Personal Development Blogs

In life, there's one pivotal to pursue as you grow older is to keep dreaming. Dreaming is about getting your preferred goals and aims in your life as you enter into adulthood you will be experiencing a vast amount of opportunities to joining into the community also dreaming is influential to us humans because sometimes dreaming on your own is to get into the mirage of your subconsciousness to confronting the cruel reality as your coping mechanisms to feel at ease or to feel empowered so that their anxiety is to lessen, it's only for others who underwent a traumatic experience. In my perspective, when I say dreaming means that is to be successful in life and getting your career that befitting on you because when I become a radiologist soon in the future, I prioritize my family first to payback their hard work that supports my necessities since the day I was born and I let them treated like the way they cared for me. Remember that always keep dreaming no matter how serious the situation is or you are in a dilemma that you can't surpass but you wouldn't know that the impossible somehow to be overcome.

In this time of adversity that we face right now, we all tend to focus on the global issues that include pandemic. During the turmoil, we have forgotten to address terrorism in this matter, as I thoroughly scroll on media every single day, all I can see is the increasing number of patients who were confirmed positive in the pandemic. Terrorism is an unlawful act of violence toward civilians and intimidation, especially the pursuance of political aims. Sadly, we overlooked these issues for terrorism that it should not be accepted continuously harassing innocent citizens to put their lives in peril and releasing outrage to the government for the sake of their standards. However, despite all of that predicament, we need to keep moving forward to hope and spread happiness towards people to show we are stronger and resilient.

The reasons why we need to spread happiness and optimism in the middle of crises or issues in these times we face and to show the lawbreaker that we are not helpless. To prove that we oblige to inspire other people instead of releasing a negative aura towards them despite the terror, illness, and violence spreading throughout the world. We all experience adversity in life, and it is utterly natural to feel outraged, sadness, exasperation, and uneasiness. All of those trials and tribulations we are witnessing right now it is important to keep those smiles and joy to experience the best possible life.

In conclusion, regardless of the adversary in our world includes the pandemic, economic decline, and terrorism. We should not be pessimists and moping in times of crisis that leads us to surrender ourselves. Therefore, it is pivotal to remember that no matter how severe the world that we are facing is we need to show that we keep living and move towards a destination that helps us reconcile with others and build our capacity to endure when things go wrong.

As I watched the movie clip of "Tanging Yaman" it enriches me that how important to have healthy communication and relationship with your family members even though your family is not wealthy to buy anything and no matter what the obstacles that we encounter to face it as long as you have the capabilities to support each other, unite, and most importantly unconditional love. In my case, as the only child in the household, I always keep in mind that in good or bad times, families can provide the affection and encouragement a person needs to be content. It can be inconvenient to find friends or purpose in adulthood. If a person has a strong family, they will always manage to find the love and support they need. With their family behind them, a person will find the motivation and courage for success. On the other side, if a person isn’t getting love and support from a family structure, they’ll feel lonely, depressed, and even hopeless. Lastly, families are the first place where children learn how to manage their emotions, interact with others, and communicate. It’s also the first setting where kids learn about consequences, either positive or negative. Parents are responsible for guiding their children, providing life lessons that scrutinize back on for years to come. These lessons form a big part of a person’s worldview and how they believe the world works.

On the 23rd Day of March, Among the 3 videos posted our Teacher in my Personal Development is the "Apo" Grandchild. This video that I binge watch has impacted me and heartwarming because when I was an infant my parents left me on my grandparent's side to my father, Both of my parents were busy with their work to support my necessities for providing my needs given to my grandparents. A few years later when I started to grow they're the ones who always clean my wet sheets in my bed and they're also provided with my lunch every day when I go to school and many other things to assist me always, Grandparents Unconditional Love will be always inherited to my heart and I won't ignore their empathy, love, and acceptance for me because of their love they made me like this a loving grandchild who will be take care of them in the future to payback their time and hassle for caring with me always.

Nobody can do for little children what grandparents do. Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over the lives of little children.

On the 22nd day of March, As I upon taking the 5 love language test the results I got is the Quality Time which exactly true to me because I love spending time with my family and friends who were close to me that accepted for being who I am and understanding my feelings without judging my appearance or my personality traits. When I say Quality Time for my perspective I got pretty demanding to spend with people who are dependable and trusted on my listed names that I care about even it's annoying for them but my intentions are to interact with me and giving some word of encouragement so that I wouldn't felt dejected and depressed all the time that's what I need a kind of attachment and care because it makes me feel special for me that they really care about me and who also save me from the depths of my despair in life, I don't really mind gifts or lovely messages to treat me the one thing I do want is a genuine and authentic relationship.

LEADERS SHOULD NOT BE AUTOCRATIC

“Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you’ll start having positive results.”

- Willie Nelson

What makes you happy? When are you happy?

It makes me happy when my goals and career in life able to be accomplished because its makes me my hard work is worth it until I commited it and also my family, friends who also be there with me to support and guided my path to the right way without them I won't be in this state right now. But Happiness is a crucial part in our life because happiness brought us to be happy and jubilance in our self that bring benefits to our immune system but remember we need to balance our emotions like we need to feel genuine our emotions instead hiding into our self, we don't need to pretend instead let it out and free. Secondly, when I feel happy where I place on the tranquil essence with surrounding nature that makes me feel calm and compose because I can pounder my thoughts and feelings to be remedy from my problems in the reality also it make feel ease my inner self to know my purpose in lif l. But let's not forget our creator himself because without him we wouldn't be feel the happiness that he create for us and bringing us a prosper life.

2 Corinthians 6:10

"Our hearts ache, but we always have joy. We are poor, but we give spiritual riches to others. We own nothing, and yet we have everything."

Why is the brain considered as superior event to the most powerful computer?

If we compare our brain to the computer there is a different contribution that brought benefits to our daily life. Computers are just for organising the files, create documents, web surfing, online gamimg and many more if we think logically computers is just an AI (Artificial Intelligence) the ones who control the system and data which is being follow the protocol and energy without any emotion. Unlike the brain bring us many function like we can touch, smell, taste, thinking and move because we are capable to imagine and create like we are the ones who made the computers that's why the brain is more powerful than the computers. But without the creator itself we couldn't experience this unique part that the creator made this.

Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.

Ephesians 5:15-16

When you dealing stress there is a different attributes of stress like positive way and a negative way. In my life when I dealing with stress that I need to cope it I always tell myself to do meditation and pounder your thoughts so I can focus my mental state that leads to depression and breaking point. Sometimes we people keep pressurising our self to become into that clique you join instead you are the one needs to be you because if we continue to nurture that it leads to causing stress. To neglect that we need to stand up and courage yourself also do open communication so you can deal with the predicament that you are in for you to uplift your soul and mind to be equanimity.

“Remember, most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is. Adjust your attitude, and all that extra stress is gone.”

In life there is a time that we tend to compare our self because we didn't trust our ourselves trying to belittle our dignity, its saddened to me that as we continue to grow as a adult or teenager our will in life start to get tainted due to the environment we step in people keep throwing incessant opinions that we didn't serve or weren't capable enough that's we started to create our flaws to compare them. So we need to thoroughly to stop self-deprecating and continue to live as fully, be embrace and love yourself. I know adolescence is a crucial important to our life but we need contemplate, solitude, and strong now matter what the hindrance come to you, say "I can do this".

 “If you continuously compete with others you become bitter but if you continuously compete with yourself, you become better.”

No matter what happens in life, be good to people. Being good to people is a wonderful legacy to leave behind.

-TS

Above all, be true to yourself, and if you cannot put your heart in it, take yourself out of it and embrace to forgive yourself.

Upon hearing the song forgiveness by Matthew West it changes my self its like the song trying to tell me that I should be exploit my emotions that I shouldn't burden the emotions that I contain to myself. It's the hardest thing to give away the pain and suffering everyday I encounter because anger is my worst enemy but I shouldn't feel isolate and lost on my pavement instead creating the path to lead you in the light by bringing virtue and joy. Remember that no matter what unpleasant happen I should deceive the mind and body to be mindful to your decesion.