

Daddy Al

Well, that is a very detailed question if I’ve ever seen one! Thanks very much for asking, I always enjoy diving deep into our dynamic, so that’s ideal.

1. The "paci in public" situation has never really been an issue with my little one. He does love using his paci during the day or night, but isn’t attached to it to the point of needing it in public. That’s something I’ve always paid attention to because I try to be mindful of others around us and wouldn’t like it to be too obvious. Of course, there’s in reality nothing wrong with someone using a pacifier, but it could be surprising or disturbing to some and I wouldn’t want them to be affected by it. That’s only my opinion. How about putting his pacifier in his pocket for reassurance, or replacing it by another way to soothe him such as a small plushie or babyish keychain? Do you hold his hand in the street? Thats definitely something I recommend and do with my little guy. Nothing more reassuring than holding daddy’s hand in public. Otherwise if you have a car, I guess a pacifier inside isn’t an issue and could be a temporary fix to make him feel better!

2. Congratulations on meeting someone, that’s exciting and will for sure bring a new side of your relationship which will be full of experiences. That is something I have also been experiencing the last few months as I also met someone (Woohoo!🎉). You may have seen a few hints in my previous posts, especially when I talked about an “extra pair of hands” to deal with my pamperpacker. 😉 The only difference is that the person I met is a man, so there’s no shift as major as in your dynamic, but the end result is the same. It is very tough for a little one to get used to someone new. Just think about it. You start as a couple, then slowly regress him and now he has to share you as well? Tough! But this is what they need and what will make them happy eventually. However, this must be a common agreement between the two of you that he is OK with it. Once this is agreed, you’ll need to go step by step. Start with a meeting during the day with the three of you, then with a dinner, a picnic, a movie night. Small moments that will help you all bond together and form a “family spirit”. Then once he has gotten used to it a little more, how about your new partner staying overnight? That will be another kind of emotions for your little one. And from then, keep adding little steps to ease into this new lifestyle. Do not force things and make it natural. Don’t go too quick into giving your partner responsibilities with your little one, otherwise that may quickly become too overwhelming for both parts! The time will come and it will be all the more enjoyable and rewarding.

It is all about taking time and making sure everyone is happy and comfortable. I’d be happy to share more about how my little guy and new partner got used to being around each other so that our little family got together nicely! Would you all be interested?

3. Of course, there are a lot of ways to get your little back into the right headspace. I’m glad the wand and babyfood combo was a great inspiration!

Other suggestions that come to mind would be:

- to encourage your little one to babble;

- to set a chart with weekly “babyish” objectives such as having a drooly bib, filling his Pamps, eating with his hands, playing with certain toys, color and animal learning with daddy, etc;

- make sure to use humbling and embarrassing sentences such as “you’re too little for that”, “this is for big boys only”, “do you think someone who messes his Pamps gets to do this?”. There’s never too many of them. Always good to remind him of his place, and blushy cheeks are always cute!

- create a routine around something that you know will make him feel little instantly. More than 2 years ago when I started this new lifestyle with my kiddo, I bought him a classic sticker book where he could create his own animal character and dress them up with the silliest outfits. It was a random purchase and I never thought it would become a routine and something that we would still do together every week to this day! He is now always in a little’s headspace, but whenever I feel like there may be a tiny bit of big boyness trying to sneak past his paddings, I bring out the sticker book, put him on my lap and he falls right back into being a little boy. It will be your job to find what could be the trigger, but it is a lovely thing to have. Kind of like a superpower 😉

I hope this helps, thanks again for those great questions.

Long post incoming

As usual when I do a Q&A, I will gather some of the questions in one post to make it easier to read and reduce the amount of posts. we have received a lot (thank you!), so will probably split the answers in a few different posts though. So don’t worry, the answer of your question may come in the next one !

Q. With your boy being 24/7 how do you deal with the smell from the used diaps? It's my daddy's biggest complaint about me wearing and I'm not even 24/7.

From @emonerdyboy13

A. Well, that’s just part of the game. I am the one who decided to put my little guy back back in Pamps, so this is something I had to consider. It is a lot of work and maintenance and a genie is absolutely necessary once you reach several Pamps a day. They keep the smell away and they’re also fun when you make your little one open the genie to take out this giant bag. “Yes, you’re the one who did this and it did not even take you that long, little boy. Does it stink? Well, better take it out now then! And yes, you can do it in your pajamas, it’s 10 seconds away…”. The smell isn’t great and it may well be something you/your daddy never get used to and it is fine. It may simply mean that your way of experiencing this lifestyle would be a bit different than ours and that’s perfectly fine.

Q. I am wondering what baby’s nursery is like? Does he sleep in a crib? What kind of designs/pictures are on the wall? Changing table?

From @marshallbestpup

A. That’s a good question which I have been asked quite a lot. I have decided not to show my little guy’s nursery here simply because I want it to be his secret place. Where he can feel fully safe and secure. It’s sometimes a bit frustrating because I would like you all to see the work I put in to make it as cosy and babyish as possible, but I also want it to be his place, just for him to see and enjoy. Maybe one day I will show it, but not for now, so let me describe it to you.

First of all, there’s no actual crib. None of the giant cribs we sometimes see in pictures. It is very difficult to find and also takes up a lot of space. I also don’t like the idea of him getting stuck if I’m not able to take him out. It is a small detail for some, but this is the kind of things that need to be taken into account when you live like this 24/7. What if something happens to me and I can’t open the crib for him? What if there’s a fire and he needs to get out without me? Well, quite dark thoughts, but safety first! Instead, I got him a regular single bed surrounded by four safety bed rails which you can find online pretty much anywhere and which act as barriers. I got the longest models I could find so they actually surround the whole bed and really act like a crib, so we still call his bed a crib. What’s a crib? A secure place for little ones to sleep so that they cannot get out and get hurt. That’s exactly what his crib is. I still need to lower the rails down if he wants to get out, but he could easily climb up if needed. However, he is absolutely not allowed to get out of his crib by himself ever (except emergency), and a few tries already got him in trouble… Only the side barriers need to be lowered down, the one above his head and the one at his feet never really move.

Of course, I have added a mobile in his crib. It is wooden with four dinosaurs dangling. I’ve also put a little lamp next to his bed which I can set to play a lullaby for a set amount of time and it is such a great tool!

Since I bought him a single bed, I can have a lot of fun with the bedding options. Pretty much everything is available in this size, so it ranges from Paw Patrol, dinosaurs again or even the jungle! One thing I forgot to mention to help you picture the room more easily: the walls are painted in a very light green and white. The theme of his nursery is generally the jungle or Dinos depending on the bedding. Green goes with both, so this babyboy has options 😂

Last thing I forgot about his crib is the mighty monitor. I couldn’t go without it. It records kiddo’s crib 24/7, even when he’s not in it, but at least I never forget to turn it on… It was quite expensive, but has all options I need and very important for all mommy or daddy reading this: make sure to buy one which has a recording option! You will sometimes need proofs to show your little one what they did and why they have been naughty. I can also talk through it when I’m in another room and I absolutely love it. “What is it you’re doing under the covers right now? Do you think Dadda can’t see that? Don’t make me come in your room buddy…”

There’s no actual changing table, but I turned a dresser into one. It is pretty much a chest of drawers, so the perfect height for a changing table and very sturdy. The drawers are filled with Pamps, powder, wipes and any other thing I may need during a change such as gloves, scented bags, chastity cage, buzzy wand (and even “bum bum plugs”, but this is for very very special days 😉). I bought an AB/DL changing mat and done!

Oh, one thing I should mention… a small drawer is specifically dedicated to his very last pair of big boy briefs. I sometimes make him open this almost empty drawer to check if it’s still there, or if maybe there’s now a second pair. Just in case he were growing up and would need more, but no still one to this day. Just here as a symbol and won’t be worn in a long long long time…

The rest of the room is what you would expect. A giant jungle-themed rug. Plushies all around, a playmat, light strings and lamps. A lot of paddings and different kinds of outfits even though his clothes are mainly in my room because of lack of space.

Q. Question for Daddy, how do you and your little boy interact day to day?

Does daddy ever address the kiddo in an adult fashion, or is it strictly like speaking to a toddler?

Does babyboy have any kind of restrictions, or does he talk like a big boy?

From @iheartpacis

A. What great questions once again. What I like about this blog is I can see how you also got to know us over time. Initially the questions were more about the surface of our relationship, and now we’re getting into some deeper questions about the day-to-day and how it actually works.

This concept changed over time for us. At first, we pretty much talked to each other the same as before and I would tease him a little here and there. This is simply due to the fact that he still had a normal adult life at the time, so there was less time and occasions to do anything else but talk normally. Now that he’s been fully living as a toddler for over 18 months, we mostly talk to him in a babyish way, but not even on purpose, simply because it fits the situation. How should my partner or I talk to him when he’s filled his Pamp? How would you talk to someone who’s playing in a playpen and drooled all over his t-shirt? How would you address someone whom you’ve just bottle fed and burped? There would be an odd switch that just wouldn’t feel natural.

The only times I still talk to him like an adult is when we’re outside and people are around. I am sure that my tone still is a bit softer than before because he sometimes blushes and asks me to stop talking to him like a little one in front of other people. Oops, I just can’t help it 🤷🏻‍♂️

When it comes to how my stinker talks, he’s generally asked to use his little words and you may have read in previous posts that I have started getting him used to babbling in 2026 and it’s been quite a success!

Q. How long did it take your little one to stop complaining or noticing they were in chastity?

From an anonymous follower

A. Stop complaining? Never! Even though I have tried to keep him unlocked a few months ago and it didn’t work out. He still complains very often that his little willy wants to be free in his Pamps. You will all remember that he was the one asking to be back in chastity earlier this year because it was too hard not to touch his diapees. I guess it will just take a bit longer than expected. At the end of the day he does love being in chastity as it make his “naughty sticky times” much more intense 😉

He doesn’t really notice that he’s wearing and forgets about it until I tease him a little bit (or a lot). The hardest thing for him isn’t being caged. It is that he is never allowed to touch his naughty parts when he is uncaged. The only times he’s not caged is either when wearing his Pamps which he isn’t allowed to touch, or when he’s being bathed by my partner or me, or during a change when we’re also around. So we are the only ones touching and he better not try.

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Q. Question for little one. What has been your favourite part of regression with your daddy ?

What is one thing you miss or sometimes think about from being a grown up ?

From an anonymous follower

A. Hmm, my favorite part is that Dadda took charge of everything for me and I felt safe and taken care of. 🙈 Daddy made it go slow so it wasn’t too much at the start and now I’m very happyyy! I was a lot anxious with work when I was still a big boy and now it’s no more stress, so that’s very nice !

But sometimes I miss big boy things like being able to watch anything I want on TV or order a pizza if I want to. Even though I’m lucky because Daddy (and now Papa) are nice nice to me and allow me to watch sports like big boys do because they know I really like it 😃 I also sometimes miss using the big boy potty… it’s silly but sometimes I just wish I’d have a clean bum or wouldn’t smell bad, but it’s also sooo nice to be in diapees hehe, it’s tough😝. And in general it’s just a lot of rules to get used to, so it can get a bit difficult to always be a good boy, but Dadda and Papa are here to help me.😇

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That’s the end of this first Q&A session, but we’ll reply to more in future posts.

Would you, too, like to have a diaper baby that has no reason to come out of diapers? Would you like your diaper baby to be so useless for sex and penetration that they never have any excuse to be untaped from their Pampers? If so, this training is for you! Destroy your diaper baby’s sexual endurance so they can’t last long enough to ever have a reason to be undiapered.

Your “orgasm training” program starts with a few simple rules: -Your diaper sub does not have permission to touch themselves without permission. -Your diaper sub should be prepared to orgasm often - and regularly. -Your diaper sub should have a way to track time. Most cell phones offer a stopwatch capability that can easily be forwarded to you upon completion.

You may also choose to include other various rituals with your orgasm training including use of certain toys, watching only censored or other types of porn, methods of clean-up or cum disposal, or other things that fit your dynamic. If you’re training them to be your subservient diaper sub, you might as well train them alongside other sexual ideals while you’re at it.

Set aside a lengthy time period where all orgasms for the submissive will be quick and succinct. You may have to limit yourself use of your human “toy” during your training to achieve this. I recommend a month or more for full efficacy of this training.

During the training time, the submissive is not allowed any sexual touch of the genitals. Showering and bathing with cleaning purposes is allowed, but no sexual touch is allowed. During your agreed-upon timeframe, any time the submissive touches their genitals - with permission from you, of course - the only goal is orgasm as quickly as possible. Once sexual touch is begun, the only possible outcome is orgasm - and as quickly as possible.

To allow variance in training, you may consider assigning various porn viewing or other adult activities to be done before any touching is started.

To track progress, it is recommended that the submissive (or yourself) start a stopwatch and time the duration from first genital contact to the orgasm.

With regular training sessions (4-8 a week), you should see slow improvement to your submissive’s orgasm time. You may choose to correlate this with their need to wear diapers or include humiliation play to make them aware of their place - or just to include more fun within the training regiment.

Notes: -If you find that your diaper sub is now trained to a certain type of penile/vaginal sensation for orgasm or are concerned about it happening, require other sensations and orgasm methods. While this may make it difficult to accurately track training progress over time, it will require the submissive be accustomed to orgasming quickly with many different types of sensation. You may consider sex toys, diaper rubs, humping objects, and other sensations.

So my Mommy and I have decided to try something new! We are going to reduce my sexual endurance. The idea was inspired by this post that I ran across a few weeks ago. After some training, I’m hoping I won’t be able to make it more than a few strokes before I cum.

Mommy has toys that satisfy her much better than I can, so she likes the idea of our intercourse being as short and sweet as possible. I like the idea of being trained and shaped to someone else’s pleasure and comfort, so win-win.

If you don’t feel like reading the post, here’s the gist of what my training entails:

- No touching myself without permission. This includes diaper humping or rubbing through my diaper.

- Unapproved touching will result in being locked in my chastity cage until the next training session.

- All contact with my penis should result in an orgasm, as fast as possible

- Stimulation will be timed from start to finish to monitor progress.

- All stimulation will be proceeded by ABDL content or porn.

Well, well, little boy. Honestly, what do you want me to think about it? Premature ejaculation is just your best-case scenario now.

Cumming faster makes you more childish. Little babies like you are weak, so why would you last more than 30 seconds? Soon, you'll see Mommy's tigh and your wittle acorn will automatically make its silly spurties. And that's it. Another baby mess in a baby diaper, only to be taken care of when Mommy decides it's change time.

Cumming faster makes you more behaved. You'll finally realize that your wittle peepee doesn't qualify to be considered a cock. Your Mommy will start the search for a Daddy, and you'll assume you're lucky she sticks with you when she could have any Man by her side. So you'll obey to every desire of hers.

Cumming faster makes you more pathetic. No real man would admit being a premature ejaculator, let alone wanting to become one. And it's perfectly fitting: a messy, dumb little baby whose non-existent dick makes stickies in less than a minute. How humiliating.

Cumming faster makes you pure. Once you're trained to make quick spurties, why would Mommy need to show you her body? You'd get banned from seeing any nudity: that's for grown-ups. And you'd get excited anyway.

So yeah, I think it's a wonderful idea to train you to cum as soon as you can. And tell your Mommy to write me a message. I need to tell her something.

Brandon wanted to be totally in charge, to have absolute control over his little one. The idea of so totally dominating a grown man, rendering him absolutely helpless, was what excited him most of all. Of course that would require more than just roleplaying. No, he needed his little boy to really be helpless, mentally infantile.  

To that end he also chatted with some other Daddies. These were men like him, who wanted to take charge. One of them, a man the screen-name MasterDaddy24, had developed a programme to help him reduce his baby boy to true little tot mentality. He sold it to him in the form of a phone app. He only needed to show it to his special little guy and he’d be putty in his hands. 

A couple weeks later he made contact with a Little named Rob, a twenty-something who’s pictures were perfect and who had exactly the attitude and desires Brandon was looking for. Rob wanted to be a one-year old baby boy, totally dependent on his Daddy for his every need.  They chatted for hours at a time for a couple weeks, then Brandon made his move, asking for a meet up. Rob was hesitant at first, but eventually agreed. 

Two weeks later Brandon drove over to Rob’s house, trembling with anticipation. Rob answered the door looking just as nervous as Brandon felt. 

“Hi there,” he mumbled meekly. 

“Hey there buddy,” Brandon answered, putting on his best daddy voice. “How you doing?” 

“A little nervous,” Rob admitted. 

Brandon reached out and put his hand on the man’s shoulder. “There’s noting to be afraid about. Daddy’s here now,” he said confidently. 

Rob looked like he might cry for a second, then lurched forward and embraced Brandon in a tight hug right there on the front steps. Brandon was surprised but equally delighted and quickly embraced Rob right back.  

“You’re a cuddly boy, huh?” he cooed. 

“Yes Daddy,” Rob whispered. 

“Good boy. Let’s go inside now,” Brandon suggested. 

Rob nodded and let go, leading Brandon into the house. It was clear he’d already set it up for what he expected to be a quick play date. There were toys on the carpet, a changing pad laid out with a diaper bag next to it.  

“You want to get padded right now?” Brandon asked. 

Rob bit his lip nervously, clearly not quite ready to be stripped naked and diapered quite yet. So Brandon changed tack and said, “Maybe we should sit down and talk a bit first.”  

Rob nodded eagerly now. “Yeah, that sounds good.” 

They sat on his couch and Brandon decided that there was no point dragging this out. Either the app would work and this was going to be a life-changing day, or it didn’t and he would have a nice play date and head home.  The suspense was killing him too much to wait longer. He got out his phone. 

“I have something that might help you get into character a bit,” he suggested. “Can I show it to you?” 

Rob looked a little nervous but nodded. “Um, okay I guess.” 

Brandon smiled and tapped the icon on his phone, careful not to look himself as it opened. He had never tested it before of course. It wasn’t like he could try it out on himself. He could only cross his fingers and hope.  

“Just look at the screen and let yourself relax,” he urged Rob. “I promise it will feel very nice.” 

Rob nodded and looked carefully at the phone as Brandon held it facing him. Rob blinked and Brandon looked closely at the man’s face, looking for his eyes to get all glassy and distant, or for his facial muscles to relax, maybe for his shoulders to slump. 

But nothing happened. Shit, he thought, it was a dud. And sure enough Rob shrugged and looked back up, eyes still focused. “What’s it supposed to do?” he asked. 

“Nothing, I guess,” Brandon sighed, turning the phone around and looking at the screen himself. 

It was a scramble of colours, like a kaleidoscope. And as he looked at them, very, very quickly he felt drawn in, felt the colours becoming his whole world. His mouth dropped open, his shoulders slumped and he forgot where he even was until he felt a hand settle on his shoulder. 

“That’s a good boy,” said a kind, gentle voice. “Just watch the colours, look so deep into them. You’re doing a wonderful job.” 

Brandon did as he was told, he had to. He felt more and more relaxed. All that worry and tension just floated away. He smiled lazily, his eyes going empty and glazed over.  

“I’m sorry about the trick,” Rob’s voice reached him, sounding distant.  “I’m afraid the programme doesn’t work on me since I designed it. I’m MasterDaddy24 you see.” 

Deep inside Brandon registered that he’d been tricked, that he was in very deep trouble. But he didn’t move, he couldn’t. It was like his mind and body were disconnected. 

“We’re very alike, you and I. I realised that early on in our chats. You wanted the same things in a baby boy that I did, with one exception. I didn’t want a willing Adult Baby to volunteer for it. That’s no fun at all. No, this, this is what I’ve always dreamed of. And I must thank you for making it possible.” 

Brandon wanted to scream, to panic, to fight back. But his heart-rate stayed low, his body calm, eyes glassy and focused only on the phone. He knew what Rob was saying though, he wanted a permanent, mentally regressed baby-man. He was going to wipe his brain of adult intellect, turn his mind to mush. And there wasn’t a thing he could do to stop it. 

“Well, there’s no reason to delay any longer,” Rob whispered, reaching out and taking the phone from Brandon’s hand. 

The colours slipped away and Brandon found the will to at least blink, to look up and see Rob smiling at him. He was coming back to himself, he was going to be able to move in a second and then he’d run. 

“Deep sleep,” Rob ordered. 

The world went black and the last thing Brandon was aware of was all his muscles relaxing, his body crumpling to the floor like a rag doll. 

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Brandon awoke lying on a soft bed. His adult clothes were long gone, his jeans and t-shirt stripped away, his shoes and socks likely packed away in a box, not to be needed again. Instead he was dressed only in a simple baby’s onesie, a truck design on the front, a bulge around his groin where the onesie just fit over the very thick diapers he was wearing. 

Brandon blinked and gazed around the room, taking in the crib on the other side, the big mobile dangling above it. He bit down on the rubber teat in his mouth, looking cross-eyed at the adult-sized pacifier between his lips. 

He smiled. The binkie bobbed back and forth as he began to suckle on it. It felt nice, it felt natural, normal. His body squirmed on the bed, his long bare legs wagging back and forth. He caught sight of his bare feet. He gazed at them with curiosity, grabbing at them, pulling at his toes. He was enraptured by them, amazed by how they wiggled. If he didn’t have his lovely bink to suck on he’d surely try to taste those tootsies. 

You wake up from your nap with a sudden realization. You remember having that conversation with Daddy not long ago—about wanting to wear more diapers and embrace your little side slowly, sounding so grown-up about your decision. But the clarity of your adult mind is short-lived. As you stretch, you feel an inexplicable sense of profound relaxation, and you slowly sit up, realizing this nap felt different.

You're sprawled out in the play area you and Daddy had set up specifically for days when you feel smol. The realization of just how babyish this situation is washes over you as you try to stand. Your legs give out instantly. You fall back with a soft thud, the thick bulk of your diaper cushioning your bottom perfectly. You look up to see Daddy there, smoking his pipe with an admiring smile. He offers your pacifier, "I made some adjustments while you were taking your nap, little one" Daddy said. A small blush rises on your cheeks.

You try to stand again, but before you can get your balance, Daddy gives your diaper a firm squeeze and scoops you up into his arms. The embarrassment spikes as you are held tight, unable to stand, and you realize just how full your diaper already is. "Seems like my baby is almost ready for a diaper change," Daddy says, a mocking grin playing on his face. You hadn't even noticed, but the pacifier he offered earlier was already in your mouth.

Confusion swirls in your mind as your adult side feels the urge for a tantrum, while your little side just wants to pout. "Awwww, looks like my baby woke up pouty after their nap," Daddy muses. "I'm adding an extra layer to keep you protected for playing with Daddy." Your mind screams "extra layer!", but all that comes out is a tiny, adorable complaint: "But Daddy..." Your pacifier makes you sound so sweet.

Before you can even process the word "extra," a new layer is cushioning your bottom, and getting up becomes completely impossible. "Now I know why you're confused," Daddy says. "You went to sleep like a grown-up and woke up like Daddy's baby, didn't you? Well, don't worry, I've got plenty of reminders prepared so you don't get confused again." He sits you in his lap, your adult side struggling to resist until he finally places you on his knee. Being bounced on Daddy's knee while your heavy diaper gets weighed down sounds ridiculous to your adult side, but you're already there, enjoying the game.

Your brain slowly begins to surrender to the moment. Daddy lays you back in his arms, holding a giant bottle of milk to your lips. You don't get a chance to respond, and even though part of you wants to protest, the other part is enjoying it. Which one will win? The gentle pats against your padded bottom while you drink your milk finally silence your adult voice. Just one more detail to make everything fit the baby of the house perfectly.

The doorbell rings, and the thought of what else Daddy has prepared for you completely vanishes. Daddy puts you on your playmat and tells you to finish your bottle if you want to play more. Just the memory of you bouncing on his knee makes you forget the doorbell entirely. Daddy opens the door and directs the visitors to your room. There you are, in your super poofy diaper and with a bottle in your mouth. There's nowhere to hide, and you can't run with that super poofy bum.

“Sorry, the baby is a bit fussy with the adjustments, but the crib should go here, and you can take the bed out," Daddy announces. You heard that right, crib, he says. The two guys start moving, watching the baby on the playmat. They get to work, and you do yours, being a good baby for Daddy. Suddenly, you feel the double diaper bursting. Heaven help you, not even a triple diaper would hold it. Daddy approaches, scooping you up to carry you to the changing table in your room.Those in charge of assembling finished the crib while Daddy finished the diaper change. He picks you up and shows you your new crib. "Tell the gentlemen thank you for their help," he says, removing your pacifier. You thank them, feeling completely embarrassed, while they coo, "Such a good baby," as Daddy puts you back on the playmat, patting your diaper. "Now go play while the adults talk."

For me, I want a boyfriend as well as a baby. But I expect my partner to work as well, and we’d go on dates and normal boyfriend stuff. But he’d also always be my baby as well. I like the idea of even when he’s having to pass as a big boy, we both know that he’s my baby.

Though from your blog, I know your baby doesn’t work, and doesn’t really ever have to pretend to be a big boy ever. Which is awesome for you, not many can pull that off! I don’t think a full time baby would work for me anyway. Mainly because of family, which I remember you mentioning wasn’t an issue with you two.

So I was just wondering if you thought of him as both or not? Also does he think of you as his boyfriend or only his Daddy?

Hi there, another great question right here, thank you! I feel like I have been writing a LOT these past few days so, apologies for our followers who prefer pictures, but I do like a question that dives into the intricate details of a full time AB-DL relationship.

Short answer: I don’t see my little one as my boyfriend anymore.

It’s a thing of the past and it does not mean I don’t love him anymore. It’s actually the opposite. My love for him has taken a complete other shape where I feel like he’s under my care and needs me. It is a very special feeling and I really enjoy it. I’ve always wanted to be an AB-DL Daddy and this was not a decision I made hastily. Once committed, there’s no going back! My life right now is all I could have asked for. So no, there is no couple intimacy anymore between us, but instead more intense cuddles in daddy’s arms and paci kisses. Why do you think he’s (almost) permanently locked? No need for that anymore except maybe for a special crinkly cuddle with his plushie! 😉

I personally don’t see a way that would make me see him as a little one and as my boyfriend at the same time, because it doesn’t fit in our dynamic anymore. When changing someone’s full Pamps for two years, feeding him and wiping his drooly chin, the relationship becomes naturally different. The main thing to understand about how we live is that he is constantly in little space, except if something special requires him to be a “big boy” for a bit, but that pretty much never happens.

However, I’ve said it before; there’s no model to follow and to each their own. This is how it works for us, and it probably would work differently for anyone else.

So, to put it simply, I only see him as a kiddo and that’s all. I guess he also only sees me as his Daddy though that’s not something we have ever really discussed, so I could ask him.

The good thing is, we’re both very happy and content as it is. And you know what? It does not prevent me to still go on dates. I may even have a second pair of hands to help me deal with this little pamperpacker, but this may be a story for another day…😉

I’ve recently been asked at what point I realized that my little one had hit a point of no return. What was the moment I stopped seeing him as a man?

It is a great question and something I don’t think I have ever taken time to explain, so here we go.

First of all, I guess there were a lot of steps that made me realize he was embracing his new role in the house, and that he did not need to be considered a man anymore. Of course, the easy answer would be his first messy or sticky Pamp, but I’ll try to pick a few more interesting examples that clearly indicated me he had regressed to where I wanted him to be. When it all started we had both agreed that he would be regressing to a toddler’s age. It was very much exciting, but also a bit scary for him as he had no idea how or when this would be done, but of course Daddy had a plan 😉…No need to hide and pretend to be a man anymore, Daddy’s here to make it all better.

- Bedtime. At first, he always complained about his bedtime being “too early and boring because it’s not even dark out!”. After a few months, he had adjusted to it and even felt sleepy much earlier than before. Going to bed at 8:00pm is not an issue at all anymore and it makes it all easier. He gets his sleep, and I get some time for myself.

- Drooly bibs. 24/7-AB/DL is about letting go. The first step was of course to let go in his paddings, which he quickly did. But one of the very last (and quite recent) things I have asked him to do more was to let go and have a drooly chin as much as possible to “make Dadda proud”. You know that making Daddy proud means rewards… And rewards mean a very motivated little one. From then on, he started to drool a bit more, at first on purpose and then not even really paying attention to it. A large paci does help in those situations. I even had to add bibs to his day outfits as I would often find him with wet t-shirts or pajamas after a couple of hours spent in his playpen.

Probably not very comfortable, but oh-so cute!

- Babbling. When he got used to filling his Pamps, I could see that he was not embarrassed about them as much as before (and rightly so, because there’s nothing to be embarrassed about!)… but, you know I love a blushy stinker, so I had to find new ways to make his little cheeks flush a little. The solution was very easy: by adding a few simple motivational sentences such as “Smells like someone filled his Pamps in here… Daddy better hear some “babbly babbles” for a bit, or he may forget there’s a little boy in the house and forget to change him!”.

Oh you should have seen his face the first time, and the hesitation, probably thinking “Uhm…how do I babble?”. It was extremely cute, actually one of the cutest memories I have of him to this day. Then, came some tries and an adorable babble pattern that’s now unique to him!

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Of course you need to remember this all took time and did not happen overnight. If you were to ask a grown-up to do these kind of things, you’d probably get laughed at. However, my little guy’s regression has been gradual with a lot of efforts from him and support from me, so that he could be his true-self again.

So yeah, those would definitely be some moments I realized my kiddo was not a man anymore, but why fight it? He’s been filling Pamps for over two years now (over a thousand in 2025 if you remember our previous blog!). He is changed, bathed, fed and dressed up by me every single day.

An early bedtime, a drooly bib or babbles are just small elements in his life. Nothing unusual anymore. Just a little boy living a little boy’s life wearing larger pajamas than most 😉.

We’ve talked quite extensively about the benefits in having your partner wear diapers 24/7 (or as close as possible) for their mental health and your relationship.

But getting to 24/7 or having diapers as their default underwear isn’t super easy especially in the first few weeks. Many people reading this will have tried 24/7 and managed a week or two before it fell apart or watched their partner say they want to try 24/7, start and then silently let it slip away a week or so in.

This is where you as a partner to a diaper wearer can make a critical difference and ensure it’s a success in the long term.

But first some hard truths about 24/7:

- It would sometimes be a lot easier for them to not wear a diaper

- It add extra planning and inconveniences to trips out of the house

- Sometimes things can get smelly or embarrassing

- Throwing on underwear would be quicker when they’re in a rush

- They will sometimes not want to wear a diaper or feel shame/regrets about the whole 24/7 idea

So how can you help?

Internalize the idea that they NEED to wear diapers and this is a PERMANENT thing.

If you’re hoping this is just a phase and don’t really want them to succeed in going 24/7 it most likely won’t but your relationship will likely suffer as a consequence.

Also try reset your expectation of them to being that they wear diapers all the time and they need them to avoid accidents.

Provide consistent encouragement, especially in the first month

It’s extremely likely they will be feeling worried & anxious about how you are finding them being 24/7 and will be plagued by all the fears they’d had growing up about having these desires.

Being silently ok with it isn’t enough and they’ll probably just assume you’re hating it & them. So make sure to provide encouragement to them for wearing and using their diapers.

There are several areas of encouragement to provide:

1. Acknowledge their diapers as being normal.
Tell them you’ve laid out a fresh diaper for them in the morning, ask if they’ve packed a diaper bag before leaving the house, ask if they need to order more diapers or if you should pick up more baby powder when shopping.


2. Provide praise for wearing diapers.
Tell them that diaper looks cute on them and that you’re glad they’re now wearing all the time. Check they’re wearing a diaper when they get into bed or when you leave the house and say something like good boy/girl for wearing it. If you see a public restroom or have to go yourself mention that they’re lucky they’re wearing their toilet (this makes my baby blush)


3. Provide praise for them using their diapers.
Talk about the state of their diaper in a positive way for example saying “I’m glad to see this diaper held all of your pee ok” or “remember you should just let go straight away now you’re in diapers”.

Messy diapers will likely cause them the most anxiety so be extra aware in those situations and don’t just ignore it. If you detect a messy diaper acknowledge it with something like “Is that a messy diaper I can smell” or “I think someone might need a change” it can be slightly embarrassing but just saying something shows that you’re not surprised or annoyed they’ve messed.

If you haven’t noticed a messy diaper in a day or two, ask them if they’ve need some help to use their diaper and tell them explicitly that you expect them to use it for everything. Administering a suppository to help force the issue can also be a great way to show you’re serious.


4. Assure them it is discreet.
A fear when wearing diapers 24/7 is other people noticing as often they’ll be wearing in public more than before. Provide simple assurances that their diapers are discreet and that even you struggle to tell.

Even an obvious diaper bulge to you would go unnoticed by the vast majority of people so a small white lie to give them confidence will help a lot even if you can just see the outline of it. Interestingly the more confident they are the less likely others will notice as they wont be touching their bum etc out of fear it might be noticeable.


5. Make it clear this is permanent 
Them wearing diapers 24/7 is now the new normal and you should make sure they know you’ve accepted and expect that.
Talk about diapered plans far into the future, for example if you have a vacation coming up in a few months mention that you’ll need to make sure to order enough to last or discuss if shipping diapers to the hotel is the best option.

Start discussions with confirmation of this reality, e.g. “Now that you’re going to be in diapers for the rest of your life…
…maybe we should convert the guest room into a changing area”
…lets look into laser hair removal for your groin”
…we should order diapers in bulk”
…I’m going to throw away your old underwear”

Tell them things like “It’s funny to think you’ll never use the toilet in the house again” or “I’ve got used to the fact you’re now always going to be in a diaper”, or “I wonder how long it will be before you lose control at night and in the daytime”

You’ll like notice a positive improvement so assure them you’re happy they’re now 24/7:
“Things have been better now your always in diapers so I’m glad this is permanent”
“I can’t imagine you without diapers now “
“I’m keeping you in diapers from now on, I hope you know that”

Be prepared to “force” them to wear

I can almost guarantee that one day you’ll see them putting on underwear instead of a diaper or realize they’re not diapered when they should be.

Do not be silent. Tell them in no uncertain terms that they need to be wearing a diaper and to get changed immediately, ideally take them and diaper them yourself.

Equally something might come up where they ask if they can not wear a diaper. Maybe you’re going out for the day or some other activity where diaper wearing will be more inconvenient. Push back heavily on this unless it was a pre-agreed exception and tell them no, they must be wearing a diaper.

The other high risk time is post orgasm especially in male partners. The low following this is prime for feelings of shame and regret, so even if they don’t say anything make sure to put them straight back into a diaper and provide positive encouragement about their diaper wearing.

Be prepared for challenges

While you’re both getting used to the new reality of 24/7 it’s very likely some things might go wrong.

Their diaper will probably leak at some point onto clothes or furniture, try laugh these off and learn from them.

Their messy diaper might cause you to react instinctively in a way they perceive as disgust and cause them to feel ashamed. Counter this quickly by apologising and assuring them you do want them to use their diaper for everything.

They might forget to bring a spare diaper with them on a day trip and need to change. Ideally you should approach a problem like this with the mindset that they need diapers so just changing out of it isn’t an option. Go into a drugstore with them and buy some more diapers to wear as a temporary measure, the embarrassment of this will likely help you both make sure a diaper bag is always with you.

Normalize diaper wearing in your house

Now they’re diapered 24/7 and the expectation is they need diapers and use them, it shouldn’t feel hidden or secret.

A dedicated changing area should be setup with lots of diapers and changing supplies on display. Invest in a diaper pail / genie to make disposal easier. Hang up their ABDL clothes in this room. Empty their underwear draw and replace with diapers.

A spare bedroom can often be converted for this purpose. Design it in a way so the room can be locked or items easily hidden if you have guests.

Buy a diaper bag and have it packed and ready to use for any trips out. This can be a real diaper bag but for more discretion a small backpack can be used, ideally buy one that’s more juvenile than a plain black one.

Add a mattress protector to your bed to protect against inevitable leaks.

Convert their wardrobe to suit their diapered status

Early on after making the switch hold a fashion show where they try on their clothes while wearing a thick or wet diaper. Anything that doesn’t hide their diaper well put to one side to go to goodwill.

Next go shopping while they’re thickly diapered to find new clothes which work well. General rules are darker & loose fitting bottoms hide diapers well and dresses and skirts are great for women. Overalls can be super cute and combined with onesies for discrete abdl wear. Longer tops can help hide the extra padding around their bum.

It also might be worth expanding your ABDL clothing for use at home so they have a full wardrobe of options to wear daily.

Get involved

The best way to show your support is to get as involved as possible in their diaper wearing.

Ideally try take control of their checks and changes when you’re around. If you’re uncomfortable with messy changes that’s ok (but honestly they can be the most intimate and positive events if you’re willing to try).

Pick out diapers for them to wear if say you’re not around to change them into a fresh diaper in the morning. Browse and buy new diapers for them. When shopping add diaper/baby supplies without comment such as powder, rash cream or more ABDL items like a kids no spill cup or a cute teddy.

(Side note of one of the things I did which made my partner incredibly happy was coming home from a normal grocery shop with a toddler plate and cutlery set and telling him I thought they would be cute for him. Later he told me this made him feel so accepted and loved 🥰)

Pack a diaper bag for day trips or help him pack enough diapers and supplies for a vacation. Try make this as matter of fact as possible, “Do you think these diapers will be the best for daytime”, “Have you packed your swim diaper”, etc.

Be involved in dressing them with a view to not hiding their diapered state at home. At night especially they should always be in ABDL attire which makes it obvious they’re diapered and in the daytime where possible too.

I do believe that most 24/7 diaper wearing should be combined with ABDL activities as well. At a minimum use ABDL diapers and clothing with pacifiers and bottles used where possible. But definitely experiment with things like crawling, bibs at meals, holding a bottle for them and feeding them. Baby talk can also be a lot of fun to tease them with.

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